Congratulations Northstar! It feels like things are starting to move along now!
Cab - really sorry to hear about your experience. Makes me feel pretty stupid for grumbling about sleepless nights caused by DD. She seems to be sleeping fine but makes all sorts of weird noises in her sleep and so we are kept awake wondering what she's doing, whether she's still breathing etc etc etc.
Uwila - this is my first baby and also my first op of any kind so I don't really have anything to compare it to. I had a spinal (which is like an epidural I think, but slightly different in some way which they explained but I can't remember now!).
The first few days afterwards I just kept taking the pain killers so I didn't really give it a chance to start hurting. Having said that, one end of the scar stayed swollen longer than the rest and got quite painful if I stood for too long or moved around much, but that seems to be getting better now. The only problem I have now is that I've pulled a muscle in my stomach - I think by trying to get myself sat up in bed to feed. Oh and there are a few small areas around the scar which still feel slightly numb but apparently they will come back gradually.
I have been taking arnica when I remember but not sure whether that or all the drugs the hospital gave me have been the main help! Good luck on 19th May - looking forward to hearing your noise!
Have to go now - a small girl is waking up - thank god as one boob is leaking like fury! Sorry if too much info .