Muser, Scotch and PDR big hugs, be gentle with yourselves and make sure you're being looked after.
Well we got the tree up but that's about it. On the upside DH has now realised how much I actually do around the house (as well as holding down a full time job..) He didn't know where the tree or decs were kept, how to empty the Dyson, what dial to use on the washing machine, don't get me wrong though, there's plenty of stuff I wouldn't have a clue about if he was "out of action".
Felt pretty rough yesterday but had to get some Christmas shopping done, after about an hour in town I became ravenous (sp?) and practically inhaled a Big Mac (which I don't normally eat ) DH looked at me like I was Jabba the Hut or something - 'twas very unladylike, but it was either that or throw up, nice.
We told our parents yesterday as I'm 7 weeks today - still not telling friends until we absolutely have to, have a feeling of foreboding like the more people that know, the more likely a mc is - stupid I know, but who said being pregnant made you rational?
With regard to "action" for DH's I read something quite insightful in one of the books (Mumsnet preg guide I think) - a lady had some slight bleeding and asked her dr if it would be OK to resume relations with her husband (how very Jane Austen!), or would it cause a mc he said, no it wouldn't but if she did resume relations and she did mc she would never believe it wasn't the sex that caused it, so maybe best to leave it. Hmmmm, the weird and wonderful world of the female psyche.
That's enough ramblings from me at the moment, must get some work done.
Big hugs to all who need them.