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Due May 2009 We're Nesting and Napping, Squeezing and Holding

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FiKelly · 08/03/2009 07:41

here we go

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sausagenmash · 19/03/2009 10:13

Moooan, gruumble, ggrrrr, back at work... still, Jennster you just made me laugh out loud re: your butter expiry date! I think my marmite expires in May... must have had that jar for a while!

Polony - you also made me snigger re the Derek Zoolander thought - yes, I think the baby is jiggling around THAT much! And God knows whats going on in our dp's minds at the mo - mine is 'out for a couple' tonight with some old colleagues around Kings Cross. Hm. No comment. I'm out for a sedate lime and soda with another up the duff laydee around Covent Garden tonight, and dp will meet us later, and I've been promised a cab home, not the stinky 176. Can't remember who asked the other day - I live nearly at the end of the route - not quite at Penge!!

Back to the envelopes...

sophietom · 19/03/2009 10:42

Morning all!
FiKelly I'm booked in for a late scan to check placental position and looking forward to it for the same reason as you even though I'm v. worried that they'll tell me I have to have a c-section

Polony ~Blue badge assessment sounded awful- I bet that comment about being late really made your blood boil!

SweetBRODY have you tried Thorntons orange and cardamon chocolate? it's gorgeous and might hit the spot with your craving

I went to bingo last night convinced I would win a fortune to spend on baby stuff- I didn't win a penny and to top things off my back seized up due to being sat in the same position Bump seemed to enjoy it though, he was wriggling about like an eel all evening.

FiKelly · 19/03/2009 11:15

btw my tummy button is starting to turn into an outie.. never had that with ds lol

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Momino · 19/03/2009 11:31

hi all. just skimmed lightening quick since I was kicked off internet yesterday and spent 2 hours on tel with Norton trying to fix my system. it's obviously fixed but now I need to catch up with work as my day is half over. and i don't get paid for the time it's taken to fix my IT probs (working-from-home-for-charity rant).

Polony, loved your story about the irish lady with her 100 grandchildren .

about big bumps, bantam, I forget: do you know what you're having? i'm huge this time but don't know it's a bigger baby (my last two were small and average) or the way i'm carrying. everyone's saying it's a boy but i just think i'm 3rd time huge!

cardamon, gonna have to get some now....

Belgianchocolates · 19/03/2009 12:13

Morning everyone,

Well, I'm back from our little trip down to Kent. We visited 2 possible schools for the dcs and viewed 1 house that we wont be able to afford unless they drop the price by about £100,000 or we win the lottery, but as we don't play the latter is very unlikely .
Ooh, it's these sort of decisions that we are about to take now that make parenting feel like a daunting task. We took the dcs to see 2 potential schools. Both look excellent compared to their current school, even though their current school is supposed to be one of the best in our area. Both schools are different. One is about the size of their current school, but a much more active school, much more involved in the wider community with a lot of after school activities and a very strong PTFA. The other one is much much smaller, about 100 pupils, in a smaller villagem, but also very involved in the community. DS likes the last school and dd likes the first one. I think it's a sign of their personality really, dd liked the hussle and bussle of the bigger school with lots of space to run around. DS liked the cosiness of the last school + the fact that they can eat outside when the weather is nice . It's just such a big decision that we're about to make. A bigger decision really than whether to breast feed them or what nappies to use, because it will affect the course of their life, their future, the friends they'll make, the secondary school they'll go to, where we'll live,... It's so daunting. I was hoping for a relaxing mat leave and instead I've got this hanging above my head and I have to prepare a presentation!

I want to thank pula and sausagen for the advise. Especially the rule of 3 is useful, because the more I think about it the more issues that come into my mind! I do have a 10 min limit and a 3 slide limit too. My main problem is now thinkin about tackling those challenges and whether I'd need references for that too. I'm also getting in touch with them about moving the date. I haven't been able to do that yet due to our trip.

I hope all poorly lo's are better by now and the same counts for the bad sleepers.

sausagen Interestingly the leaflet my school health team's bed wetting information service (or whatever they're called) told me about the hormonal causes too, just like that MN'er someone else was on about. They also said that there is a strong genetic link in bedwetting, which I think is my ds's problem. We do try the odd nappyless week, but never succesful. Washing his sheets I don't mind, it's the wet duvet that's the problem. The only time he has longer periods of being dry is in summer when it's very hot.

I saw that other osteopath on tues. She was much much better. She did some decent work on my pelvis, though at the moment I can't feel all that much difference. I'm going back tomorrow for some more pulling and stretching and she's getting in touch with her old mentor who is apparently an SPD guru. In the meantime I'm getting fed up with the constant pain, even co-codamol is starting to loose it's effect. I'm seeing my mw tomorrow, so I'll see if they can squeeze me it to see my GP while I'm there so they can prescribe me something stronger. I'm trying to tell my baby to come in about 5 weeks, not 7 and definitely not 9!

FiKelly · 19/03/2009 12:45

belgian i feel exactly the same about schools with our house hunting. Such a daunting responsibilty. I was even in tears over the weekend when dh and i were trawling through all the properties on rightmove as dh wanted to look/consider houses in areas i really didn't want to live in. There are a few areas here that have had bad reps... some still do and dh wanted to look at a house on the very edge of one of these places. The catchment for ds primary school in that location meant that he would be going to a school i wasn't keen on... even though it's latest ofsted report was great (mainly as they've chucked so much money at it recently). I just didn't want him starting his schooling in an area where he might end up being affected by the small bad element out there. In the end i have agreed to look at this house but on the understanding that if i still feel so strongly about not moving there (which i'm absolutely sure of despite what he says) he'll never mention it again!

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FiKelly · 19/03/2009 12:46

fingers crossed they can also up your pain meds too

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Belgianchocolates · 19/03/2009 12:56

Thanks fi DS spent the whole of yesterday visiting schools looking angry, while dd was jumping and skipping around them, like she'd happily start school there tomorrow! DS told me he doesn't want to go to school at all, he wants me to teach him at home, our current home. I've told hime that that's impossible. I just haven't got the self discipline to home educate. He'd end up illiterate and ignorant!

LoobyLou36 · 19/03/2009 13:33

Got the results of my GTT

Aparently I've developed gestational diabetes

Now waiting for an appointment with diabetic nurse

LoobyLou36 · 19/03/2009 13:35

Does having gest diabetes mean they are more likely to induce early?

Belgianchocolates · 19/03/2009 13:41

Oh Looby that must make you so worried. Whether they'd induce you all depends on the size of your baby I think and how well your diabetes is managed. Write all your questions down so you can ask them during your next appointment. There must be hundreds of questions twirling around your head at the moment.
The appointment with the diabetic nurse is very interesting by the way, you'll learn a lot about diet and hopefully control the diabetes that way. You're not the only gestational diabetic on here, so I'm sure you'll get lots of useful advice from the others.

llareggub · 19/03/2009 13:52

looby I've got gestational diabetes. If you have any questions, let me know! My baby is on the 50th centile, so I've managed it fairly well, I'd say! I've been told they won't let me go over 40 weeks, and if I have a c-section it will be at 38 weeks.

Basically, exercise will help control your diabetes. After eating, I usually try to do something active like housework or a walk, or my Davina DVD. Have a look on the labels of food you eat. Look at the carbs that sugar per 100g part. If it is between 10g and 15g, use it sparingly. If over 15g, don't touch it! Watch your portion sizes aswell. You may well be able to manage GD through diet, or you may need insulin. If you have to go on insulin it doesn't mean you've failed! It really isn't too bad, honestly

Having said that, I was really upset about it at the time, despite knowing as someone with PCOS I was more likely to get it. My GD is worse in the morning so I've been living on bacon. Weirdly, I can almost eat anything in the evening, it isn't so bad then.

LoobyLou36 · 19/03/2009 13:55

I've been measuring 90th centile.

I was a bit tearful when I got the news. Silly I know.

Just want to get it sorted out asap.

LoobyLou36 · 19/03/2009 13:56

Just feel like I've let myself and LO down

Lost 2stone before getting pg too. To give the baby the best start.

FiKelly · 19/03/2009 14:03

LoobyLou36 it must be a huge shock but remember others have said in the past those with it during pregnancy don't usually continue to gave diabetes afterwards... there's not long to go now and better to know now than later... that way you know you'll be looked after if needed. You haven't failed at all!

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llareggub · 19/03/2009 14:04

Looby, my consultant suspects I had it with DS, as he was waaaaay above the 100th centile when he was born. You should see him now. If he is on the 10th centile I'd be surprised! He is very skinny, very happy and very, very healthy. He has hardly been ill at all in his 2.5 years.

Some people are more prone to GD, but you haven't done anything to cause it. But what you can do now is control your blood sugars. To be honest with you, I feel a lot better in this pregnancy than I did with my first and I suspect it is because I've forced myself to exercise everyday whereas in my first pregnancy I didn't really do anything at all. I'm also eating a lot better, and on the bright side, I think I'll probably carry on eating like this post pregnancy as well.

I do understand how you feel. I felt exactly the same as you, honestly. The diabetic nurse made me cry when she told me about it and she told me that all of her pregnant patients do. Its probably the hormones!

FiKelly · 19/03/2009 14:05

sorry for the bad typos... who knows if i measure larger again than my weeks at my next appointment (when i'll be 33wks) they might be sending me for a GDT too

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llareggub · 19/03/2009 14:06

looby what fikelly says is correct. Only a small number of people stay diabetic, and they are probably people who were undiagnosed type 2 diabetics before pregnancy.

LoobyLou36 · 19/03/2009 14:10

thanks for the reassurance lare fikelly

don't know what I'd do without MN

Better get some work done, I'll be back on later

llareggub · 19/03/2009 14:34

Looby another bonus is that you should now get regular growth scans, so you'll get to see your baby again soon! I get one every 4 weeks, and get to see 2 (yep, 2!) consultants so you'll should get plenty of advice and care.

Momino · 19/03/2009 14:45

looby, just hopping on here and read your news - big hugs to you and just listen to what the others have said on here. and don't be hard on yourself either. I like what llareggub said about extra care and advice, always a good thing.

Belgianchocolates · 19/03/2009 15:12

looby llareggub is right. You'll get to see your baby more and lots of advice. It's worrying, but at the same time it's better to have been picked up than going undetected. If you stick to the advice you'll hopefully be able to keep baby's size under control!

pulapula · 19/03/2009 16:02

looby sorry to hear about your diagnosis, but as others have said, its good that you know so you can do things to keep it under control, and you get to see LO as you will have regular scans.

I have added some more pics to my profile- my bump today (30+3), my bump at 40 weeks with DD (dont seem to have taken any pg photos with DS ), and DS and DD today (I've been trying to snap them to put some photos in the frame i bought for my mum for mothers day and these were the best- DS is very cute and says "cheese" but at the same time lurches towards the lens!)

sausagenmash · 19/03/2009 16:20

Big hugs for Looby - don't blame yourself at all, please don't. Sounds like you worked ever so hard to lose 2 stone before getting pregnant, and that is amazing and you should be very, very proud of yourself, and give yourself lots of pats on your back. Its pretty common - I've known a few friends who have developed GD, and you just wouldn't know it. Everyone on here is giving v gd advice, and you'll see your baby more, and all the health professionals are there to help you, not to judge or anything.

Belgian - am that hormones are mentioned in that leaflet!! What does it say exactly? And no probs re presentation tips!

... if I ever see another brown A4 envelope...

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