Sebastian is on my list, kittykat. I love the name! Maybe it does sound a little posh, but I think I prefer it that way. DH likes the name, though he prefers Seb as a shortening while I like Bast. But we can both tolerate either.
We also have Caspian on the list and wild card addition Leonardo (Leo/Leon) too. Recently DH has been talking about how Leonardo has really grown on him, so I'm guessing it's moving up in the rating! We both have mixed European heritage, but nothing specifically Italian. Not sure whether or not that's a problem.
For girls, our list consists of Kimberley, Tabitha, Elizabeth, Juliette, Caroline or Madeleine. Girls names seem a lot easier for us to agree on than boys! It's taken months for us to find three boys names we can both tolerate and I reckon they lean towards the unusual.
All the names that have been brought up so far are lovely. There was a little girl in the hairdressers the other day called Lois, and she was cute as a button! First Lois I've ever come across though, so it doesn't seem particularly common.