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Due February 2006 - the sequel !

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Mama5 · 19/06/2005 21:31

Hi Girls - so here we all are and so far so good (fingers and toes crossed and wheelbarrow loads of baby dust abounding)

Thought I would start a new thread (new name too) as babies being found out about now will just about be into March so we are no longer the absolute newbies which feels good!

So maybe we should collate all our due dates(any one had a dates scan yet??)

Keep it up!

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Tabs · 19/07/2005 16:41

OK - another War and Peace message from me, about my hospital appointment. For those of you without the time or inclination to read it - everything was fine .

Saw Chip behaving himself on screen - looking nice and laid back, but most importantly with his little heart beating away. They measured him at 11+5, which is one day further on than the 8+3 scan said, and changes my due date to 2nd Feb instead of 3rd. Not a lot in a day really so may as well go along with them!

The midwife was lovely too, but I prob won't see her again, as most of my appointments will be with the community midwife at my GP's surgery. She totally understood my reasons for not wanting any downs testing, and discussed what they may or may not be able to tell in relation to this at the 20 week scan, which I now have booked.

She took loads of blood for all the fairly standard tests, and booked me an appointment for a glucose tolerance test at 28 weeks. I was pleasantly surprised that my weight is just low enough that they wouldn't do this test based just on my BMI, but there's a family history of diabetes so they do it as standard anyway.

She took my blood pressure which was 100/60, which she said was fine as blood pressure normally drops a bit during pregnancy.

I then saw the consultant, and discovered that I was referred to him because I'd had an episode of SVT (supra-ventricular tacchycardia) a couple of years ago. After asking a few questions and listening to my heart, he was happy that he didn't need to see me again unless I felt that there was something wrong (heart was investigated at the time and found to be in perfect working order).

So that was it - there for about 1.5 hours in all!

Frizbe · 19/07/2005 18:18

Oh Tabs that's great news then very happy for you that all seems to be well.

Tictac, I'm not a fan of ginger either, but I'm suffering it, as it does work!

jessicaandbumpsmummy · 19/07/2005 20:19

Hi guys.... Just to let you all know, libbyandbensmummy has lost her baby. Bleeding started on saturday night and a scan today has revealed the worst.

I will pass on any messages.....

Tabs · 19/07/2005 21:04

Oh JABM . Please tell her that we're all very sorry to hear her news, and that we are thinking of her and hope that she has some good support around her, and that things are sorting themselves out at home.

jessicaandbumpsmummy · 19/07/2005 21:42

things arent good at home either unfortunately. She is seeing a solicitor tomorrow about a divorce. Although im one of her oldest friends, i feel useless.

jessicaandbumpsmummy · 19/07/2005 21:43

things arent good at home either unfortunately. She is seeing a solicitor tomorrow about a divorce. Although im one of her oldest friends, i feel useless.

Tabs · 19/07/2005 21:57

I'm sure you're not useless JABM. The best you can do is just to be there to listen and support her. I'm sure she'll be very grateful to have you around with so much horrible stuff going on in her life.

womba1 · 19/07/2005 22:00

JABM... please pass on our love and warm wishes to LABM... will be thinking of her.
Thanks for letting us know ad you take care xx

jessicaandbumpsmummy · 19/07/2005 22:17

its just really hard to take a back seat, especially when we're such good friends.

i need to let her do this on her own though, otherwise ill make things ten times worse!

lets put it nicely - her DH is a w**r!

womba1 · 19/07/2005 22:24

I can only imagine how crap this all is for LABM and you sound like a fabulous friend. She'll appreciate just knowing you're there for her, even if you don't actively feel like you're doing much,
Life deals such shite at times and to the people that least deserve it.
Take care JABM x

TicTac · 19/07/2005 23:00

JABM - Please pass on my regards to LABM. She has been great on this thread and I am so so sorry that things have turned out this way for her. My heart goes out to her. You seem like a great firend and just knowing you are there should she need you will be enough for her I'm sure.

XX

YeahBut · 20/07/2005 07:38

JABM, please pass on to LABM how sorry I am to hear her news. Give her a big hug from us and let her know how much we are thinking of her.

flamesparrow · 20/07/2005 09:32

I have no decent words for LABM... just let her know that she is in my heart

xxxx

LibbyandBensMummy · 20/07/2005 10:14

ha everyone, i wanna say a big thankyou to everyone who has sent me there love and hugs there all so appreciated. im doing ok very upset but havin to pull through this for the sake of my other two children, am going to solicitor today to see what can do about w*k hubbie (as jabm would call him) thanksyou linz u mean the world to me babes thanks again. hope all is well with everyone else take care everyone from dawn xoxox

TicTac · 20/07/2005 11:07

LABM - Thank you for posting, it must be really hard for you. I don't think there is anything we can say to make things better but you do know that you are in all of our thoughts! Good luck today, I hope the solicitor plays a good part!

Love, Zadee x

ixel · 20/07/2005 13:33

[ sad] Big hugs from me too. Its hard to think of anything useful to say, but I just wanted to be another person who's there for you if you need anything.

TicTac · 20/07/2005 14:17

Does anyone have any good news or happy stories to share with us all? Anymmore 1st scans happened yet?

flamesparrow · 20/07/2005 15:28

I have an update

Had my first midwife appointment (not with who will me my regular midwife... she's on holiday).

Met a lovely lady who didn't argue with me about B's dates. Got very excited when I said about a home birth, but then told me....

"We won't write down homebirth in your notes. The senior partners have a habit of making you move practice for your antenatal care!"

WTF???????????????

She said that the midwife will be pleased to plan it all with me, but won't write it down in my official notes, and then I will have an accidental home birth where its just not possible to get me to hospital!!!

Is that even legal - making you move practice????

Other than that, all fine, I get a scan when I get back from honeymoon (about 3rd week of August)

I wasn't sure if I'd get an early one because it wasn't standard for DD.

Oh, and since I have worked out that I need to keep my sugar levels up, sickness has eased... was kinda needing the sickness to make my jeans fit though

RachelRog · 20/07/2005 17:26

LABM - sorry to read about your news......I lost a baby in March and can remember how horrific it was......keep strong and lean on anyone you need to.....so sorry.

I am still feeling knackered and sick most of the time.....work is becoming a nightmare as I have appointments booked ( I am an optician ) every 25 minutes and am under pressure to keep to time which is hard when I feel so crappy!! Hoping as I am now 10 weeks I wll feel better soon.

I my second scan 2 weeks today and we are taking ds so hopefully all will still be well!

Hope everyone is ok.

RachelRog · 20/07/2005 17:28

WHAT AM I ON??

Knew I should have previewed!!!!

Meant that I have my second scan in 2 WEEKS and that we are taking ds ( didn't know whether to or not after bad experience at scan in March where I upset ds by being so tearful!!_)

BarefootMama · 20/07/2005 17:30

Feeling worn out too rachel!

Think by this stage I am kinda tinking I should be feeling better plus kinda worn out with it all and want my scan ( nuchal )so i can explain to people why i have been so lethargic etc!!

lABM so sorry things are so hard for you at this time....'things can only get better' {hugs}

Frizbe · 20/07/2005 18:04

Well I don't feel too sick today which is nice as I had my Booking in Appt at the midwives apparently I'm 8+3, so that makes me due on 27th Feb! I still reckon begining of March, as dd was 5 days late!
She took 4 lots of blood, which seems a lot more than last time, but loads of stuff to check for apparently....and I got loads of bumph to read, lots more of that than last time too, also contained in the bumph were, 1 x sample of marmite, 1 x sample of ovaltine, 1 x sample of skin cream and 1 x sample of comfort conditioner! what a bizarre mix eh!
Next go back to midwife at 16 weeks, and have dating scan booked for mid august at 12 weeks.....oh and according to the surgery scales I weigh more than I thought I did! although MW assured me they weigh heavy...argh!

Frizbe · 20/07/2005 18:11

Right I've actually read the thread now, after my quick cut and paste from the March thread, as I'm lurking on both to be safe! although as you can see I'm dated as Feb!
LABM so sorry for your loss Looks like JABM is doing a good job of looking after you tho I hope life works out for you shortly.

Rachel Rog, I think taking ds is a good idea, all seems to be well, so why not, it'll do him good to bond with baby this way {{{Hugs}}}

FS, as you can see me too, looks like we'll be able to compare scans as well [excited]

TicTac · 20/07/2005 18:34

Has anyone elses first midwife appointment been at home? I have mine on Tuesday, then my scan at the hospital the following Monday where I will be officially booked in!?!?

I am apprehensive about the scan and also my weight. I can imagine them being really judgemental because of my size and all critical...that scares me more then anything else at the minute!

womba1 · 20/07/2005 18:53

Tictac... please don't worry about your weight. I'm extremely overweight, and i mean extremely. My midwife didn't even bat an eyelid when i told her what i weighed. She asked me if i wanted to get on the scales and i said no.. so she just wrote down the weight i gave her, which i was mortified saying out loud!!
I'm 6ft tall and i'm big built but i don't look as heavy as i am... my weight didn't cause any problems with my last pregnancy so i'm really not worrying this time.
Oh, and no, i had my booking at the hospital as my mw said if she'd come to my house and hand written my notes, she'd then have had to go back to the hospital and enter them all onto her pc.