Welcome longwayaway!
I am so glad I am not the only one, great to see some people 'fessing to being unorganised. Helps me feel much better Ninja - I don't think its too late. I am thinking, if baby does come early, likely we would need to stay in hosp for a few days so DH would have time to panic go buy things, and nappies they can do at the hosp if we were really unorganised, for a day or two at least .
I got paid today, I so I am tempted to spend a fortune, but have to remember that it has to last all month and we have things to buy for loft yet, including carpet, velux blinds which are sooooo expensive! So I will have to reign myself in. Or else baby will have a nice little car seat toy but we will have no food! But at least there will be no light in the loft at night.
I think we are going up there. I am not really happy about it as its not quite as we wanted and I wanted DD to go and enjoy it and then the rawness of all the trouble will have worn off after a few months. DH had originally wanted DD up there, but I was keen to be up there as it was new (before all the shit happened with it), and now he has his own way, he does not want it. I am sure it will be fine. I am fed up of it all now, I don't really care. I just want a room to sleep in without DD and some space for the new baby! I am getting to the point of being passed caring which is not good .
Right now, sleeping in the same room as DD is hard. It is taking its toll on DH and I relationship. This morning, we had a barney at 6am and he is now sulking after saying he is up for a big fight, but not in front of DD. Which means he is bottling it until she is at nursery, dwelling on it. When he gets into this kind of mood he is impossible. So I might go out!!!