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February 2010: Babies have started arriving...

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woowa · 19/01/2010 11:46

and here we are...who'll be next?

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woowa · 02/02/2010 18:20

Yay for ktpie! Looking forward to hearing name and that you're recovering well once you have time. xxxx

Interim update:

T4tastic DS Aiden James 17/01/2010 ?weight?
AngelaCarleen: DD Poppy Elizabeth, 25/01/10, 5lb 7oz
InmaculadaConcepcion DD Rosie Ines 26/01/10, 5lb 1
Jardins DD Angélique Aelig Rose 27/01/2010, 3.8 kg
Ktpie DS 01/02/2010
Clappedout Induction booked 27/01/2010
Mamaloco c-section booked 28/01/2010
GuernseyFrench induction rebooked 03/02/10

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becks130 · 02/02/2010 18:37

ktpie congratulations

sorry ladies but I am on to have a moan! Is anyone else feeling TOTALLY fed up? I have had enough and feel that I can't take much more, I just want my baby. I can't stop crying because I have just had enough I am in constant pain as my SPD has returned as a result of this I'm getting almost no sleep and DH started a new job last week which means that he leaves at 6:15am and he's not home til 7:30pm, I feel like a single parent.

I'm now 38 weeks with a big baby so was hoping she would come early, it will be just my luck that she's 2 weeks late

Sorry for the morbid post, no one else seems to understand and just keeps telling me that it's not long now, not what I need to hear.

InmaculadaConcepcion · 02/02/2010 19:15

Thanks Abs, very kind of you to say!

Boy, is it a steep learning curve - but I feel like I'm taking it in my stride so far. The books I used for pre-baby swotting were and are really helpful - I think they've helped me prepare mentally for the whole thing, so I'm managing to feel too overwhelmed so far. Mind you, this is the babymoon!!

As for the feeding, they were absolutely brilliant at the hospital, gave me masses of support to get the breastfeeding going and I would have been tempted to give up otherwise.

Oh, ladies - I'm totally egging you all on with your births (those that want them sooner rather than later) - I didn't quite get to the frustration stage of wanting her out before she beat me to it, but I can imagine how it feels all right.

As for MIL - mine is visiting us this weekend, not sure how she's going to be, but the phone calls have all boded well. Fingers crossed!

InmaculadaConcepcion · 02/02/2010 19:17

ooh! congrats ktpie!!!!

yay!!

sunnybump · 02/02/2010 19:32

Congratulations Ktpie, you're evening up the boy/ girl ratios! Hope those stitches heal quickly and looking forward to hearing more when you have the time.

IC your MIL will be absolutely fine, she will have your gorgeous little girl to concentrate on My MIL used to be a nurse too, seems to be a pattern forming here! I know they mean well and I do love her to bits, thanks for letting me vent.

Becks hang in there. The hormones are a bit crazy but it all will be fine. Have you seen your MW/GP about the SPD to check everything that can be done to help is being done?

chinook · 02/02/2010 20:26

Congratulations from me too ktpie hope you are all doing well. I must say I am very heartened that those of you who already have your babies are able to come and post so often. Gives me hope it won't be too overwhelming.

I am glad I am not the only one getting fed up now. I was happy to wait for my little byndle but now I just want him to come out. I don't even have any major probs any more just feel so tired and huge. Oh and grumpy as hell! Only 3 days to go until my due date so keeping my fingers crossed, although I have had absolutely no signs yet.

On the MIL front, mine lives round the corner and is lovely. As long as I don't have to spend more than a couple of hours in her company! She still calls my dp her baby (he's 42) and when I first moved in with him she would come round and tidy up, sort out cupboards (including throwing things away) and generally interfere be helpful. As I fly for a living and am away a couple of nights most weeks this happened a lot. In the end I made dp change the whole front door and we never gave her a new key. watercress I think we may share a MIL.

Good luck to everyone, especially GF tomorrow.

bethylou · 02/02/2010 20:46

Congrats KTpie - think you are a lady with a toddler - hope you all settle into life together well. Not surprised at lots of stitches as such a good weight. Thought I was going to join you yesterday - baby hadn't moved all morning and I was very uncomfortable so went in for monitoring. I had about 20 tightenings in the 30 mins of monitoring so they thought they would see me overnight or this morning but everything has stopped. Can't decide whether to be relieved or disappointed!

MILs - I used to have huge problems with mine but I have to say since DS1 arrived she has been really good (apart from a 9 week sulk when he was 4 weeks old because we refused to drive to hers an hour away in the evening when DS1 had colic and tended to scream for 3 hours!!) I decided to let her get on with it and not react and since then she has pretty much done things on our terms. I think she has realised that if she behaves like that these days she risks not seeing her grandchild/ren.

She is coming to stay when I have the baby so I have even been out and bought a new shower curtain as ours was looking so gross. She is the cleanest person I have met and every time I clean something, I just spot more dirt. However, I know that she will do it all again when I'm in hospital, so I don't really know why I'm bothering and think I should just leave her a list of stuff to do!!! She's bound to do something really obscure too (normally involves rearranging my ornaments for me ) and DH and I have been trying to guess what it might be!!

Good luck GF - you sound remarkably calm given the circumstances.

FluffyCoo · 02/02/2010 20:48

Yay Ktpie! Congrats, congrats! Hope you get chance to update us soon and those stitches aren't giving you too much grief!

Aw Becks, sounds miserable - you've come so far though, just this last little hurdle to go! Keep going chick - one day at a time! Oh and don't deprive yourself of cake... it's sure to help you release birth-friendly endorphins!

stoofadoof · 02/02/2010 20:52

ktpie congratulations!

toothache here has now spread into my ear, bottom jaw, side of my head, right eye and sinuses/nose... am thoroughly miserable, but on the plus side have an appt at the dentist on thursday... just hope he can do something to sort it out, as have now barely slept (even less than usual!) for 5 nights... (it's been a public hol here and everything closed so no chance of an earlier appt)

grump

threeplusone · 02/02/2010 21:07

Wow lots of posts today..
Huge congratulations Ktpie..

Feeling alittle better, done lots of housework, cleaning, bleaching washing putting clothes away.. today.. A bit annouyed with myself as shouldnt really be doing it but i cant help the urge.

Little mans movements are few and far between now during the day and if i sit I am more aware of his not moving.. once evening comes he wakes up and lets me know.
At the midwifes again in the morning. was hoping to take DS2 to mums and tots but weather is too bad and I dont trust myself walking with him in the ice and the snow so I am going to leave him at home with my FIL and get the bus into camp then home again.

TBH I think even my children are fed up with mummy being pg they want the old mummuy back who getsw on the floor and messes about, instead of the grouchy moody mummy who wants to sleep.... and cant get down and up of the floor...

Hope everyone is well and thank you for the kind words of reassurance..
Need to catch p on all the posts..
Take care everyone and lopoking forward the birth announcements.

GF good luck for tommorrow and sorry today got cancelled musyt be really annoying for you xxx

fiziwizzle · 02/02/2010 21:17

Oooh congratulations ktpie! How lovely, almost bang on your due date, what good timing. Lots of get well vibes for those stiches .

GF what bad luck for you, best of luck for tomorrow. Hope that you're still feeling positive, you sound as if you are.

sunnybump sorry to hear about your mum .

I saw a healer today for my insomnia who basically told me to give myself permission to do less and relax more . So that is my mission until LO arrives. Hurrah!

Nikki87 · 02/02/2010 21:18

Congrats ktpie =]

All those with MIL problems, I?m very lucky, my MIL is so nice, she is a little bit of a cleaning freak, but she understands not every1 else is like that, I have more of a problem with my grandma, constantly pestering, touching stroking [!!] bump, ever so slightly slagging of DP's side of the family as if she?s going to be the best, and she wants to know as soon as i go into labor as she wants to be one of the 1st people at the hospital!!!! How about no, lol, but she?s also very touchy so i don?t want to tell her as she will get very upset and flustered..... Ahhh well, just one of those things i suppose.

GF, bad news about the induction, hope everything goes ok for you tomro and that we will see a post off u in a few days with details of baby

hope every1 else is ok, lots of posts to catch up on

verylittlecarrot · 03/02/2010 00:29

Congratulations ktpie!

scoobyd00 · 03/02/2010 07:59

Congratulations ktpie - wonderfull news.

Now that I'm a lady of leisure (well at least for a week or two!) I've copied and pasted the list from the last thread so we can see who's expecting when. It was last updated on 21 Dec and I know we've had a few join the thread since then, so please feel free to update.

Arrivals

T4tastic DS Aiden James 17/01/2010 ?weight?
AngelaCarleen: DD Poppy Elizabeth, 25/01/10, 5lb 7oz
InmaculadaConcepcion DD Rosie Ines 26/01/10, 5lb 1
Jardins DD Angélique Aelig Rose 27/01/2010, 3.8 kg
Ktpie DS 01/02/2010
Clappedout Induction booked 27/01/2010
Mamaloco c-section booked 28/01/2010
GuernseyFrench induction rebooked 03/02/10

Expecting

27th Jan Devotion DD1 6yrs & DD2 3yrs
1st Feb Moth2, 1st but also stepdaughter 3 yrs
2nd Feb Raindroprhyme DS1 8y, DS2 4y
2nd FebBusymummy22 DD 6y, DS 3y
2nd Feb Dee2009 1st
3rd Feb sunangel88 1st
3rd Feb verylittlecarrot, 1dd 2y4m
4th Feb mothrof2boys, Musicalmummyjules DD 7
5th Feb chinook Dd 3.6yo
6th Feb ems147, 1st
7th Feb comeonbishbosh
7th Feb grin DS 1 yr 6 m
7th Feb mamaloco DD will be 5y near due date
8th Feb fiziwizzle, 1st
8th Feb gingerkirsty, 1st
8th Feb PinguCarrier, 1st
10th Feb Lovelymonster, 1st
11th Feb Woowa 1st
11th Feb MarieKL 1st
12th Feb Nikki87
12th Feb Fluffycoo 1st
12th Feb Yummylilmummy 1st
12th Feb binzle 1st
13th Feb mignightsun DS 3y
14th Feb tryingtobemarypoppins DS 21months currently!
14th Feb Clappedout DD 21m
14th Feb Pops78, 1st
14th Feb Glynnispig 1st
14th Feb Threeplusone- DD 12.11yrs DS1 5.2yrs DS2 2.1yrs
14th Feb Stoofadoof, DD 2.11
14th Feb CocoK - DC3
15 Feb flyingcloud 1st
16th Feb GuernseyFrench 1st
16 Feb Watercress DD1 2y 10m
16 Feb esselle - DD 5.1y, DS 20m
16 Feb hannahsaunt - ds1 (8.11), ds2 (6.5), ds3 (23mo)
17 Feb Bethylou - DS currently 16 months
17 Feb Becks130 - DS 3.5 yrs
17 Feb Mrsjeff - First
18 Feb Sunnybump - First
19 Feb Sharon137-
19 Feb Extremelychocolateymilk - DD 2.3
20 Feb Gert ds 22m
20 Feb Cluny 1st
20 Feb Rainbowsprite
21 Feb Pyjamababe - First
22 Feb Skibelle
22 Feb Scoobydoo 1st
22 Feb Enoko, 1st
23 Feb 2Happy ds1 4y ds2 2y
23 Feb (twins!!) Insanitybecomesme DS1 9yrs, DS2 7yrs. DD3y 3m, DS3 21m
23 Feb TheOldestCat DD 2.9y
23 Feb Phee96 DD 9m
24 Feb Elebereth
24 Feb TotallyAndUtterlyPaninied DS 15m
24 Feb MidgetGems
25 Feb AbsB, 1st
25 Feb Climberchick, 1st
27 Feb Westlondongirl
28 Feb Mawbroon Due DS 3.10yo

flyingcloud · 03/02/2010 08:24

Congrats ktpie - hope you are all doing well and recovering from your exertions.

xx

flyingcloud · 03/02/2010 08:24

Oh and I meant to say that I saw on the January thread that Devotion had had a baby... meant to link to it but brain has gone to mush...

mawbroon · 03/02/2010 09:11

Hi everyone. I have just had a quick read of everything I missed on here yesterday, so congratulations to ktpie, and good luck today to GuernseyFrench.

I had my scan yesterday. For some reason I thought my placenta had been low lying, but it turns out I was in for them to check an anterior placenta. The good news is that it has since moved, so that is one obstacle to a VBAC out of the way. Baby has been lying in some crazy positions for the last while, but he managed to get himself into a decent head down position for the scan. I don't know if he is going to stay that way though. He is still pretty wriggly and I often get the crazy shaped bump with the huge hollow in the middle. I think this is when he is lying sideways. I see the consultant on Friday, but I will probably be none the wiser. I am guessing she will say, just wait and see..... oh and there is no doubt that it's definitely a boy.

While I was at the hospital, I went along to get a new plaster. The old one was feeling loose and like it was hanging off the top of my ankle and rubbing on the surgery wounds. The new one feels much better. I guess the swelling has maybe gone down a bit, and the muscle wastage will have made my leg a bit thinner too. Naturally, obstetrics and ortho are at completely different ends of the hospital, so I had to experience a hair raising wheelchair ride courtesy of DH.

I also had a physio appointment and he gave me some exercises to do, just to try to keep the strength up in my thigh and to check I was using my crutches ok. They run a self referral drop in clinic there, and I wasn't there as early as I had wanted because of the snow (we got about an inch and a half overnight) and the receptionist said that he already had his quota of patients for the day, and come back tomorrow. I must have looked like I was going to burst into tears, and I said but I am heavily pregnant with a broken ankle, I can't come in here every morning on the off chance that I might get an appointment. So, all of a sudden, she found an appointment for me.

I have made up my own exercises to do in the event of having a c section and a plaster cast. Lie on bed, curl up into a tiny ball, pull the duvet over head and hope it all goes away. Repeat as often as neccessary.

I have quite a quiet day today, only one trip out to the library if the ice has melted. I will also prepare the tea and do a load of washing and clean up the kitchen a bit. I am able to get around with one crutch now (until evening time when I am tired) so having one hand free makes it far easier to get on with stuff. Tempting as it is to sit on the sofa all day, I think just getting on with it is probably the way to go.

HappyBump · 03/02/2010 09:45

Jardins - just popping in to say huge congratulations! Beautiful name.

Your baby arrived on my original due date and my baby arrived on the 18 Jan!

binzle · 03/02/2010 10:12

Massive congrats to all new arrivals and good luck to everybody booked in this week.

Mawbroon you make me feel so guilty up and about doing stuff with a broken ankle and toddler, as today is my first day without builders for three and a half weeks (after saying they would only be 5 days) I am going to enjoy the peace and quite by staying in my pj's and watching crap TV all day on the sofa with my cats.......may as well enjoy while I can I suppose.
Also had really weird breastfeeding dreaming last night so a bit freaked out (again) so will be doing your exercises and singing la la la........

Clappedout · 03/02/2010 11:36

Hi all,

Just thought I'd let you know I have a very little baby boy called Otto!

I was induced last Wednesday which was pretty grim but when labour finally kicked in it lasted 1 hr! Otto was only 4 lbs 10 oz in the end so he had low blood sugar and was carted off to the special care ward on a drip for 5 days. Very distressing seeing him with wires and tubes but thankfully he is doing well and we came home yesterday. Enjoying the peace while he is in sleep mode..not for long I fear!
Oh and thanks to his size I came away without a stitch, can't quite believe that bit, it is my second though and trying not to be too smug about it, my heart goes out to others suffering more than me in the nether regions.

Congrats to Ktpie, what a bruiser! I hope you are healing and both doing well.

FluffyCoo · 03/02/2010 12:36

Yay, yet another arrival! Congratulations clappedout, glad you're both Ok. Updated list below.

Mawbroon I am, as ever, completely in awe! If I was in your shoes/cast (!) I would probably be languishing on the sofa whining my head off! You are amazing!!

Arrivals

T4tastic DS Aiden James 17/01/2010 ?weight?
Sunangel88 DD ? 23/01/2010, 6lb 11oz
AngelaCarleen: DD Poppy Elizabeth, 25/01/10, 5lb 7oz
InmaculadaConcepcion DD Rosie Ines 26/01/10, 5lb 1
Jardins DD Angélique Aelig Rose 27/01/2010, 3.8 kg
Clappedout DS Otto 27/01/2010 4lb 10oz
Ktpie DS 01/02/2010 9lb 7oz
Mamaloco c-section booked 28/01/2010
GuernseyFrench induction rebooked 03/02/10

Expecting

27th Jan Devotion DD1 6yrs & DD2 3yrs
1st Feb Moth2, 1st but also stepdaughter 3 yrs
2nd Feb Raindroprhyme DS1 8y, DS2 4y
2nd FebBusymummy22 DD 6y, DS 3y
2nd Feb Dee2009 1st
3rd Feb verylittlecarrot, 1dd 2y4m
4th Feb mothrof2boys, Musicalmummyjules DD 7
5th Feb chinook Dd 3.6yo
6th Feb ems147, 1st
7th Feb comeonbishbosh
7th Feb grin DS 1 yr 6 m
7th Feb mamaloco DD will be 5y near due date
8th Feb fiziwizzle, 1st
8th Feb gingerkirsty, 1st
8th Feb PinguCarrier, 1st
10th Feb Lovelymonster, 1st
11th Feb Woowa 1st
11th Feb MarieKL 1st
12th Feb Nikki87
12th Feb Fluffycoo 1st
12th Feb Yummylilmummy 1st
12th Feb binzle 1st
13th Feb mignightsun DS 3y
14th Feb tryingtobemarypoppins DS 21months currently!
14th Feb Pops78, 1st
14th Feb Glynnispig 1st
14th Feb Threeplusone- DD 12.11yrs DS1 5.2yrs DS2 2.1yrs
14th Feb Stoofadoof, DD 2.11
14th Feb CocoK - DC3
15 Feb flyingcloud 1st
16th Feb GuernseyFrench 1st
16 Feb Watercress DD1 2y 10m
16 Feb esselle - DD 5.1y, DS 20m
16 Feb hannahsaunt - ds1 (8.11), ds2 (6.5), ds3 (23mo)
17 Feb Bethylou - DS currently 16 months
17 Feb Becks130 - DS 3.5 yrs
17 Feb Mrsjeff - First
18 Feb Sunnybump - First
19 Feb Sharon137-
19 Feb Extremelychocolateymilk - DD 2.3
20 Feb Gert ds 22m
20 Feb Cluny 1st
20 Feb Rainbowsprite
21 Feb Pyjamababe - First
22 Feb Skibelle
22 Feb Scoobydoo 1st
22 Feb Enoko, 1st
23 Feb 2Happy ds1 4y ds2 2y
23 Feb (twins!!) Insanitybecomesme DS1 9yrs, DS2 7yrs. DD3y 3m, DS3 21m
23 Feb TheOldestCat DD 2.9y
23 Feb Phee96 DD 9m
24 Feb Elebereth
24 Feb TotallyAndUtterlyPaninied DS 15m
24 Feb MidgetGems
25 Feb AbsB, 1st
25 Feb Climberchick, 1st
27 Feb Westlondongirl
28 Feb Mawbroon Due DS 3.10yo

watercress · 03/02/2010 12:40

Congratulations ktpie and clappedout - opposite ends of the weight spectrum for you two! Looking forward to hearing more details when you've recovered a bit. In the meantime, enjoy your babies.

Becks, I could have written your post. I am also 38 weeks (yesterday) and my SPD has worsened to the point when I am now in pain all the time. I am taking as much paracetamol as I can take, using a belt and a Tens machine, but it's still awful. I'm so fed up of being such an awful mother to DD and awful wife to DH, but it's just so difficult. I have a GP appt this afternoon and am taking DH with me for support as I want to broach the subject of early induction to put me out of my misery. Any chance you can do the same? And have you checked out the SPD sofa thread in pregnancy talk topics? There is loads of useful advice and accounts from fellow SPD sufferers on there (including those who have had early sections or inductions for SPD), so it's definitely worth a look.

woowa · 03/02/2010 12:54

Congrats clappedout! Great news especially about the lack of pain!

the Aquanatal MW tried her best to get my labour going this morning by working us extra hard. But am still pregnant! Can't imagine it could work like that! Now going to spend the rest of the day on the sofa as feet are in agony! ouch ouch ouch. Bought sense and sensibility and pride and prejudice yesterday so am going to watch DVDs to my heart's content!

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InmaculadaConcepcion · 03/02/2010 13:04

How exciting, another one!!

Lovely news, clappedout - great name, too! Join the ranks of the mums with tiny babies! Good luck with all the weight-putting-on efforts!

mawbroon your wheelchair ride and your broken ankle/CS exercises

Sorry to all those in pain with SPD and the other miserable pregnancy side-effects - not long to go now, ladies. Best wishes to all x

AbsB · 03/02/2010 14:28

Contratulations clappedout, that is great, great news! You must be so glad to be home holding your little one!!!

Good luck with it all and let us know how it all goes.