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Scan you see it yet? Due in Jan 09

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fourlittlefeet · 09/06/2008 10:01

Am keeping us in antinatal rather than in preganancy so newbies can find us! Have posted for tink on her thread.

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mel2005 · 02/07/2008 22:49

oh and the shoping basket space can be solved using a couple of big carabinas. i have been using them for years, i clip them on the handle and clip the bags on and then unclip the whole thing and carry all the bags into the car/house. bit of a problem in double toddler mode when bags can hit the toddler in back seat but then you have better access to the basket (but you do have feet in the basket as well). the older versions of the p&t used to have poppers on the basket so you could get into it in the newborn mode.

rrrayray · 02/07/2008 23:54

Thanks for the welcome!

I'm feeling a bit left out of all the midwife appointments and scans, as we've had an upheaval and moved from Sussex to Essex, so i saw my Doctor in Sussex, but never got into the maternity system, as like i said we've just moved and i'm 11 weeks!

So itching for them to process it up here and get a scan. Saw new doctor and registered up here on monday.... any ideas how long before i get a call from the midwife? Love to know everything is OK.

Redgodess.... i've been looking at buggies too, and noticed the i-candy apple converts to an i-candy pear since you have TWO to consider. We were at a baby shop earlier and someone with it was raving at how amazing it is???? Good luck!!!

tinkspregnantwithnumber2 · 03/07/2008 08:34

morning

cant wait for my 12 wk scan on mon getting excited and have my friends wedding on sat

elkiedee · 03/07/2008 10:23

Welcome redgoddess, I don't think we normally have so many fights on antenatal or postnatal threads, the ones to beware of are Am I Being Unreasonable? and threads on feeding - childcare threads can get a bit strange too.

When was your dd born - was it May 2007? My ds will be 14 months tomorrow (and I'm due on 26 Jan) so I can't resist asking.

poorbuthappy · 03/07/2008 11:34

Morning ladies...

Scan was fabulous, and I am having twins!!!!!

So MEL2005 where are you I need to talk to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Due date is now 9th Jan, but apparently they aren't going to let me get near 40 weeks...

DD was born at 37 weeks, so I could be looking at a before christmas present, but please can I stay here????????????

DH in absolute shock...but I knew all along (and have people to confirm this!)

missjackson · 03/07/2008 11:49

Thanks for shopping hints -- I just want to buy a couple of nice things now while I am still earning money!
Elkiedee, would be brilliant to get the crouch end sale dates if you have them.
Congrats on twin news, poorbuthappy!

MrsMagpie · 03/07/2008 12:10

Good Morning All,

Hi to the newbies and great news about the twins, that must be mind blowing!

Scan yesterday and all fine. Beanies ETA is 4th Jan so a little earlier than i expected but then I'll probably be overdue anyway! DP was totally overwhelmed and although he is an angel anyway and very supportive, he is all excited about getting things for the baby and planning the nursery.

Interesting that you are all talking about prams. Sounds greek to me! Any top tips for a first timer on what to look for?

LenniEd · 03/07/2008 12:45

Poorbuthappy I seem to remember you saying on here you thought you were having twins! Congrtulations, hope DH comes out of the shock soon.

Good news on your scan MrsMagpie - will leave the pram advice to Mel2005 and other pram experts - I have a Mountain Buggy which I love, and have had a Mamas and Papas Pramette which are popular, and a traditional style pram we were given but never used. Everyone likes different ones, and I don't think there is a magic answer, depends on what you will need it for.

LittleSquirt · 03/07/2008 13:22

Hi everyone

Not been on for a while but glad to see that everyone is still doing well. Fantastic news about scans MrsMagpie and many congrats on the news that you are expecting twins poorbuthappy. I know you wanted them (even if it is still a shock when it is actually confirmed) so I am very happy for you and DH! What a wonderful experience to go through! You'll have double the fun planning and buying everything you need.

Everything well with me still. Still scared after my missed miscarriage last year but I think I am still pregnant and I am actually looking fwd to the 12-week scan on Monday. Tink - I know that your scan is on that day too, I can't wait to be able to swap pictures!!

NatalieJaneIsPregnantAgain · 03/07/2008 13:23

Hello

Lennied, yep Royal BB, wasn't too bad waiting for the scan, 15 mins late, but then the wait to see the MW after (at their request) was over an hour.

Poorbuthappy - Wow!!! Congratualtions What made you think you were having twins then?

I don't know what to do on the buggy front, DS2 will have just turned 2yo when the baby is born, DS1 was out of his buggy from the day he could walk, DS2 will walk for miles, but always in the wrong direction! I think I am going to have to leave the buggy buying until as late on as possible, and see how it goes. If I can get away with a single, I will probably be going for the Micralite Toro, I had the fastfold for DS2 and loved it, hoping the Toro would be the same with the added advantage of the proper reclining seat.

I am almost ashamed to admit, I am a bit of a buggy bore, could yap about them for hours (and frequently do!)

elkiedee · 03/07/2008 13:23

PoorbutHappy, wow at twins, and you should stay, this is a due date thread isn't it? I think now I might end up with a Feb baby myself. My previous antenatal thread was April 2007, but both sets of twins and several other babies were born in March, and there were at least 7 May births on the thread including mine.

Mrs Magpie, as a first timer, don't spend loads of money on a huge travel system as you will probably need a more lightweight buggy before long. My stepsister spent £500 (eek) and then bought another stroller within a few months - and she drives everywhere, doesn't use public transport much. It's even more important if you rely on buses etc as I do that you have something you can get on and off with, and if needs be, fold or carry up and down steps. I have a Maclaren Quest, good thing is it's light, problems are that it's forward facing (issue for some so baby is away from you), brakes are rubbish and you need something else for baby to lie flat for the first few months. I had a pram via my mum's freecycle, actually we had two but the first one was a nightmare on buses, but we hadn't spent any money.

I think if I could get away with a single buggy I'd go for a Maclaren Techno which you can use from birth and which have better brakes. I'm quite tempted to try and pick up a double buggy for when needed and spend the real cash on my preferred single, and use a sling with baby or encourage ds to walk (we have over 6 months).

As Lenni says, it's a matter of what you need, how you use it etc.

MrsMagpie · 03/07/2008 14:17

I've put my scan pic up on my profile. It looks so peaceful in the pic but was wriggling around like crazy!

Thanks for the advice on prams. They are soooooooo expensive!

elkiedee · 03/07/2008 15:17

MrsMagpie, yes, but it seems there are lots available quite cheaply and probably still in very good condition, as they're often not used for very long.

For anyone who likes a bit of chicklit, Shopaholic and Baby by Sophie Kinsella is an entertaining read on the perils of going mad shopping for baby, and the vast array of stuff out there to part you from your money. Worth economising where you can.

poorbuthappy · 03/07/2008 15:24

Hello all!
Thanks for all the good wishes, I have my chorioncity scan next Tuesday (can you tell that I have done no work today and just googled constantly!!).

LenniEd, glad you remember me saying that. All the people who I didn't tell are now saying I couldn't have possibly known! The only saving grace is that I put it as a comment on facebook so it is in writing in the public domain!

nataliejane (I assume the rest of your name is the announcement rather than your surname? . The reason I knew was because I have never felt so horrendous for so long in my entire life. From week 5 to 10 I felt sick 24 hours a day. The nausea actually used to wake me up and when I threw up I thought I was going to throw up my stomach lining...my skin went to pot - 12 spots on 1 chin is not a pretty sight. My hair stopped growing and turned into straw...and my tummy, well the bump is right under my boobs already and quite hard. I knew that there was lots more going on lower down than when I had my dd...

Sorry ladies went on a bit!

Just off now to plan robbing the local bank to pay for a new car and new double buggy!

Take care everyone, good luck to all scans which are due, keep up updated!

tinkspregnantwithnumber2 · 03/07/2008 16:42

wow pbh more twins how exciting glad scan went well
great pic magpie does look very chilled must be a man
i am going for the quinny buzz. we already have the maxi cosi infant carrier from dd1 you can clip it onto the frame as i refuse to carry it everwhere again and i will have dd1s hand to hold 2. will get a buggy board for her.
little squirt ye 4 r scans mon i am exciting 2

mel2005 · 03/07/2008 17:58

wow poorbuthappy, we will be due the same time as my dd is 10th jan and i am 37wks 20th dec (when i am preparing for the c-section to be booked around)
did you get to speak to a consultant? he said double folic acid, in fact he said 2 pregnacare 400% rda. even though i am almost 13 weeks.

the double trouble book is good and i cant remember the name of the other one i have. i have some more on order (i am so sad but i like to know what i am dealing with).
i have been looking at car seats today, it might have to be the maxi-cosi again but now they have a great base for them (its going to cost a fortune).
poorbuthappy have they booked a nuchal for you? the blood tests dont work with twins and there is only a small window for the nuchal. i had mine on tuesday and it was great.
what type are your twins? do you feel movement yet? mine are constantly wriggling around.

i am sooooooo excited there are two of us with twins due at the same time.

MrsAay · 03/07/2008 18:17

Had my scan this morning and everything is fine! Two arms, two legs and a heartbeat, and a really good nuchal fold result, that means I won't have to have an amniocentisis this time.

Fantastic news on the twins Poorbuthappy. Funnily enough when the women doing the scan started, she said," Ahh there's a baby and there's a...." and then there was a knock on the door and she stopped. My DH looked at me as if to say, was she going to say "and there's another". We were both silent with anticipation until she came back and then she said there's only one baby. Quite a comic moment.

terf · 03/07/2008 19:16

Hi I'm 11 weeks now - due 23 Jan and have terrible morning sickness (day, night, all the time) - anyone still suffering from it? I'm just looking forward to that light at the end of the tunnel.

mel2005 · 03/07/2008 19:30

terf mine got alot better as i turned 12 weeks so you hopefully havent got long to go.

mrsaay, thats great news.

fymandbean · 03/07/2008 19:32

Hi all

Well done on the twins poor! I can't imagine the shock though! I think my DH would have fainted with the !

MsSparkle · 03/07/2008 20:53

Congrats Poor on the twins!

Glad to hear the scans went well.

I will be 14 weeks tomorrow. I have my midwife appointment next Wednesday. It won't be long before i will be able to feel the little one inside of me

tinkspregnantwithnumber2 · 03/07/2008 21:22

hi

mrs a great news about scan
wow ms sparkle cant belive that u r 14wks already
i am 12wks sat scan mon yah cant wait

fourlittlefeet · 03/07/2008 21:51

Evening

wow. more twins. I've stopped worrying now as my bump is large but not high and certainly not hard. definitely muffins then. still 5 days until the scan. grrr. I'm twelve weeks sunday tink. Bring. It. On. I can't bear this. And they said second time round it would go so fast. .

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NatalieJaneIsPregnantAgain · 04/07/2008 07:33

Morning

Poor, 'IsPregnantAgain' is my surname, how'd you guess? DH get's some funny looks when he has to confirm it! All a little embarrassing! LOL

About movements, I am deffo feeling something, sometimes I think it must be the baby, and others I talk myself round to thinking it was just wind/other things moving/imagination! Unlike with DS2, when I was at the scan and the baby was moving I couldn't feel it then, so who knows?

I am however getting BH already, I had an Irritable Uterous with DS2, basically I got very strong regular contractions for about 9 weeks before I had him. which in turn led to pre-emclampsia, wasn't much fun, am worried the early BH are going to turn into the IU again this time. At my AN appointment after the scan the MW ummmed and arrrred for ages over whether I should be under the consultant again, I managed to convince her I'd go to see him at the first sign of trouble and she eventually agreed, just hope I can put the consultant off for as long as possible.

I am 14 weeks tomorrow, seems to be going really quickly, not be long before January! Am actually looking forward to the birth Am I strange? LOL

mel2005 · 04/07/2008 08:24

NJ no your not strange, i am looking forward to the birth as well, my last one was at home and it was quick and didnt hurt as much as my first. it was a great day, you cant beat the feeling when you first hold your baby, its just lovely.

this time around i am leaning towards an elective c-section just because it appears to be the safest option, especially if one is breach. i would hate to go through labour with one then get into trouble with the second and have an emergency c-section. its not worth the risk, i will see how they are positionned later before i decide.
it will be nice to see them out safely and give them a big cuddle.