Pempe Men, hey?
Laughing at the bra thing, imagine trying to feed in public with a kinky peep-hole bra!
O&U I may lose my pride, my perky boobs, the ability to walk with my legs closed, but never my sense of humour or the ability to laugh (she says now)
Calico The 2 spare widget things, I think, are the tube tops for the bit where the double attachment goes on, you know when you have the 2nd seat on the back or the front? The extra 2 bits go into the end of the frame on the side you're not using iyswim, but probably not, reading that I don't know what I mean....
justme We used a travel cot at my parents house whenever we stayed when ds was 'new', we just used it with the hard 'mattress' it came with as was only for a night or 2 at a time. I'm sure the travel cot will be fine for your lo. As for the smoking, my whole family are smokers (including myself) and like what your parents will do, they/we either pop outside or keep it to one room with windows open and ds banned. I understand your worry about it being their house and how you'd feel awkward asking them not to smoke even if you are out, but remember your baby will be their grandchild, they will not do anything to jepordise his health/safety whether you mention it or not I should imagine, and if you do ask them to refrain from smoking around baby's things or in certain rooms, even in his/her absence, they will probabl be very understanding to your concerns, it is only 2 weeks.
MS I still find it hard to imagine there's a person with a willy inside me!
I am tired all of the time again. I slept really well last night and even had a lay-in but just feel completely shattered!
Thankfully, dp is feeling better and is going back to work tonight, don't envy him in this rain!