OK, Who has breastfed their DP or DH?????

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Come on then is it really that weird??

ANy Dad's out there??

No, I just don't see why women have to be seen as sexual objects all the time. Why does everything that we do have to have these sexual connotations attached to them?

I agree with georginars (and because she sent me a lovely Indiana Jones card yesterday!) that breastfeeding, for me, was about me and my baby, not about dh!

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But we're talking about consensual fun between two adults who are presumably both up for it, not a woman being pressured into something she doesn't want. Mothers can feel sexual, too, and without being an 'object'.

at copulating weirdies

oh I do agree that mothers can feel sexual (when awake enough!), but breastfeeding my partner regularly as part of our 'sexual repertoire' (i.e not just accidental squirting)? - no, sorry, just too weird for me.
obviously what 2 adults get up together is their own business, but don't expect to think it's not exceedingly odd! and I do think there would be a very weird mother to my DH vibe going on which would turn me right off extremely quickly

Yes it doesn't appeal to me I must say. Just thought the whole concept was getting a bit of a bashing - I don't see it's anyone else's business really.

Thing that gets me is DP hates milk normally.

that is disgusting. I bf dd but DH got no where near neither would he want to. If DH were meant to we would have a constant supply of milk but we dont. Its for babies, leave it that way.

i think that women should feel sexy even when they are a mother but why does everything have to be about sex?? BF was a very imtimate and loving thing between me and DD and if any one was to any way turn that into a sexual thing they are seriously wrong!!

Hear hear Georgiesmum!

Thank you rhubarb!

I am surprised this has got such a strong reaction. Personally I don't care if I ever have sex again. I'm hoping it's the hormones that have changed while I have been breastfeeding. DP has the odd suckle out of curiosity I think but given that I don't even enjoy bfing dd I hate it when he playfully wants some. One year on and my breasts are still sensitive and sore.

give baby a feed before sex then that sorts out the problem of any milk leaking i found i had a hungry baby and she used to drain both breasts