tiktok -no it's the other way round. I was saying one reason I don't like seeing them advertised in places frequented by breastfeeding women is because in some circumstances they can cause problems with breastfeeding (eg oversupply, soreness, problems with baby's latch if used to express to give bottles in the early days etc). I wondered if you agreed that they could be unhelpful sometimes, which it seems you do
, and whether this had any bearing on your view, which it doesn't. We disagree. No need to make a mountain out of it
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Aitch
, I'm sorry you had a rough time,I have read about some of your experiences as they happened. As I said further up, I too was reliant on a pump for my DC1. Having to express repeatedly round the clock is tiring and I, like many, found a big burden. I wouldn't want that experience to be 'normal'. I don't mean you're abnormal, so please don't misunderstand. I appreciate that it can be isolating to be in that situation and think I sort of understand what you mean.
However, there is something in our culture now about expressing milk. I have had friends with babies whose friends without kids are unable to understand why they couldn't leave their breastfed baby for a number of hours to attend social events. "Can't you just express some milk?" is the question, thrown in as if this is the most normal thing in the world. No mention in the advertising that it's common for new mums to not be able to express much on top of breastfeeding and that they might have to express repeatedly to get enough for just one feed; no mention that some mums never manage to learn to express much with any kit, despite breastfeeding fine; no mention that some babies won't accept milk from any receptacle other than their mother's breast. Where do people get these ideas from that expressing is an easy and convenient alternative? Yes, it can be, for some and in some circumstances. But why is it expected somehow? I wonder if adverts that talk about expressing milk as being "quick and easy" could perhaps be playing a role here? also, what woman who has just eeeked out the normal few mls by hand or with a pump she owns might not be attracted to buying a pump that makes these sorts of promises? Yet in some cases it'll make no difference, or in fact supportive suggestions for using her existing pump more effectively might be more beneficial.
As SPB says. Making money out of breastfeeding mothers.