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Dec Mums - Christmas is coming...the Dec ladies have got all fat...time to have our babies...the novelty's worn flat

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Beans33 · 01/12/2008 13:54

Here's a new link for us all - think it needed doing asap as running out of space!!

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JamInMyWellies · 04/12/2008 19:05

I would ignore the thumb thing. If its for security she will just transfer it to something else when she is ready she will stop.

Donny congratulations.

So did a bit of housework the upstairs is done just got to do the downstairs and I will feel I can go into labour and my house will be clean. I know I am a freak

Best go sort out munchkin and get him to bed then I think its fish and chips for tea tonight woohoo.

kayzisexpecting · 04/12/2008 19:06

2 years!! 4 even, I swear the baby has moved into my brain today. I can't spell or anything today. I added 10 and 12 and got 31 earlier.

CatDean · 04/12/2008 19:34

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kayzisexpecting · 04/12/2008 19:49

I don't think I'll be watching that.

If the curry thing is true I will be having the baby tonight. We just had a Rogan Josh and it was gorgeous but so hot!!

Veggiemummy · 04/12/2008 19:51

Cat what a bizarre thing to make a show about.

Kayz i did wonder how that had worked, isn't your son about 2. I love when we visit MIL or she comes to us as the food is always great. DH is the same with 'english food' he spent from 16 onwards in australia and found some food a bit dodgy, but he loves sausage stews, toad in a hole and pies and things like that (well vegetarian versions). the only problem we have discovered lately though is that too much wheat based foods and too much potato messes his digestion up. His ex didn't cook much so they mostly ate his cooking but he and i share cooking so he does asian type stuff and i do western and i love potatoes but it can make him a bit bunged up so now we have a bit more asian, which is fine with me.

Veggiemummy · 04/12/2008 19:53

Trace- my contractions started low and pretty much stayed there like bad period pain, but i have heard you can get them in your back so i guess it is different from person to person.

kayzisexpecting · 04/12/2008 19:59

Yeah my brain isn't working. We split up because I wanted to stay with my Mum when she moved to Yorkshire.

I swear my brain is like jelly today. Nothing is making sense. I couldn't find my keys that were in the door, I couldn't find DS's shoes that were on his feet and I couldn't work out why the oven wasn't working for 30 minutes. It was switched off at the wall.

Veggiemummy · 04/12/2008 20:14

Kayz- i keep having people knock on our door after i have gotten home from being out to tell me that i have left our keys in the front door.

kayzisexpecting · 04/12/2008 20:17

Yeah I do that too.

I gave someone our old address the other day. I had to ring them back to give them the new one.

CatDean · 04/12/2008 20:22

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kayzisexpecting · 04/12/2008 20:25

Cat I was expecting this one to be so hot. It must have been me though, as I can stand ones a lot hotter than DH and he didn't think it was hot.

kayzisexpecting · 04/12/2008 20:34

AGAIN!!!!!

Argh!!!!

I wasn't expecting this one to be so hot.

See brain=mush

Veggiemummy · 04/12/2008 20:34

i am sooooooooooooooooo uncomfortable tonight it feels like veggiebaby is taking up every availale space, inclding the place where my stomach should be. DH made yummy dinner but i could only eat the veggies and some tofu, no carbs cos they just won't fit. on top of that i am having loads of BH so feeling really tight across the top of my bump. oh and my back hurts. Right will stop winging now.

Verso · 04/12/2008 20:49

How am I supposed to keep up with you lot?! >wags finger<

Can't say anything re feeding as will spoil it if you get my drift .

LadyT I think you were asking about mood swings - they're v v v common - even normal - postnatally - just a problem if they last for months on end. Your hormones change very abruptly once the baby and the placenta are delivered, so it's normal to find yourself a bit wobbly for a while. I find I weep very easily - but I still don't feel 'depressed', if that makes sense. There's definitely a difference. PND can also manifest as severe anxiety (which is how it started for me) so that's something to keep an eye out for. Some anxiety, again, is totally normal when looking after a new baby though!

effie I think you asked re silverette (?). They're weird. I don't go in for crystal healing/homeopathy etc usually (hark at me wondering where my arnica tablets are ) and these smack a bit of that - you have to wash them in bicarb before applying the first time... All I can see they do is keep your clothes away from your nipples - but maybe I'm being overly cynical! Give me another day and I'll give a more balanced verdict.

Beans I found myself doing the countdown thing as well. It's a strange feeling!

donnylass congratulations!

artichokes have a {big hug}. Sounds like you are quite down today. I'm sure your DD will be fine but I can identify with these final bits of time before the new arrival feeling very precious.

Hatty my labour with DD1 started with very period-like pains. I found myself wondering "where's the Feminax?" before I realised I couldn't take any! The clue was when they became time-able... have yours got a pattern yet?!

I didn't see the private BF counsellor in the end. DH was a bit reluctant, given that you have to pay and I'd had a couple of ok feeds overnight so might be turning a corner anyway. I can go to the (free) clinic tomorrow though if things don't get consistently better.

zoejeanne · 04/12/2008 21:19

Hatty/Cat ? I?ve also been having period pains too, I think it must be just something (womb, babies head, something else ??) limbering up (but have no experience to back that up) ? we?re all due at a similar time I think, so I hope it?s not a sign of labour yet, I?d like another couple of weeks (and I?d prefer to avoid Christmas Day too, although that suits DH?s work as he?s always v busy in December so he keeps asking babyZJ to aim for the 25th).

JJ ? a lovely name for your lovely girl ? and well done on the nappies

Verso ? no news on feeding sounds like good news

DH and I have just watched panorama, about Shannon Matthews ? it is so awful, that poor little girl, but also her poor brothers and sisters who probably have also been treated the same as Shannon. DH in particular is really shocked (and has been saying so over and over again since it finished). It a strange way, I?m pleased he?s been affected by it, as he never used to pay any attention to things like that.

Ok, good night all, hope you all sleep tight x

Veggiemummy · 04/12/2008 21:34

verso i am whispering a very quiet hooray for you but not being too laod about it of course.

i couldn't watch the Shannon Mathews thing i find it too upsetting. I watched a little of that war in the womb thing but too annoying. why don't they ever try to show how great womens bodies are instead of saying negative stuff. sorry it may have only been the it i watched.

what is a Silverette, i thought it was the name of some pushchair you were talking about.

JJ i love the name the 2 names got together so nicely.

CatDean · 04/12/2008 21:38

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Veggiemummy · 04/12/2008 21:43

same hear Cat i have a had a quick whizz through but can't see anything else on, how tight is Barry Manilows face. I think i might check if we have V+ any QI.

JamInMyWellies · 04/12/2008 21:46

I too watched the Shannon Matthews prog, am absoloutley apalled at the way those poor children have been treated.

No curry for us tonight we decided to go for chinese, I think Thursday nights are takeaway night when you become parents. It used to be thirsty Thursday come home at 1am rolling drunk now a good crispy duck does it for us.

katie3677 · 04/12/2008 21:51

Just a quick post before I go off and catch up. Liliana (Lily) Alice Grace was born on Wednesday 3rd Dec at 10.35am, weighing 11lb, 2oz. Bet I win largest baby for that one! The C-section was not as easy as I thought, especially as DH fainted whilst they were trying to get the epidural in, causing all sorts of chaos! Lily is gorgeous and we are slowly getting there with the breastfeeding, despite problems getting her to latch on. Will post more soon, but need some sleep tonight.

CatDean · 04/12/2008 21:51

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Veggiemummy · 04/12/2008 21:52

oh man i am so dopey that should have been same here

CatDean · 04/12/2008 21:54

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Veggiemummy · 04/12/2008 21:56

yay katie, well done for growing such a big healthy baby (i think you had to inj insulin didnt you but i prefer the idea that you did it yourself) Skin to skin contact as much as possible after CS can help with the breastfeeding. Otherwise i think Verso is going to be a post CS breastfeeding guru soon so ask her if you need any advice. Well done again and i love that name so feminine and gently i think.

Veggiemummy · 04/12/2008 22:17

Katie just saw your photo of Liliana, gorgeous and so much lovely hair. I also like the red outfit, i love red on babies, boys or girls.

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