When I've stopped BF I will...

[JustKeepSwimming]

...eat whatever I like
...get drunk
...lose baby weight x 2 (at the same time as eating whatever I like )
...get DH to put both boys to bed on HIS OWN
...go away
...let MIL have both boys LOTS

...have no excuse about not losing weight/having butter on my toast/snacking during the day

You?

I'm not BF but I'll join you in all of the above

Buy lots and lots of gorgeous, beautiful, attractive, supportive bras. And then I'll just have to have matching knickers, too.

throw a party to celebrate and book surgery for my now deformed boobs.

miss it .

aw beansprout. that;s a nice twist you put on the thread there. I missed it lots when I stopped.

But I will buy some nice underwear too!!!

... absolutely miss it enormously.

But I will be burning my greying nursing bras in the front garden and whooping maniacally.

snap beansprout! DS has now stopped BF and I'm feeling a bit

ooh yes! new, pretty, underwired bras

• have a bath longer than 2 mins
• have a long shower with door closed
• decent bras
• casually walk around the shops... alone
• use body oils/shower gels/lotions etc. rather than plain plain shower gel
• wear thinner tops as I don't have to worry about wet patches/big round circles where breast pads are
• have a decent drink
• get DH to look after the two just one evening

• drink a cup of tea while hot
• eat dinner at the table (not one handed from arm of sofa)
• type 2 handed

(one handed right now as it happens!)

i'm bf and i do / have done all of that.

be sad...

BTW, have just worked out that a front closing "normal" bra works fine for bf an older baby (DS = 21mths).

I have a Calvin Klein one on right now and although it's not pretty pretty, it's v. good under a white top and a change from my horrid old nursing ones.

this one in nude

• probably get up the duff again!

Oh gawd, yes the underwear, i can see the credit card bills now
and matching, DEFINITELY!!!

hey beansprout oh yes i will miss it too, but it will be 42months (9+12 x 2) since my body was purely mine and i am on a bit of a countdown!!

Will hopefully just have a year off, then start all over again

...will walk past the breast pad part of the supermarket and NOT STOP!!!!

Be very old.

Ladyofwaffle I'm afraid that most of those will not change whether you are bf or not!

But I have done most of the above (otherwise no way would still be bf DS2 still!)

Am even off for a week next week without him but a little unsure about whether we will continue bf or not when I return.

front closing bras sound good - underwired tho??

...not need to wear something to hold pads in place all night, woohoo!

Any reason why you're not eating whatever you like and getting drunk now? You can do both those things and bf

What is the problem with underwired, after say, 6 mths when you are pretty much back to normal size?

I can see they'd be uncomfy before that, and have heard about blocking milk ducts etc. but surely after a while it's not an issue???

I wear my normal bras in the day to work.

sleep with no bra on, woohoo
wear tight tops
let DH touch my boobs (maybe..)

oh yes and miss it terribly

i've wondered about underwired before but always felt it was 'verboten' so stuck with my bf bras (some of which i like...)

...get back into all my 'small' tops (if i lose the weight too obv!)