hi everyone.please can i join too?
i got a very quick definate bfp on 11th
May,at 1am,then nxt morning made my husband do the 2nd test,dipping it in a container and reckoned i didn't know.He was as shocked as me as we have been sort-of trying for a few cycles and had many negatives.He said,"oh you'll start tommorow,for sure youv'e had all pmt symptoms".told our DD(6 at start of June...another biggie gap here).She's the happiest girl ever about it,we even watched 'life before birth' together that i'd saved on DVD.
CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU ALL
so sorry though NJ(hug for you)
told my parents,but in-laws went away,telling them this Friday.
I was overjoyed all week,then this week i think the hormones have kicked in and i've been really down about it.Reality kicked in,about looking after my DD whilst so tired,grumpy with her(one of my fears before pg),bloated, BBS large and killing me,slight nausea,ezcema on hands gone a bit wild...daren't touch steroid cream,freezing cold as well(sure people will suspect in the playground soon with the amount of coats i wear).Know i should start exercise...scared my back e.t.c. will go ping later and won't have enough stamina for labour...but can't be bothered ,tiredness and heavy BBS don't help....i need a slap and kick up the backside as well.Anyone else a couchie and worried about it...anyone willing to start a walking programme and we could encourage each other?.Tell each other what we manage sort of thing?
Know what you mean about worrying,i had 5 week MC moons ago,before DD,so have that at back of mind just now.
I'm 5 1/2 weeks now i suppose,due 18th Jan accroding to Babycenter(6 weeks on monday).
Please could someone add me to the list,don't know how you do that on computer.
Loved the 3D website tinkisexcited.
I'm obsessed about things like that and spent all last week staring at embryos.
I found a website too,that shows actual photos/sizes of embryos throughout the first 8 weeks.It's brill.At the bottom of the page if you click on the photos of each stage,you get an enlarged picture too.Am i sad or what?!...i sent an e-mail to my DH with the picture of stage 13 saying "this is what i'll be like now daddy,love from snuggles(what we've called our bean)".
I just find the wait such a drag and it's horrible just now as you feel Jan is forever away.This website helps as you feel like progress is happening now.I've even marked on my calender each stage,so i can look on the computer and think wow..and keep the excitement going when i feel low.
here's the website:
embryo.soad.umich.edu/carnStages/carnStages.html.
sorry to moan ladies,thanks for listening.I just hope the joy comes back.It was brilliant last week.Don't remember much about first preg(disadvantage with a big gap),and don't remember feeling down before.
please tell me it's just hormone whirlpool syndrome?!...we all do want it!
what a rant...would love to share the next nine months if you'll have me...promise i won't rant so much next time.
have my booking in on 19th June...so far away!.been to gp,told him i had bfp,he said congratulations,took my bp and pulse and said...sorry i don't have a due date wheel on me,so i told him last AF date and that the computer said 18th Jan...so unfortunately didn't feel very medically official..anyway will read my 'pack' that i got,not even opened it yet.
good luck everyone...baby glue to everyone.
x