Mustsleep - no wonder you're . What's their problem???? Are you the only person capable of doing upstairs??? How hard can it be to swap things about for you? Definitely fight your corner.
Can I have a little rant? P was out at some work social thing (which he never invites me to anyway) and got back at 4am (had to let him in as no key). Despite the fact that he promised last week to try to get up early 1 day at weekend so i could have a lie in, rather than get up at approx 6am every single day (he gets up 1 day for work about 6.45, the other days vary between 7.45 and 10.30). Only got up to take dd to dad's group when I had a bit of a go at him & she kept ging to try and get him up too. He finally rose at 9.40, went out, returned with sleeping dd at 1. He then slept till 4, and has since been at the pub with a friend. I look after my niece while sister works tomorrow lunchtime til Monday lunchtime so he will disappear off then too. I swear he thinks he's a 20 year old single man, and I am his mum irritating him by asking him to actually "help out". We spend no quality time together, and very little as a family. I've been trying to find a doula as don't think I want him at the birth any more - he gets upset at this idea as says he was at other 1 so should be at this 1, but if he can't spare me any time for the 9 months pregnancy, why should I want him there at the birth???
Ok, sorry for that, but just wanted to get it off my chest, can't be bothered to start a moaning aibu or relationship thread, but find it hard to enjoy pregnancy, as just spend half my time crying cos wish I was in a better relationshup / had someone to talk to my bump