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Due June 09: The final Countdown: RLT, BH, SPD, HB, EC, VBAC & no plans to TTC again!

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Ineedmorechocolatenow · 06/05/2009 17:56

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ermintrude13 · 21/05/2009 18:03

Gosh, it's all go on here! lauraloo I'm surprised they didn't scan you, and it's rubbish that you got 2 conflicting points of view about things too . Cramps and a show don't mean anything bad, it's almost certainly just your body getting ready for labour which could happen in days or even weeks, but sounds like they should be giving you better reassurance. Keep on at them and don't give up until they've helped you properly.

effie welcome back, sounds like you've got a few weeks with your feet up due to you. Glad things have calmed down

choccie I've been in that poo in pants situaion with DS (never with DD, boys must like pooing their pants ) and can't say I ever dealt with it wearing an angelic expression of motherly love . I needed to keep a little kit of wipes, nappy bag and spare Asda pants in my bag until not long before he started school .

June how did your MW appt go?

lauraloo09 · 21/05/2009 18:25

daisy & choccie nope i never got a scan done, there was no explaination of what could have caused the severe cramping or the blood clot. They didn't seem too overly concerned about the 144BP or the fact i had protein in my urine and that i mentioned being very arthritic in my hands the past week. They did take a swab of my cervix and a urine sample and said "we'll call you if the results show something", they didn't say to come back, only to go back next friday to repeat GTT, and they didn't say they wanted to have my BP monitored which i was about considering what can cause high BP swelling and protein in urine. the whole experience today has left me a bit if pain comes back as bad as it was i'll be going to the consultant maternity unit no matter the car journey someone will take me there, i think the fact i'm still having thick clear mucus is concerning me (sorry for TMI but kinda looks and has consistency of egg white)

I hope everyone else has had an easier day will try and catch up now with everyone else and thanks again guys for your thoughts today

LittleSarah · 21/05/2009 18:27

Finished! Yay!!! So happy!

(Tutor and PR partner said presentation was very good and hopefully I answered their questions well, I think I did well)

Anyway, finished uni and feel great!

Tried on a couple of dresses this afternoon, managed to get this one on and I really liked it but am going to go out with dh again so Saturday and see if we see anything else.

Effie - Glad you're back! What a few days you've had, hopefully baby will relax and little now.

Laura - Bloody rough day for you too I see. Sounds like you didn't get much reassurance, what was that blood about if not a show?? Grrrrr. Daisy and MrsMcJnr are right, if at all worried again then go back!

Naat - They are certainly not the best, while they might have to have some business experience to get on the Apprentice I think volatile personalities are the main qualification!

Ineed - ARGH at the lea for you! I hate having to deal with bureaucrcay, it always seems we get the raw end of the deal even when it is their mistake!

MsMcJnr - Sorry about the strep B! Poor you. Hope the antibs help your dh, and you get some rest!

bunnymother · 21/05/2009 18:34

Evening ladies!

Gosh golly, so much chat I won't even try to catch up properly!

LittleSarah - terrific, wonderful, excellent that you are finishing Uni - am thinking of you - congratulations!

Laura - I agree w the other wise Juners, you know when things aren't right. And I also agree that emphasising (ie lying about) your symptoms is necessary sometimes. Also, your mental health is important, so that you are not worried sick esp as a 1st timer - I would be!. If you need to, then call/go back and make like a mule: refuse to move until you get what you want (think of us all braying in the background in support ).

Who mentioned the donkey massacre - that was classic!!!

June - superb summary - love it!

Tee - I also do red toenails - so glam - glad you enjoyed your pampering!

Choccie - poor you w the poo, not your fault that you couldn't feign perfect composure while dealing w it - its poo! Hope you made sure you got some ice cream for yourself once it was all over!

MrsMcJnr - you really are a saint. You should name change to StMcJnr. Your DH is very lucky to have someone so caring and understanding. I hope he gets better soon!

Daisy - loved your bossy tone this morning re Laura going to hosp - was very impressed!

BigCar - looks like you are back in the lead for first June baby!

Effie - delighted to hear you are back home and feeling well, esp glad to hear you are NOT to do a thing! Perhaps you could teach your DCs to peel grapes for you? Should enjoy it as much as poss!

Am v tired after an afternoon of looking for flattering nursing bras. It would appear that this is an oxymoron. However, will not be broken over underwear so am going to try and order them online - Hot Milk is the way forward.

Right, off to spend the rest of the rabbit money on underwear then crash on the couch...

June2009 · 21/05/2009 19:00

hiya quick update i'm waiting for a scan to determine which way round baby is

June2009 · 21/05/2009 19:01

hiya quick update i'm waiting for a scan to determine which way round baby is

loooouise · 21/05/2009 19:05

My word it's all go!

Effie and Laura, you sound like you've both been incredibly strong after a hugely stressful week! I hope you manage to stick to your Do Nothing routine Effie. I'm sorry things are so frustrating for you Laura and the cramps either turn into something exciting or become more manageable.

I'm very excited to hear about whoever drops first! I was convinced I'd pop at 37 weeks, as mum didn't last past 38 weeks with all four of us, but that's not so desirable as Sunday edges closer. I had a wee drama myself yesterday when I fainted again at my ante natal and my bp plummeted to 70/40!!! They sent me right off to hospital where they monitored me in the delivery suite, only to reveal that I was indeed anaemic. I'm very that they've only just diagnosed this so late on.

Choccie when you have these strong BHs, are they painful? When i was on the monitor yesterday, the midwife told me I was in fact having loads, when I thought it was just baby moving! Does your stomach go all hard and swell up suddenly like a molehill? It's all so confusing...

daisy5 · 21/05/2009 19:09

Me too louise - I went through my entire first pregnancy thinking that my tummy was going hard because the baby was moving. Only this time around did I realise they were Braxton Hicks.

Are you up norf now?

Tee2072 · 21/05/2009 19:28

Okay, help the new mummy all you repeaters...how do you get a GP for the baby? Can my GP also treat baby? Do I have to register it somewhere? I so totally don't know how to do this in this country!! HELP!

silkcushion · 21/05/2009 19:39

omg what a busy day - sorryt o everyone I forget to repond too.

Effie - pleased to ehar yr home. Put those feet up missy {waggling finger emoticon}

Laura - I had a mucus/bloody show a full week before going into labour with dd. I also had pretty bad back pain and cramping for a week. Very slow prelabour according to mw (with hindsight). As for the gloopy egg white thing - I had that for the week too. This time round I am kind of getting that already - increasing over the last few weeks. I'd not be massively concerned if I wrere you yet - however it's pretty bloody annoying not knowing if you're in labour or not

Got to go dd is screaming in her cot - no idea why

silkcushion · 21/05/2009 19:48

ok sorry for numerous typos - clearly didn't get a chance to proof read.

My final day at work tomorrow - yippee

So from next week there is an outside chance I can keep up with the thread (if I spend 3 hours per day on here)

DorisIsAPinkDragon · 21/05/2009 20:26

Arrrggghhhh

Just typed a short essay only to lose it, and no notes this evening!

tee re the GP don't worry too much your LO will get an NHS number which is normally handed into your GP receptionist. If the worst came to the worst and your LO needed seeing before it was all sorted the GP would probably see as a temp patient anyway, you will have mw and hv around for your first few days at home (you WILL be sick of the sight of them and they should help!).

Silk great news on th elast day amkes it all that much more real doesn't it!

Little S Wow it's all over now!! Hope you are finally putting your feet up and practicing relaxing....

Effie and Laura you bothe need to listen to the dr's orders (although the dr's themselves might be arses!) and take it easy and relax. Glad to see you're both back and have the chance to have some decent sleep tonight!

louise have you made to move 'up north'
yet?

bunny my night bra arrived but it's a little snug with no room for milk engorged norks so I'm going to have to try the next size up, don't know what I'm going to do if that's not right. Thing is I thought they were looking smaller than previously but I guess it's all perspective when you look at the size of the bump

june hope the scan is ok and LO is behaving well and in the correct postion!

choci dd1 has regressed in the past couple of months with regular pooey incidents I can assure you that an angelic response is very rarely achived here.... although now I'm so past caring it's more of a (disappointed) sigh and 'right oh , lets get changed'

Have had a reasonable day after the crap start- had the sun for most of the day and got the DD's fringes done (they both adore being pampered at the hairdressers, dd2 virtually ran to the chair and scrambled in without me!! ). Tried to have a rest this pm and lay with my feet up on the wall above the bed to try and get some of the swelling down. DD1 was having none of it (rest or sleep for me) so had my hair 'done' by her - cue 20-30 assorted clips 'arranged' in my shoulder length hair! 'cos "I'm such a good clipper, mummy", If there's no rest for the wicked I must have been VVVVV bad at some point!! (well actually i'm no saint but reallly!)

Right hope it's less of an eventful night for you all tonight

Dorisx

Tee2072 · 21/05/2009 20:58

Okay, need a good whine...

I am so very uncomfortable tonight. Back hurts, baby is lying on something that is making my tummy all wonky, just generally feel BLAH! And DH wants to discuss what to have for dinner tomorrow! I don't bloody know!!

This has been a whiney post.

June2009 · 21/05/2009 21:30

ah well another update from me, only just got back home.
Mw app was at 5pm, and they made me wait until 9pm in the hope that I would get scanned, and they did send a portable scanner up to the birth centre but no one actually came up with it so I just waited and waited and waited for nothing.

2 mws tried to have a feel around my tummy and both said to me that they could not tell for sure which way round the baby is.
Then they changed shift and the new one let slip that the other two said they thought the baby is breech.

So now I have to call the day unit tomorrow
bright and early where I can do some more waiting.

So two weeks ago when I asked how the baby was pointing I was fobbed off but today they're all panicking cause "yeah we should really know cause you're 37+4 now". (It's not like I didn't ask!!) Jesus, why is it so shite?

chocciedooby · 21/05/2009 21:49

Loooouise - yes thats exactly the feeling of BH. Tummy goes all hard and it feels like baby is slowly moving. I have had loads today again and they are getting stronger as the days go along. My OB did tell me that the more kids you have the stronger they can get?!

Have to go to bed now but will catch up with you all tomorrow xx

daisy5 · 21/05/2009 21:53

laura - I promise to keep quiet after this one last post.

I was just browsing through my book and this is what is says about bloody discharge and cramps...

under PreLabour_Symptoms
Pink or Bloody Discharge - as the cervix effaces and dilates, capilliaries frequently rupture, tinting the mucus pink or streaking it with blood. This 'show' usually means labour will start but it could be as much as several days away.

Loss of the Mucous Plug - As the cervix begins to thin and open the 'cork' of mucus that seals the opening of the uterus becomes dislodged. This gelatinous chunk of mucus can be passed through the vagina a week or two or even three weeks before the first real contractions start, or just as labour begins.

Intensification of Braxton Hicks - These practise contractions may become more frequent and stronger, even painful.

under MucousPlugandBloodyShow
Passage of a bloody show, a mucus discharge tinged pink or brown with blood, is usually a sign that your cervix is effacing and/or dilating and that the process that leads to delivery is well under way. But it's a process with an erratic timetable that will keep you in suspense until the first true contractions. If your discharge should suddenly become bright red, especially is it seems to amount to more than 25g (about 2 tablespoons), contact the hospital immediately. Actual bleeding could indicate premature separation of the placenta (abruptio placenta) or placenta previa, both of which require prompt medical attention.

Abruptio_Placenta(abrupture) - This condition is responsible for 1 in 4 cases of late pregnancy bleeding. With a slight separation, bleeding may be as light as a light menstrual flow or as heavy as a heavy one, and may or may not contain clots. There may also be cramping or a mild ache in the abdomen, and uterine tenderness. With moderate separation, bleeding is heavier, the abdomen is tender and firm, and abdominal pain may be more severe, stemming from strong uterine contractions. Both mother and baby may show signs of blood loss. The diagnosis is made using patient history, physical examination and observation of uterine contractions and the fetal response to them. Ultrasound may be helpful, but only about half of abruptions can actually be seen on ultrasound.

Note: when the separation is slight, bed rest often stops the bleeding.

Placenta_Previa - you seem to know all about this, so I didn't think there was much point putting anything down about it.

laura - you may have the same book (What to Expect When You Are Expecting) and already have read this, but in case you haven't, I thought they explained it all very well. I thought it may be useful information to read.

Sorry for boring everyone. I shall go and hide in my shell and promise I won't come out again till tomorrow and not on this subject

lauraloo09 · 21/05/2009 21:58

daisy thank you for posting that information I dont have that book so the info is much needed Also thank you for being so forceful this morning insisting i call/go to the hospital

Going to try and sleep now and will catch up with you all tomorrow

ermintrude13 · 21/05/2009 22:12

June what a bind about baby position. This afternoon I met a mum who had to have a CS because the baby was breech - but the moment before she was wheeled in to theatre they did a scan and said - oh no, actually it's head down after all. Off we go! She was very as that was the only reason for the CS and she responded badly to the anaesthetic. However, she's fine now and her baby boy is gorgeous.

They're just not always that accurate over the baby's lie.

Can't catch up with everyone, hope all those with worrying/uncomfortable symptoms get a good night's rest.

silkcushion · 21/05/2009 23:40

odd evening here.
DH had to collect dd from nursery as I was delayed in work. He put her to bed immediately without her normal bath,book, chats and cuddles routine cos he said she was so tired - couldn't be bothered more like.

She goes down really well at about 6.30 - 7 without any problems but tonight she has been up non stop. Sometimes crying and sometimes chattering (well ok then she was screaming earlier)

I was convinced she was asleep at about 10 as we hadn't heard a peep for ages but when I crept in to see she was sitting up and wide awake and had munched her way through half of a hardback book!!!!!

I was horrified. I said 'what have you done dd? What happened to the book?' She looked sought of sheepish picked it up to show it to me and said 'oh no' Do you think 18 months is old enough to know she shouldn't have done it? Her comprehension is quite good in lots of ways and she knew I wasn't happy.

Took ages to get her to go to sleep after that as she became very upset about the book. I started the bedtime routine all over again and she went to sleep at about 11. I bet she'll still be up bright as a daisy at 7.30

Did a full day's work today including a ling train journey (2 hrs each way) and I am in quite a lot of discomfort, pelvic pain etc - so I think I'll join Tee over in the whiney corner

June2009 · 22/05/2009 08:55

Hey silk That is a little odd, isn't it?
(though I've heard of some adults eating paper by choice (extreme recycling?).

I've had a bad night waking up every hour thinking about this scan, the baby being breech, dreaming that the nurse (the fake diner lady / copper from XxX wth Vin Diesel when he gets recruited...?!?) was booking me in for next appointment at "week 42" and all sorts of disturbing dreams about midwives and hospital care.
I booked a presentation scan with babybond on sunday just in case, I'm fully prepared to e told by DAU that they can't scan me today or some other rubbish and I need to know.

Dh was commanding me on how calm I stayed throughout yesterday, didn't even cry.
Woke up this mornig and I have a cold sore. .

LittleSarah · 22/05/2009 09:04

June - Good luck today, I hope you finally get some answers!

Silk - I have to admit I am very amused by the image of your dd happily munching away on a book! I think at 18 months though she is too young to really know right from wrong. I mean she will see that you are cross but not necessarily know why what she has done means that you are, IYKWIM.She can't understand why eating a book is bad. And did she get up bright and early still? I know my dd would! At that age she could go to bed at 11pm and be bright as a button at 6am.

Tee - I hate the bump discomfort! I have been lucky not to have sleep problems until now but now I can't get comfortable in bed and moving about is just really unpleasant.

Right, to do today... washing, clean the bathroom and research, plus a trip to the park at some point!

Naat · 22/05/2009 09:08

Morning Juners!

june How I am for you!!! You've repeatedly asked them to check and now they put up this circus!!! How dare they! I imagine you're on your way there or already there, so I'm thinking of you and sending positive thoughts. I hope you get the answers you're entitled to have.

(and breaaathe Naat)

silk so sorry to hear about that. I have no experience whatsoever so I cannot give proper advice If I'm not mistaken today is your last day at work, right? If so, !!!

laura hope you had a better night and that you're feeling better. Keep us posted.

effie hi there! Rest rest rest, remember?

daisy you're a sweetheart, thanks for that info for Laura.

LittleS a free woman!!! Congrats!!!! So happy for your, lady!! The dress looks really nice, btw.

Loouise great hearing from you, we've missed you lately Are you over here now in Yorks?

choccie oh my, I can only imagine the logistics of it all! You're all supermums, ladies I guess with DC we learn to cope with the oddest/most challenging situations And with such grace!

Doris your DD is so sweet!!! I imagine you loved being pampered in that way How annoying that your post disappeared!!! I hate when that happens!!!

bunny how was the bra shopping???

mrsmc hope your DH is on the mend. How are you?

Oh God, I'm sure I'm forgetting people but yesterday was a chatty day and I cannot catch up properly

Today I'm joining the club of the Juners whose husbands have become more of a hindrance at the moment Does any of you find now that you cannot help but cry when you're arguing?? God, it drives me absolutely insane and I cannot help it!! Bloody hormones! I end up crying because of the inability to stop crying Please tell me if I'm the only one on this awful boat...

Now I have puffy and itchy eyes and MW will be here in less than an hour so I must try and forget about it and distract myself.

Sorry, rant over

I'll come back later, hope you have a lovely morning, Juners

(((waves)))

Tee2072 · 22/05/2009 09:14

Morning all!

DH has taken the day off and we're going to go out and about to the Farmer's Market and the Spring Continental Market at our City Hall!

June I don't want to be an alarmist, but the cold sore virus can be very harmful to small babies. You should call your GP and see if they want to give you antibiotics for it. Even kissing a baby when you have a cold sore could make the baby very ill.

silk perhaps the book tasted good? Enjoy your last day of work!

naat DH looks at me funny and I burst into tears. I also have no patience for his usual stuff. He is always constantly goofing around and normally its all, hahaha aren't you funny. Lately? Its God, could you just stop!!

LittleSarah · 22/05/2009 09:21

Naat - I so hate arguing that it generally brings on the tears even when not pregnant!

Ineedmorechocolatenow · 22/05/2009 09:33

Tee - Enjoy your day, that sounds lovely!

naat - I'm the same. DS kneed me in the kidneys yesterday while jumping on the bed before his bath. I couldn't stop crying. It didn't even hurt that much but it was like a tap!

June - Sorry to hear about the shitty hospital. Grr. You just want an answer! A friend of mine was told her baby was head down all the way through the later stages of her pregnancy and early labour. It was only when the bum popped out rather than the head, that they realised that the baby was breech. ECS it was then! I hope you get an answer today. WHat a PITA.

silk - sometimes DH doesn't understand how important the bedtime routine is for getting DS to sleep. DS always has a bath, a story a cuddle and then bed. Once in a while is fine, but continual disruption to the routine can make for very disturbed sleep for everyone! I hope DD settles soon. Enjoy your last day. I hope you get more of a send off than Tee got.

Hello to the rest of you.

Lots of BH here. 38 weeks today, just want it all over now! Sun is shining though so might take DS to the park (if I can get of MN!)

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