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Due in Nov 2005??!!!

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rodeo1 · 07/03/2005 14:36

Hello!

I'm starting a Due in Nov thread! A bit early maybe, but hey! By my calcs(!) I'm due Nov 3rd, are there any other ladies out there around the same time? I'm sure loads for Nov haven't even missed their period yet!

Anyway, I'm 27
pg no 4, dd1 born ar 26 weeks, sadly didn't make it, but now happily have dd2 age 5 and ds age 3 next week. And 1 lovely dp of 7 years!

Sorry if you've read this for a 2nd time but was advised by sallie to post on here!! x x x

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cp3 · 09/04/2005 15:14

So sorry to hear your news Diddle, must be so disappointed. Hope you are feeling well and taking care of yourself.

Not posted for a while as not much to add really.
I have first midwife appointment on Thurs, still waiting to hear from the primary care trust about which hospital im going to. If i dont get into Frimley then i dont get my 12 week scan so will be well annoyed.

Good news is Dp' mum seems to be on the mend. She had a big set back and had prob;ems breathing but is defiantley on the up. We took the kids to see her and they were so well behaved that i thought maybe id brought the wrong kids.

Just had a little nap. still not many symtoms really but i definatley have a noticable bump. Im only 11 weeks how is that possible???? Ill be a whale by the time i reach 39weeks

cp3 · 09/04/2005 16:50

Im loosing the plot, I just watched the Grand National and it made me cry. It looked so gruelling for the horses.

Enthusia · 09/04/2005 16:58

I think that must be one of the most novel reasons for crying at the Grand National, I bet all other weepers were more worried about their pockets than the horses.

ChaCha · 09/04/2005 18:53

Hi Enthusia, you sound in great spirits today, alls well? DH thinks that I'm going to catch every bug going when i step into school on Monday. Think he wants me wrapped in cotton wool to be honest. I am not looking fwd to the journey to and from work and can see a repeat scenario of the week before half term - simply working, falling asleep by 2pm, coming home and eating and sleeping until the next day! Very nice! Have really been an anti-social one these days and best friend right now is my bottle of bubble bath, PJs and reading material (not to mention the munchies of course) Okay, am now talking to much. Tell me to shut it, it's fine

Well, i bought the Rough Guide to Pregnancy (Kaz Cooke) and have been having a chuckle at that, am up to Week 7 and treated myself to one of those pregnancy diaries where you fill in the dates and stuff. Woooooooh...

Diddle, I sure hope your enjoying your weekend. I need to tackle some work (story of my life) but will do that once i eat the pizza that's cooking downstairs..Goodfella's extra cheese yum yum. What film d'ya watch? Have you seen SAW? Oh my Gosh!

Yingers, how are you?

Well, think i've taken enough webspace with my msg. See you all in 5 minutes..LOL

peepee · 09/04/2005 19:37

)))))))))))))))HUGS(((((((((((((((

Diddle, I know exactly what you are going through. Keep being positive. It will eventually happen.
I am hoping it has happened this time for me. this is my fifth attempt. I stress out on every visit to the loo. After the first m/c I was off work for 5 months. All sorts of stresses caused it not just the m/c, that was just the last straw.
Anyway, the 2nd 3rd and fourth were easier to accept. If anything it made us more determined. We suceeded in getting pregnant by having sex every day for 10 days from the third day after the last day of my menstrual cycle. (Does that make sense?)

My 3rd and fourth ones lasted a matter of five weeks therefore not even seen by GP. Should anything happen this time I suppose I start having the tests.

I know it's hard but try and enjoy yourself for a while and don't let getting pregnant take over your life. It will happen. You are doing all the right things. Good luck.

TAKE CARE

Diddle · 09/04/2005 20:32

cha cha i've seen saw, well most of it some of it i watched with my hands over my face. Its a bit gruesome.
pee pee - thanks for the words of encouragement, i'm sure your pregnancy will go well, i can't imagine what you have been through.
My fingers are crossed for you, i know how it feels to tick off the days as an achievement as you get that little bit further.
Having a relaxing weekend, feel knackered now though.

dangirl · 09/04/2005 20:38

Hi everyone. This is such a nice thread with so many people - even at w/e.

Koalabaear and BEKsmum, I am off to Denmark for work. So no where really exotic. Will be nice though!

Diddle, I am soo sorry for your loss. Having been there myself I know it's not an easy time for you. We are many thinking of you.

We told my husbands parents as the first yesterday. Strange, that makes it seem more real now.
9 weeks today. Can't wait to start showing.

Have a great w/e to all.
Hugs, Dangirl xx

BEKsmum · 09/04/2005 21:43

Diddle, sweetheart I'm so sorry that it is not to be for you and your dh this time. Sending you hugs and lots of baby dust, keep us informed of your progress, we're all going to be very jealous of your ability to eat lots of nice things, to drink white wine spritzers and for having the energy for lots & lots of bding.

CP3 I wanted to cry at the National too, we'd backed Clan Royal, bl**dy riderless horses!!! Glad to hear that mum in law is on the mend, don't your kids make you proud when they behave well!!!

Peepee, have a great birthday on Sunday, how was the show? It sounds lovely although didn't it include lots of forbidden foods?

Hellkat, I wasn't half as sick as you were by the sounds of it, glad to hear you are on the mend, oh how I long for the look you described, it would take me a life time to achieve, so if you need some spare bulk, mail me and I'll syphon a few stones off for you .

Off to bed now as going to Southend tomorrow for some sea air and to freeze to bits probably but ds is excited about the whole idea - so will make it all worthwhile. First big potty training test for him tomorrow, but he has been an absolute star this week, so think he will be fine. Take care all.

yingers74 · 09/04/2005 22:26

diddle - sorry to hear about your loss. When you decide to ttc again, try the ttc after m/c thread although I think the thread is now called something like www.orderbaby.com now, the women are great and really supportive, I really felt understood and warm there.

chacha - have been rather ill these last few days, am completely knackered most of the time and feeling sick everytime I look at food yet am hungry! Madness.

Anyway else? I am really really hoping that it will ease off at 12 weeks. with my dd was sick for about 6 months!!! My fingers are seriously crossed.

I am currently reading promise of happiness for my reading group. Also recently read oryx and crake by margaret atwod which was pretty good. However, am a big fantasy fiction fan, love all that wands, magic and sword stuff, and thought the voyage of jerle shannara by terry brooks was a good adventure.

busyalexsmummy · 09/04/2005 22:29

Diddle, Im so sorry to hear your news, its devastating but focus
on reasons unknown to you that wasnt meant to be, I wish you all
the success on ttc and hope it happens fairly quickly, my advice is
try not to think about it-it always happens when you least expect it!
Best of luck and love

CP3, lol at the grand national, I seem to be reasonably collected
this time round, not like with ds, when I ended up blubbering at
everything!! :-)

Peepee, have a great birthday on Sunday

Hellkat, oooh you lucky thing, your going to be one of those women
with such a neat little bump arent you!!

Beksmum, have a good time in southend tommorrow, lets hope you
dont get blown to pieces, like we did at home today!

Still feeling pretty rotten, been urging a lot today,
seems to worsen as the day wears on for some reason.
Finding it really hard, especially this last week
(which is why i havent been online much) because dp has been
on early's, so leaves at 5am, so i have to get up for ds, and his naps
during the day have been patchy the last few days, so makes it
really hard to have a sleep in the day, plus, if i do get the chance
to sleep -i dont want to wake up!!!
Been thinking alot lately about how we are going to manage 2
financially, have been looking into child tax credits/working tax credits
but it seems really complicated, so I think i'll put off sorting it out for a while yet!

peepee · 10/04/2005 08:36

Thanks for all the birthday wishes. Was woken up at 6.30. My mother was on the phone wishing me a happy birthday. She has this thing about always having to be the first one to wish me a happy birthday. DH always gets there first though!

Beksmum, you were right, the show was great and yes it was also full of loads of forbidden stuff. DH had a feast of food and wine. I got a ham roll and a lemonade!

I got to say hello to the lovely Aldo Zilli. He is really thin now and it makes him look quite old. He needs to fatten himself up with some good italian food! (I'm getting hungry) [GRIN]

SOME PREGNANCY ADVICE PLEASE

Has anyone else stopped feeling nauseous, as I have. My boobs are still sore. Does anyone else have anything like butterflies or a gurgling type feeling in their tummies? I have never got this far so have no idea whether it is normal or not!

THANKS AGAIN FOR MY BIRTHDAY WISHES.
Ciao for now!

Diddle · 10/04/2005 09:07

[GRIN] HAPPY BIRTHDAY PEE PEE [GRIN]

hope you have a nice relaxing day.

Yingers - thanks for the advice will look at the thread in a minute. Have stopped bleeding now so i'm just going to have to wait a few weeks for AF to appear. Hope its not too long or gruesome.

Busyalexsmummy - Thank we are going to stay positive and just see what happens. I still feel very achy so we're going to make sure my body si ready for it again.

Have a lovely sunday to you all!!! its lovely and sunny in the midlands.

Diddle · 10/04/2005 09:07

i see my grins didn't work, sorry pee pee

cp3 · 10/04/2005 09:11

Peepee, Good Morning and Happy. Cant believe your mum woke you so a early. If my phone rang at that time i just pick it up and put it staight back down again. Anyway hope you have a lovely day.

I havnt experienced the Butterflies thing but i know lots of women that have. As for the sickness thing i was laid out in all three of my last preganncies with sickness. This time round ive had nothing. Im nearly 12 weeks now and have a huge bump,extremed tiredness, big bubes but no sickness at all. I did retch a bit after an ecercise class but basically its like im not pregnant at all.

Just goes to show how different all preganancies are.

Anyone haveing really strange dreams. I am sleeping so heavily and my dreams are off the wall, better than telly.

Did anyone else think that baby dying in footballers wives was in really bad taste?????

cp3 · 10/04/2005 09:12

boobs that should be obviously

BEKsmum · 10/04/2005 09:47

Happy B'day Peepee, I'd never speak to anyone again who phoned me that early even if it was my mum Lol at your lunch at La dolce Vita

ChaCha · 10/04/2005 09:56

Happy Birthday Pee Pee Have a great day.

ChaCha · 10/04/2005 13:09

Everyone knows!!! DH told a few people and now it seems that the whole world knows! Keep receiving phone calls and text messages from people i haven't even had contact with in absolute ages - I don't know how to explain my feelings right now but i'm not even 7 weeks yet and its already local news.
I'm really in tears, having an emotional day. Just had a cry because the washing machine was leaking and just HAD to hang out washing NOW!
Oh dear...

cp3 · 10/04/2005 13:33

Cha Cha we havnt told family yet. A few friends know but my sister in laws baby was due april 1st so i want her to have all the attention for a while. Wish she would hurry up and have it though. Im having to breathe in when i see dp side of the family.

ChaCha · 10/04/2005 14:21

cp3, is this your first? It's ours after 3 and a half years and i think in DHs excitement everyone was told too early.
I'm over it now, think i've just been having an amazingly emotional day. Sob..sob..

cp3 · 10/04/2005 15:01

No ChaCha its my fourth, and i am a complete emotional wreck this time around. I cry at everything from adverts to jsut seeing a baby in a pram.

Im really excited about this one as definatley my last, but its also nice to have it as a secret.

ChaCha · 10/04/2005 15:31

Great Wish I could say the same, maybe fourth time round eh?!? ;)
Here's hoping

ChaCha · 10/04/2005 15:32

Enthusia, where are you? I'm in paranoid and tearful mode, i need a cheery msg, where the heck are you??

cp3 · 10/04/2005 15:47

it takes alot of baby dancing to get to four cha cha. Hooray i can give it up now

ChaCha · 10/04/2005 18:45

Is that true cp3? Wow!
When i first started TTC we were BD'g every other night for a very long time! I was so surprised to hear that one of my friends BD'd once that month and conceived her little girl! I could not believe it! And only three times that month with her DD2. I felt quite stupid but thankfully realised later that it was not meant to be. Its amazing don't you think?

How is everyone this evening? Enthusia, are you ready for tomorrow? I'm not Have about 4 hours before bedtime to get motivated.

How ya doing Yingers?