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Due Nov 08 'Listen baby, I've crocheted you a lovely cardie... now don't make me come in there with that hook!'

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sparkletoes · 11/11/2008 16:36

Lets see if these overdue babies get a move on!

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barbareebaa · 13/11/2008 20:10

Ooey - thanks for your lovely messages. I think maybe I was a bit naive and not at all prepared!! But touched me somewhere else I don't think he should've. In that situation, it's painful and you're kind of in no position to argue. I'm not very happy about it but don't know whether it's me being silly or whether something untoward happened. I'm going to draw a line under it and move forward because I feel sad and i should be happy and can't think any more about it.
Think I'm going to pop self in nice bath now!
x

barbareebaa · 13/11/2008 20:17

p.s. ceebee think you should definitely insist on just having dh and ds at first - you're not being precious- it's a very special time. Would she understand if you asked her to come a little later?

ChocOrange05 · 13/11/2008 20:20

Barb sending hugs and enjoy your nice bath.

ceebee I completely understand why you want it to be just you, DH and DS (and new baby!) - its such a special time. Try and put your foot down - you are going through pregnancy and a serious procedure (CS) and should make sure your feelings are prioritised here. Good luck!

MummyNic · 13/11/2008 20:23

Hello everyone. Sorry I haven't been on for a while, nor have I caught up on posts

BIRTH ANNOUNCEMENT

James William was born by emergency c-section at 02:25 Thurs 6th Nov 2008 weighing 6lb 12.5oz.

Only came home on Monday afternoon and was admitted yesterday for high blood blood pressure but all is ok-ish now.

Birth story:

The birth was rather traumatic. I was admitted to the antenatal ward as James? heart wasn?t good. They waited a couple of hours and monitored him again and he was much worse so they called a consultant. The consultant got me moved to the labour ward and continued monitoring while she rang the consultant I saw on Tuesday. She came back and said that Mr Dixon had said that he didn?t think either of us would survive being induced so ordered a c-section. So I rang DH (I?d sent him home after I was admitted as we had no idea how long I?d be there), it was 0110. As I was on the phone to him James' heart rate dropped down to 70 and stayed there, I yelled at DH to ?Get here NOW? as Bronwyn (the consultant on duty) got everyone moving and ordered the c-section to be done right then, no waiting.

0125 DH arrived ? in the meantime they?d put the canular in my arm, taken my necklaces off, I?d signed the consent form etc?.

Off to theatre?

Oh it?s not pleasant being awake for surgery. At one point I couldn?t feel myself breathing so they tipped the bed slightly and the spinal block moved down enough for me to feel my chest again ? like a spirit level!! How odd!!!

James arrived at 0225 after some complications, he was ?head down? for birth but instead of having his chin tucked in he was sticking his head up so they couldn?t get him out?. Pair of hands rummaging inside me that turned him round so he was Breech and he was dragged out that way!! Poor bugger!! Also, this is an added problem for me in that I have additional swelling and bruising = pain!

James then needed help to breath which upset DH a lot ? as he was sat next to me he could see them working on him, I was still behind the screen which, now I know, I am very grateful for. Then came the first cry and our gorgeous boy was brought to us. I couldn?t hold him as I was too numb to be in control but I was able to hold and feed him in the recovery ward just a short time later.

Alls well that ends well and James is wonderful. He had some blood sugar level issues in the first few days but he?s fine now. He was a rascal last night, wouldn?t stop feeding! Well, not quite that bad but it felt it at the time!

I'm shattered now and James is sleeping so I must get to bed too....

Hello to all those still waiting and those with babies and huge bags under their eyes!! It's a shame I can't drive for 6 weeks, I'd fit loads into my bags!!

chocolategal · 13/11/2008 20:31

congratulations mummynic glad all is well now, sounds like a tough time.

misdee · 13/11/2008 20:36

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LackaDAISYcal · 13/11/2008 20:37

gosh Mummynic; sounds rather traumatic! Glad James is safe and well now though, and I hope you have a speedy recovery and are taking arnica to help speed things along.

Ceebee, can DH bring DS in with him and then MIL come say half an hour later, stay for a bit and then take DS back with her? from my own experience, kids can get very fractious in hospitals so best to keep their visit to a minimum.

LackaDAISYcal · 13/11/2008 20:39

lovely pics misdee and your girls are all gorgeous......your house is going to be fantastic when they all hit puberty

chocolategal · 13/11/2008 20:40

beautiful family misdee you must be so so proud

twinkle183 · 13/11/2008 20:42

Goodness MummyNic I think your an absolute saint for being able to cope with such a dramatic birth - I would of been all over the place.....!!!! My hats off to you! Glad James is fine now - what a lovely name!!!

Congrats to all the new mums since I have been on earlier this afternoon!!!

Oblomov thanks for the encouragement - am wishing this baby was here... again another tightening and NO baby am started to get alittle frustrated!!! Am so jealous of all you with your babies...!!! I know it will get here eventually and my midwife has decided to go on holiday this week so no luck with a sweep either

twinkle183 · 13/11/2008 20:43

misdee She is beautiful... didn't realise that you were on facebook, mind if I add you?

misdee · 13/11/2008 20:46

yes sure

sparkletoes · 13/11/2008 20:50

Congratulations to WAM4, Browny (sorry somehow missed you earlier!), Lauraw and MummyNic!

Phew what a baby spurt we've had!!

Barbs that does not seem right or pleasant, hope you are ok but I would discuss this experience with someone (midwife?) personally. They could maybe reassure you more...? As for the plenty internals in labour

Ceebs I have done a bit of research into the first meeting of DS and baby2. First of all the advice recommends it is just you, DH and the kids and no GPs. It also advises that you don't cuddle/feed baby when DS arrives.

However my friend said the MW asked her to show her how she was feeding just as her DS arrived!!! I am therefore going to try and warn them in advance that I really don't want this to happen. However if baby screaming for feed then what the heck do I do??!!!

Rest of advice just says to give present from LO that you already have covered and try to put baby second in its demands... we'll see! Therefore I don't think it is unreasonable to ask MIL to stay away at such an important time.

Going to look at Misdee pics now, LOVE that baby got her milk and cardie!

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ceebee74 · 13/11/2008 20:52

Misdee lovely lovely photos of all your family and Sophie is gorgeous!! Hope your first day as a family has been

Mummynic congrats on the birth of James - sorry it was so traumatic but good that you are now home and can start your life as a little family!!

Daisy all I want is half an hour of it just being us - DH (being a tight arse) was just concerned about paying 2 lots of parking fees. Tbh, I have told DH that DS is his priority whilst I am in hospital - during the day whilst DS is in nursery, DH can spend all day with me and the baby but in the evenings, he needs to be with DS and try and keep things as 'normal' as possible with him - so I think DH will take DS home and put him to bed etc - then the other visitors can come and keep me company in the evenings!!

Glad you don't all think I am being a control freak lol!

sparkletoes · 13/11/2008 20:53

Oh and LOVE the name ChocO!!! Bet that is a relief to have found the perfect one! (and gives me hope as we are back to drawing board. Again!)

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ceebee74 · 13/11/2008 20:56

Sparks cross-posts - thanks for that info. I can use that as ammunition to make DH see that it is best that it is just the 4 of us! Dozy has already given me the advice about not cuddling the baby when DS arrives, present is wrapped and in the bottom of my bag.....the other issue DH has is that he treats his mum like she is basically incapable - she isn't and is more than capable of parking at the hospital and finding the ward

sparkletoes · 13/11/2008 21:06

Oh dear Ceebs she sounds a bit precious! Can't accurately remember the reasoning behind the no GP rule but I think it was to do with normality of situ... It made sense at the time! Same as shunting first borns off to GPs is supposed to breed resentment too (LOL that won't be a problem I'll have!). Good luck!

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sparkletoes · 13/11/2008 21:13

Beautiful pictures Misdee what gorgeous & lucky girls!

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vbab78 · 13/11/2008 22:24

HELLO LADIES.

I'm really sorry but this will be a quick post as trying to keep myself awake.

CONGRATS to everyone who has had their baby's. Fingers crossed for those of you waiting for news soon. Love and Hugs to everyone for your kind words and support before and after the arrival of Alyssa Ann. EVEN BIGGER love and hugs to those of you who have been having problems and stresses.

Birth story for Alyssa Ann born 11/11/08 9.05pm, delivered at home , by daddy and with no pain relief .

11th Nov
AM - Was wondering if waters had gone, as I found out later, NO. Did ironing, shopping, prescriptions and picked up DS from nursery.

3PM onwards - slight back ache but nothing really so acted like normal including wrestling/playing with DS.

5.30PM - period pain feeling cramps

6PM - PAINS started to get regular but not so much I thought something soon. Bathed and got DS ready for bed, peeled potatoes & veg for tea, sat with DS then DH come home from work.

7PM - DH took DS to mum's as thought something is happening as pains worse but not until tomorrow.

8PM ISH - Tried to eat T but couldnt as pains more intense. PHONED LABOUR WARD they said have a bath and see if contractions continue and get worse. Not thinking much apart from this hurts and I am being a real wimp especially so early on.

8.15PM - After DH had a shower!!! I got in bath. Afer 30mins of being a wimp in the bath said to DH "Can't handle this love feel wimp so early". DH said "Come on you are the strongest person I know".

8.45PM GOT OUT OF BATH. Leaning on sink CONTRACTION starts so DH holds me and I rest my head on him. Then in an instant POP waters on the floor and I say "I need a poo!". DH tells me to get on loo which I do and have a massive POO!

STILL SAT ON LOO I tell DH need hospital so he starts running around trying to get clothes etc for me. DH realised my "bits" had swollen and realised it was the head inside . he started to panic and said "you need to tell me what to do". I said "phone an ambulance NOW".

NOW DH account:
As I was on the phone I could see baby's head appearing and could see the cord! I supported baby's head whilst on the phone and gave the operator all the info she req'd. I then had to drop the phone as I could see the head appearing a bit more, ANN STOOD UP HOLDING ON TO SINK AND TOWEL RADIATOR, then Ann said she needed to push and baby appeared in my hands! I put baby on Mums chest and wrapped them both up with towels and we had a wait of around 5 mins and an ambulance turned up. I had no time to think about what I had just done and had no time for emotion as the ambulance crew arrived and took over making sure Ann and baby were OK. All occurred within an hour I would say, which was nearly as amazing as me doing what I did especially seeing as I'm a big girl about blood and squeamish stuff! Eventually they cut the cord and transported mother and baby to hospital, I followed 15 mins after.
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In ambulance had Gas & Air as still having contractions as placenta still in. hospital delivered the placenta and gave me a couple of stitches.

Alyssa and Me both fine. She had a feed and I had a lovely shower shortly after.
Told that the last GBS swab I had (2ish wks ago) was -ve so probably go home in a few hours after checks.

12TH (morn after)
On the ward told that need 24hr monitoring for Alyssa which started at 11pm 11/11 so prob wont go home today but see what Dr says.

The Dr says can go home. DH arrives and takes all our stuff to car and to fetch car seat. In the meantime I mention to a midwife going home and she is . Then another midwife comes and says "the Dr said after 24hr monitoring can go home so not until tomorrow (13th)". I say "No, he didnt say that. He said go home". Midwife says "well shouldnt listen to doctors" (joking I think). DH comes back to me crying and has to go and fetch all our stuff back!

Got let out today as everything was fine .

Got some pics on profile.

BYE FOR NOW ...

sparkletoes · 13/11/2008 22:35

OH GOD have just had a show.

and emptied bowels.

and now feel sick and a bit shaky.

but this is nothing right? Gonna run a bath.

pains in noo-noo continue but not contractions or BH.

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vbab78 · 13/11/2008 22:38

sparkle - GO GIRL! Hugs and stuff.

sparkletoes · 13/11/2008 22:39

Oh Congrats Vbab! She is gorgeous and well done you! Hugs.

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sparkletoes · 13/11/2008 22:50

Ok bath is running so able to read birth story properly! No pain relief jeeze sounds like she just slipped out while you weren't looking! Ideal! Well done DH for keeping cool too.

Crap about MW at hospital that doesn't sound like a nice way to be spoken to but I think some of them are just like that. Forget her. You have 2 beautiful kids now so enjoy every minute and well done again! So pleased .

(if anyone is listening I'll have one of those births please!!) wadddles off to find lavender oil ouch, ouch...

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LackaDAISYcal · 13/11/2008 23:24

bloody hell vbab; you don't do things by half

what a star you and DH are for doing this on your own; one to tell the grandchildren there!!

She is beautiful and rightly so you should look smug. Glad you are home and well

Go sparkletoes