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Due March 2010 - do my boobs look big in this?

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donttrythisathome · 26/06/2009 07:27

Hello everyone,

I can't find a March 2010 thread so thought I'd start with.

This is my first and i think my EDD is 2 March 2010.

Come and join me!

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TakeLovingChances · 06/07/2009 17:33

Ok, sorry for having posted that post about shingles twice, don't know how that happened! Sorry!

Anyway, I got it sorted. Asked a Doctor who put my mind at ease, so I can now relax, until the next thing creeps up!

CakeandFineWine · 06/07/2009 19:59

Hi again all, Sorry haven't been on for a while, finally caught up with all your messages,
I had an ectopic scare last night and spent 6 hours in A&E still inconclusive but I'm being positive! Repeat blood test on Wednesday am!
Well what will be will be I've updated this list and added myself anyway!

Tigresswoods EDD 1 March #1
DrSkid EDD 1 Mar #3
Potpourri EDD 1 March #4
onlyanauntie EDD 1 March #1
369thegoosedrankwine 1 March #2
MissieMoosMummy EDD 1 March #2
chubbymummy 1 March #2
Caitni EDD 2 March #1
Horsiemummy EDD 2 March #2
Oscarsmumm EDD 2 March #2
Donttrythisathome EDD 3 March #1
Smac EDD 4 March #2
TakeLovingChances EDD 5 March #1
Dalrymps EDD 5 March #2
Dophus EDD 07March #3
Twofalls EDD 7 March #2
BYM EDD 8 March #2
CAFW EDD 9th March #2
ilgb EDD 9 March #2
wilkos EDD 11 March #2
Minicooper 14 March #2
slackrunner 14th March #2

chubbymummy · 06/07/2009 21:04

Fingers crossed for you cake! If it helps at all I had a suspected ectopic when pregnant with ds and it turned out to be just a cyst on my ovary (it shrunk as the pregnancy progressed so it didn't even involve surgery), lets hope it's the same for you.

I have sore boobs and feeel nausious quite a bit but it isn't helping to relieve my fears to be honest. When I had the mmc I didn't stop feeling pregnant at all, infact the sickness was far worse the day before I found out. Although I'd lost the baby 3 weeks earlier, because my body had held onto it, it thought I was still pregnant so my hormones continued to rage. I hate not being able to trust my own body and although I've turned into a mad knicker checker I know that the only way I'll actually know that everything is alright is to see a heartbeat when I go for an early scan. I am trying to wait it out another couple of weeks before I go for a scan though, I've done quite a bit of research and it says that if there is a heartbeat of over 90 beats per minute at 7-8 weeks the chance of a sucessfull outcome to the pregnancy rises to 95%. Also I've only got 2 weeks left at work before I break up for the Summer holidays (I work in a school) so I want to try to hold on until then.

Dalrymps · 06/07/2009 21:07

Evening ladies

Dophus - Congratualtions on your BFP! Glad your dh didn't take it too badly, he'll get used to it soon i'm sure

No real MS for me yet, felt a little 'off' just before tea when i was getting hungry but nothing that noticable. I am feeling pretty tired now though.

Takelovingchances - Glad you got the shingles scare sorted!

Becky - Hope you get some peace and quiet soon.

DrSkid - Lol at you nearly blurting your news out

Josie - Congratulations on your BFP and welcome! I know what you mean about wanting symptoms, i'd do anything to feel sick!

Mini - With you on the not feeling pg, guess we must be lucky, bet we'll soon be complaining about our terrible MS

Wilkos - How did the docs go?

Caitni - Hows the 'hangover' now?

Meita - Congratulations on your BFP and welcome!

Well I went to let the doctor know i'm pg today. She was annoying and rude

I went in with Ds(20months) and she asked how she could help. I said i'm here to tell you i'm pregnant and so you can refer me to the midwives etc. She said 'and how do you feel about it, was it planned?' (which is a prefectly alright question to ask...) and I said 'good, yes it was all planned'. No smiles, no congrats like I got the first time I went with Ds, she just said 'oh you're a glutten for punishment aren't you'. Then she said 'I take it you weren't trying for long' I said 'no we've been trying for 7 months' then she said 'well, nature was kind to you then, you don't want them too close together' I said, well Dylan will be nearly 2 and a half when the baby is born, then she said 'hmm yes, thats about right', oh is it really, thanks for your approval!!!

Then she was like, 'well, boys only get more energetic as they get older, not less so you'll have your work cut out, but you're coping anyway...' . She then asked me if I had any probs with the birth last time and I told her i'd had a 3rd degree tear but the consultant said i'd healed well and should be fine for the next time, she said 'oh well they'll have to be careful with you then, they'll probably give you an episiotomy so it tears a certain way'. Erm will they?! I think that's up to me actually!

So basically I left feeling like a young child who had been lectured on having children too close together, in HER oppinion!

Kind of ruined my 'making it official experience' silly old crone!

Dalrymps · 06/07/2009 21:11

Cake, I missed you off... Hope it is just a scare and nothing more. Fingers crossed for you that everything is ok. Let us know how you get on on wed.

Chubby - I'm sure everyhing is fine althuogh I can understand you worrying. When is your early scan?

Doctorskidaddle · 06/07/2009 21:28

dalrymps and at your GP. How completely and utterly unprofessional of her - as if her job is to stand in judgement of YOUR decisions, as if her job is to give her own subjective opinions about your choices. OMG I would be fuming - no wonder you feel it spoiled it

cake - crossed fingers for you - really hope it all works out

chubby - fingers crossed for you too

Dalrymps · 06/07/2009 21:31

Thanks drskid, I did think it was totally inappropriate! Ah well, i'll just not see her again, i'll make sure I see the others if I have to go back...

BlueyDragon · 06/07/2009 21:51

Can I join in please? It's so nice to be able to tell people, but not, if you see what I mean! This is number 2 for us and symptom wise I've got sore boobs, metallic taste in my mouth, bloated (DH told me I was showing already at 5 weeks!) and tired. To the point I fell asleep on the bloke on the train next to me this evening! Still don't really believe it though, despite the pg test practically biting my hand off.

Fingers crossed everyone.

Tigresswoods EDD 1 March #1
DrSkid EDD 1 Mar #3
Potpourri EDD 1 March #4
onlyanauntie EDD 1 March #1
369thegoosedrankwine 1 March #2
MissieMoosMummy EDD 1 March #2
chubbymummy 1 March #2
Caitni EDD 2 March #1
Horsiemummy EDD 2 March #2
Oscarsmumm EDD 2 March #2
Donttrythisathome EDD 3 March #1
Smac EDD 4 March #2
BlueyDragon EDD 4 March #2
TakeLovingChances EDD 5 March #1
Dalrymps EDD 5 March #2
Dophus EDD 07March #3
Twofalls EDD 7 March #2
BYM EDD 8 March #2
CAFW EDD 9th March #2
ilgb EDD 9 March #2
wilkos EDD 11 March #2
Minicooper 14 March #2
slackrunner 14th March #2

Dalrymps · 06/07/2009 22:00

Congratulations on your BFP BlueyDragon and welcome!

Lol at you falling asleep on the man next to you on the train!

How old is your DC 1? Is it a dd or a ds? Mine is a 20 month old ds

donttrythisathome · 06/07/2009 22:34

CAFW hope it all goes well for you. Everything is crossed.

BYM Happy belated birthday. My EDD is near to my birthday - is it wrong to hope it's not born on the day?! Its MY special day

Some day I'll be a grown-up.

dairyimps file a complaint about the patronising bee-atch.

Congrats to the new BFPs.

And thanks for the info caitni.

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Meita · 07/07/2009 07:36

Good morning ladies!

From today I am 4+0 so now I finally feel like it's maybe indeed true... I tested well early on Sunday at just 3+5! Repeated the test today and it's still there... bfp!

So far, I haven't felt much - some rumbling and small pains down in the action area, but that could be anything really. A bit tired yesterday, but didn't sleep well the night before, so that explains that... Today however, something strange happened: I woke up waaaaay before my normal wake-up time and no chance of going back to sleep. Interesting. A friend who was pg last year told me she started waking up real early when she was pg... So, a good sign I suppose! :-)

A question to you all - did anyone measure there temperatures while ttc? I did, which is why I have a reasonable idea of when I ovulated although I have a very irregular cycle. Can't seem to stop doing it now - am so happy every time I get another high reading :-)

Have a great day!
Meita

Tigresswoods EDD 1 March #1
DrSkid EDD 1 Mar #3
Potpourri EDD 1 March #4
onlyanauntie EDD 1 March #1
369thegoosedrankwine 1 March #2
MissieMoosMummy EDD 1 March #2
chubbymummy 1 March #2
Caitni EDD 2 March #1
Horsiemummy EDD 2 March #2
Oscarsmumm EDD 2 March #2
Donttrythisathome EDD 3 March #1
Smac EDD 4 March #2
BlueyDragon EDD 4 March #2
TakeLovingChances EDD 5 March #1
Dalrymps EDD 5 March #2
Dophus EDD 07March #3
Twofalls EDD 7 March #2
BYM EDD 8 March #2
CAFW EDD 9th March #2
ilgb EDD 9 March #2
wilkos EDD 11 March #2
Minicooper 14 March #2
slackrunner 14th March #2
Meita 15th March #1

becky7000 · 07/07/2009 08:02

Dalrymps- I'm glad I don't have your doctor. Would have given me a real roasting!

TakeLovingChances · 07/07/2009 09:31

Meita I am 5weeks+5days and when I just found out I was pregnant, about a day before 4 weeks I woke up at 5.30am every morning that week and was wide awake, no chance of me going back to sleep! It was very unusual for me, as I can sleep for a long time!

Now that the pregnancy is a bit further on I don't wake up so early, I've settled back into my usual sleep pattern.... except now I get very tired during the day sometimes.

369thegoosedrankwine · 07/07/2009 10:36

Sorry I haven't been on for a while. Congrats to all the new BFPs.

Had a worrying few days. I have had light bleeding for a few days. Went to the docs yesterday who said they will scan me but not until the end of this week, as at 6 weeks they may not see anything and that would worry me more. I know I won't settle properly until I see that scan.

I am also suffereing MS really badly. Feel like I have the hangover from hell and nothing seems to relieve it.

Cakeandwine - good luck with your tests. I too keep repeating 'what will be will be', although I sound more convincing than I feel.

Caitni · 07/07/2009 11:56

Morning ladies

369 so sorry to hear about the light bleeding - how stressful for you . Is your scan on Friday? They're right to delay the scan, as the early scans can be inconclusive and I know women who've been given bad news only to go back 10-14 days later and be told everything's fine, but the waiting must be agonising. Really hope it's good news at your scan.

Minicooper lol at your doc saying well done - like you've won a race or something! The 12 week scan does feel like a looooong way off alright...

Wilkos and Tigresswoods I've also been so knackered...I actually had a nap in the toilets at work yesterday afternoon . Only about 10 mins but I just couldn't keep my eyes open! I feel OK in the morning so I'm trying to cram lots into the mornings so I can take it easier in the afternoons.

Dophus glad that it's now official and hope your scan date comes through soon. I struggled to quit smoking over the years we were ttc (I'd give up and be good for months and months and then have one...which would turn into two...and then three...) and finally only gave up a couple of weeks before starting IVF. I know your pain!

Josie welcome and congrats . I know what you mean about wanting more symptoms - I was exactly the same when I got my BFP! It helps to make it real...

Blueydragon congrats and welcome to you too . I was at you falling asleep on your fellow commuter!

TLC glad the shingles worry worked out but I know what you mean - reckon we'll all be worrying until we have our babas in our arms (and then we'll have a whole new set of worries ).

Donttry I'd totally not want my baby born on my birthday! Nothing wrong with that (and good for the baby too not to have to share their birthday with anyone!).

DrSkid was chuckling at you nearly blurting it out . It's hard to keep it in and when you do tell folks they'll all be trying to remember things that seem suspicious in hindsight! I had an extremely suspicious conversation with a guy at work who's wife had their baby last year at the hospital that was our top choice out of the three we could choose from...he's the only person I know who's got actual experience there and I decided there's no real way to work that into a conversation so I was rather obvious (like "so, how did you wife like the labour ward at the Whittington? And the midwives? And the antenatal care?" - super obvious ). But he's discreet and is one of those new dads who's evangelical about parenting so I know he'll be delighted when I do go public...he was really positive so we've decided to go with that hospital so phoned the GP's today to get the referral going [eek emoticon]. Sorry to hear you're still suffering so badly with the MS . I've had waves and lots of dry heaves and retching but no actually vomiting and am now fervently hoping it stays at that.

Becky great that DS1 is potty trained but you must be so knackered with three and with morning sickness too.

CAFW so sorry to hear about your ectopic scare . It must have been so scary. Really hope the blood test on Wed shows that the HCG is doubling xxx

Chubbymummy it's so hard waiting for an early scan, but you're right to hold off until the school year ends...the longer you wait the more they can see and therefore reassure you . That's interesting about the heartbeat...I've got a scan next week (at seven weeks) so will now be hoping the heart is beating at that rate!

Dalrymps I am totally horrified by your doctor's reaction! How bloody dare she react like that . And to say that you'll need an epistomy - what is she? A GP or an obstetician? Bloody rude and ignorant. I bet she had issues herself so assumes that everyone else will struggle too...Hope there are other doctors at the surgery that you can see instead.

Meita Glad the next test was nice and strong too - it's lovely and reassuring isn't it? I've also been waking up early - anywhere from 5am onwards - sometimes I can get back to sleep but sometimes I just have to get up and potter around until it's time to get ready for work. Glad to hear that temping has worked for you - I'm a big fan of it - but when it comes to temping in pregnancy there's no need to keep temping as your temp will stay nice and high overall but it may occassionally dip, which can just stress you out. So the general advice is to keep recording your temps for 18 days post ovulation but after that it's not really necessary and may just stress you out.

Sorry for the massive post but I can't get on here much during the day (and am too knackered at night!) so wanted to catch up on everyone's news. Not much going on with me, still knackered, some waves of gagging/retching, and the usual sore boobs & bloated (though prune juice has helped with the constipation [phew]). I also have a complete pizza face...awful...haven't had skin this bad since I was 13/14 (feel like I should get some clearasil or something and start singing the grange hill theme tune!).

RetroMum1 · 07/07/2009 12:54

Hi All

Can I join? I got my BFP today but I am slightly concerned as there is very very slight brownish clear mucus. DH thinks I'm looking for it as I have previously had a MC.

I am also getting cramping, is anyone else having this?

I hope this works out and I can share this journey with you all

Meita · 07/07/2009 13:25

Congratulations RetroMum and the best of luck!

Brownish smear could be from nidation. As long as the test is positive!

RetroMum1 · 07/07/2009 13:27

Thank you, I trying not to get too excited but it is very exciting!!!.

Sorry to sound dumb but what is nidation?

Is this your first DC?

becky7000 · 07/07/2009 13:32

I had brown spotting with two DCs and convinced myself I was miscarrying but they are now 3 and 6 months! Don't know if it was just one of those things but I bleed in early pregnancy with DSs but not with DD?

Hope all goes well for you.

Josie22 · 07/07/2009 13:34

Hello all - just a quick post as at work!

Hope all well with everyone.

Retromum - Congratulations on your BFP! . Re the brown mucus - it could be implantation because that is normally brown/pink (I had about two spots of pale pink discharge a week before my bfp). Will keep fingers crossed but please try not to worry (easier said than done I know!) as from what you've said there doesn't seem to be much of it.

I am also having cramping and while it is a bit unsettling I am hoping it is nothing - this is my first so I have no point of comparison. I know I lot of people have cramps so try not to worry too much. I also seem to have more discharge (clear to yellow - tmi I know) than normal and a wierd tickling feeling down there!! Very odd.

Hope everyone else is well. [smile}

Josie22 · 07/07/2009 13:38

Lol at myself Becky 7000 - was just trying to work out how you could have a 3 month and a 6 month old - am blaming that on my pg head (as opposed to general blondeness)

Dalrymps · 07/07/2009 14:11

Congratulations on your BFP and welcome Retromum

I have had some mild to moderate cramping for the last 4/5 days, not constantly but just now and again. I assume it's pretty normal although I didn't have it with ds till later on.

369thegoosedrankwine · 07/07/2009 14:14

Thanks Caitni. I've got to phone up and they might see me Friday or wait until after the weekend. I think it depends how busy they are.

Fingers crossed though - for all of us waiting on further assurance. .

Caitni · 07/07/2009 14:35

369 hope they can fit you in on Friday and hope the bleeding has stopped. Really hope it's nothing to worry about and this little bean is sticky xx

RetroMum1 · 07/07/2009 14:58

Thank you all for you kind words of reassurance, I have just been for a sleep and woken up much more positive!.

I have 1 DD who is 22 months and I did bleed a little with her but not until later. I thought a 2nd pregnancy would be easier as I'd know what was going on!!!. How silly all the same concerns have suddenly come bacm in the space of 7 hours!!.

369 I hope you get the reassurance you need from the scan.

Tiredness is my main sympton so far. I work evening 3 mights a week as well so it's going to be interesting staying awake until 11:30 tonight!!.

What was everybody else's first symptons?

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