good luck HC
Congratulations calypsoflame
Well think I've finally got a few minutes spare to share my birth story!
Just thought it's worth mentioning for all of you who are fed up and are thinking it will never happen. I went to the midwife on Tuesday lunchtime, baby was not engaged, couldn't have a sweep, she was in a terrible position (back to back)no signs of anything happening at all... yet a few hours later I was in labour! So don't give up hope
So anyway, about 10pm I started to feel a bit funny, no cx just felt a bit uncomfortable with a bit of lower back ache, couldn't get comfortable in bed so got up. Was having the odd twinge here and there so started timing them on the internet contraction master. They were all over the place, not coming in any sort of pattern but something about them felt 'real'.
At about 1.30am they started to form a regular pattern starting at 8mins apart then going to 7 mins, it felt like it was taking forever, was undecided whether to disturb my mum. After chatting to smallone decided to go downstairs and make a cup of tea, the walking around must have helped them along a bit as they started to come a bit faster so I rang my mum to come round and babysit and woke up dh to tell him this was it and put my TENS machine on.This was about 3am, mum arrived just before 4am. Rang the labour ward as cx were about 4mins apart, they asked me if I was coping with the pain, said i was so they said to take paracetamol and ring back in an hour. Got off the phone and had a massive contraction which I knew from previous labours was things stepping up a gear so decided to trust my instincts, ignore them and go straight in.
Got to hospital at 4.40, it was very busy, nearly didn't have a room for me. fortunately one had just finished being mopped down Quite calmly filled in all the paperwork in between contractions. When the midwife did an internal she was looking a bit puzzled as she couldn't find my cervix, said that it might be because I was fully dilated but I didn't seem to be in enough pain for that she went to get someone for a second opinion, with next cx knew I needed to push so got dh to call the midwife back. It was fantastic, she just let me get on with it, stood at the bottom of the bed occasionally telling me that everything was going well and the baby was coming nicely (in my other two labours I've spent the whole pushing time having orders barked at me!)She just let me do what felt natural, I managed to pant the head out so didn't tear, Amelie arrived at 5.40am exactly an hour after I got to the hospital, so made the right call to go in when I did.
They had delivered 12 babies in the labour ward since midnight, one lady had to deliver in the coffee room as there were no beds!! So was lucky to get a room.
Came straight home. I feel great, just a bit achy, it was a relitavely easy birth, although I may not have agreed with that when I was pushing her out .
Good luck everyone, hope things go smoothly for you all too