GRRRR! DP is doing my head in again. I just said I was going to put in an online shop tomorrow, for heavy things like tins and frozen stuff, and he said I was being stupid and that I am just too impressed by the internet. I asked him how I am meant to get that stuff in (no car and DD is a right handful at the moment, considering I am barely mobile) and he said I don't need it anyway as he has cooked and frozen a load of meals. But I don't always want to eat vegetable soup or whatever, never mind that none of it is labelled so I have to guess. Sometimes I just want heinz tomato soup or a fish finger sandwich! Also apparently i get sucked in by stupid offers whereas if he goes shopping he buys the dented cans and so on and saves money. He does buy dented cans of things that I don't use though, like chickpeas and so on - all very well for cooking huge stews, but when I just need something to quickly heat up for me and dd, not much use!
Then I told him that the council tax bill arrived today, and how much it will be each month, and that i will set up a direct debit tomorrow. He sighed theatrically and asked why would I do a stupid thing like that. I said because it is the easiest way to pay bills, he said why couldn't I get off my backside and go and pay the bill myself each month. Erm, first, why would I, when I could just have a direct debit, and second, because the council offices are an hour away on the bus and if you try and ring they NEVER answer the phone, you have to leave a message and they ring you back at some point in the next week and if you are busy, tough. He was the same when i asked him to set up a standing order into my account for the bills, he wanted to give me cash each week so i could go all the way into town to pay it into my account, or add my name to his account, although he refuses to set up online banking as apparently it is a waste of time, so I would still be traipsing about to sort out bills all the time.
GRRRR!!!! I know he is working hard at the moment (today he set off at 8 and got in at 7.30, and had been working in a warehouse all day) but that is no excuse to be a knob! It's not like he doesn't trust computers, he's a bigger geek than me, he just seems to want to make my life harder! He can't even work bills himself, the rent is meant to go out of his account and he doesn't even notice if the standing order doesn't work and it doesn't go! How can you not notice you have £525 extra in your account? We are very poor, it is a huge amount of money to us!
Also, he had his phone off all day. He turned it on when he got home and got the texts I had sent him in the morning to remind him to sort out the rent (which of course he hasn't done). I don't have any contact details for his work. What would have happened if I went into labour?
Sorry, moan over. I can't moan at him as he would just get all defensive. Pretty sure he is just tired, but so am I! DD has been literally running in circles around me all day, I haven't stopped (apart from a brief mn break while she napped) all day and I still have washing up and tidying up of all her painting stuff to do. Baby is well down in my pelvis, I am really waddling now.
Can't wait for a few days in hospital!