OK - it took me a few minutes to find several threads where ff mothers were offered information and help and shared experience, with no heated debate or people taking offence, or people accusing others of insensitivity...all these threads are here, now, current and still on the board (oldest post in them is the day before yesterday).
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/1364/556163
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/1364/555708
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/1364/555724
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/1364/553783
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/1364/44762
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/1364/550402
There will be more, but I decided to see how far back I had to go to find half a dozen, and you can see the answer is 'not very far'.
It is just preposterous to suggest we need to label threads or people - people do not need to worry about things kicking off, or if they do, they just have to avoid labelling people as insensitive. Easy peasy