nervousmum2be - I'm exactly the same. Go ages without movement, then when I'm really wound up and going to phone midwife, get the crap kicked out of me. Just trying to see how far they can push mummy I think!!
Wives tales - not had many thank God. Just the usual "ohh, you're carrying X so you must be having a Y". Mind you, think that people must know not to start with the wives tales with me, they're still winding me up with the "mind the step" "dont carry too much" "are you sure you dont want to sit on the sofa?" sentences which really annoy me, its like they expect me to go from totally independent to back to being a little kid. Mind you, did shopping at Asda the other day and totally knackered myself out, and I think I've pulled a tummy muscle, so maybe DH was right!
Ref leaking boobs - didn't think mine were too bad until got down to business with DH and he pointed it out afterwards. Oh the shame!