Happy, sorry you've been feeling crap. with the nausea stopping me from eating, hormones and midnight wees stopping me from sleeping, early rising as DC1 waking up at 5 and demanding breastfeeding, my boss on my back, and the knowledge that I'm going to have to go back to work 4 days a week in september to support this little bean, I too am going through the what have I done stage. except that ours was a little surprise as we weren't trying for dc2....I really know how you feel.
however, I also remember going through a holy sh*t phase with my first pregnancy; think it is normal that the body prepares the the brain in the last part of this trimester for all being well/not well, and starts to prepare us for the times ahead.
Primrose, you also had me in tears.
MsSparkle, are there no mum friends that could take dd for an hour or two? or a creche? I think it is so important to get some space at the moment to sort ourselves out. especially as this is the hardest and most stressful part other than birth and we have no support as in this country one doesn't tell.
luckily.... we have mumsnet and each other...deep breaths and repeat the mumsnet mantra after me;
IT WILL PASS!
by the way, have also found pain au chocolat fantastic for relieving morning sickness (and afternoon and evening sickness too)
{{big hugs to all}} just read some of the other early antinatal threads; its hilarious as history repeats itself month after month, year after year...its all been said before and is very reassuring. like this
xx