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Due November 08 - we're a bunch of worrying fusspots who don't know we fancy to eat, but pass us the ginger biscuits purlease while we wait for 12 weeks

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Heartmum2Jamie · 26/03/2008 19:32

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Roca · 28/03/2008 23:41

Evening everyone,

Heartmum2Jamie your heart must have been going some - what a relief though - although still a nightmare as such. Really oddly I have/had the opposite problem with my pg and a looser than normal.

Maybe not a good point to change to the food subject but it was me who had bannna on toast drizzled with honey. Gutted as fancy it now and run out of bannanas!

Roca · 29/03/2008 00:13

hey ladies - just wanted to draw your attention to the fact that there is now a due Dec 08 thread - we are pratically ready to drop already!

mad4mybaby · 29/03/2008 08:00

ceebee, yes my ds was june 06! Have you told yours about your bean? I did only because he always works out what people are talking about so even though i knew he wouldnt understand i told him first as i thought it was only fair! At night time he says kiss baby and kisses my tummy! The only thing is he thought he had one in his tummy too! Im having an early scan and cant decide wether to take him or not? What do you think?? The 12 and 20 week i def will as it will look like a baby but jhave seen pics of an 8 week baby and doesnt look like one so dont want to upset him!

Im so glad im not the only one who i showing. With ds i hadnt heard of MN so when i had a bump at 8-10 weeks people took the mick and i felt like a freak! Now i know im normal!

Bettispaghetti · 29/03/2008 08:45

Morning ladies

Just caught up with all the new posts. It's so nice to hear good news. Isn't it nice how our posts are becoming more relaxed and less worried now that we are a bit further along. Long may it continue.

Jumped on scales this morning (why oh why!!). I've put on 5lbs (I'm 8+3). Explains the tight fitting clothes. My friend is 15wks and hardly has a bump to show. Feel like a real lardy compared to her!

Heartmum2jamie totally empathise re piles. I had them really badly with DS and still suffer with them occasionally 3yrs on. Hate to think what will happen this time.

Have a nice weekend everyone.

Heartmum2Jamie · 29/03/2008 10:29

A December 08 thread already?! Wow, time flies when you're having fun eh?!

Bettispaghetti, don't worry abot your tighter fitting clothes. I have the same issue, especially in the evening. I actualy tried to suck it all in last night, not very successfully mind you! As for the piles, I totally blame ds1. I pushed for 3 hours with him (Sorry, don't mean to scare the 1st timers, in fairness, he was back to back which makes it long and drawn out, not to mention painful) and ended up in a right state as you can imagine. I guess this is why I still suffer on and off nearly 7 years later

I hope everyone has a great weekend. I am torn as to whether I should try and find some comfy trousers with some stretch to them for the next few weeks until maternity jeans fit. I am a little weary of getting too much until I see my little pea/bean as I have so few symptoms.

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twinklingfairy · 29/03/2008 10:41

Goodness this thread just moves so fast. I don't have much time just now so can't read through.
PIL are up, so having a sneaky peak whilst she is bathing.
It was great telling everyone.
PIL were really surprised and dead chuft, mum and dad didn't really seem all that surpised but pleased all the same
And now, I am quite sure it is physciosymatic (sp?), but I am now getting the beginnings of nausea. So far just fleeting, nut scary none the less.
PMA, fairy, PMA!
I really am trying to be positive as negative fear will only make everything worse. So here is hoping that it remains as fleeting moments and that I don't have to be sick.

Creena · 29/03/2008 11:17

Hey ladies. I'm feeling pretty rough and a bit down today. I've been spotting again this morning and I'm having period like cramping pains. I just don't feel right - really dizzy and light-headed. I'm worrying now that it's all going to go wrong. Sorry to go on about it here - DH keeps insisting that "it'll be ok" so I can't really talk to him about it.

Heartmum2Jamie · 29/03/2008 11:29

Creena, I am sorry to hear this, can you get to an EPU? If you are really worried, try A&E. HUGS

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dozymare · 29/03/2008 11:48

HI Creena if it is any consolation I too have been having cramping pains since last night, and sort of spotting (which I showed my mum the pad and she thought was more discharge tainted with blood...sorry if TMI for you lunchtime readers) Anyway, I feel really worried also...my DH is saying the same...I am going to the EPAU on MOnday for a dating scan so guess I will know then..........Also dizzy and lightheaded.......have you got an appointment coming up anywhere??? Hugs to youxxxxx

Roca · 29/03/2008 13:29

Hey Creena - really sorry to hear about the spotting - how are things now? Have you called anyone about it? I guess though in reality theres nothing you can do than let nature take it's course. Try to rest if you can and watch a film or read a book to let time pass. big hugs - I'm sure it could all be totally normal.

ceebee74 · 29/03/2008 13:37

Creena ? how are things? If you really feel something isn?t right, please go to A&E and get it checked out.

HM2J ? how very scary for you ? I bet your heart just stopped. Sorry you have ?roids though ? I can?t imagine how uncomfortable they must be.

Mad4 - my DS was born in July 06 We haven?t told him yet as we aren?t telling many people and can imagine him going round pointing to my tummy and saying ?baby? so we are leaving it for now. As for the scans ? haven?t decided yet. DS is what you would call an ?active? child so I think it may be too hard to take him and then have to sit in the waiting room with him for who knows how long ? he will be off running round/trying to escape in a shot ? although it depends what day the scan is I guess. If it is a Monday, then we will have to take him but if it is a nursery day for him, then it is probably easier to leave him in nursery.

Betti ? I daren?t get on the scales tbh as I have just been eating crap for weeks now (even before I knew I was pg)

Twinkling ? I keep getting brief waves of nausea but they are so slight, I am also wondering if I am imagining them. They are certainly nowhere near as bad with DS but there is still time???.

Went to the gym this morning for aerobics and am now shattered. Have to go to Sainsburys but I think I need to lie down first and have a nap .

Hope you are all having a good weekend

x

Creena · 29/03/2008 13:42

Thanks, ladies.

To be honest, I'm thinking along the same lines as Roca - if things are going wrong, there's nothing that can be done to prevent it or help, really. So I think I'll just have to sit it out and see what happens. If this goes on as far as Monday, then I'll ring my GP or midwife to ask for advice. Until then, I'll crack on with some tidying up or something (we've got someone coming to view the house tomorrow, so I can concentrate on that for a while).

Thanks again, everyone.

Emmanj · 29/03/2008 13:43

hi all, havent been on much lately and was amazed to see how much i'd missed!!
creena - wishing u all the best and hope u get sorted.
I too have deffinatly put on weight, had to buy a pair of work trousers in the next size up the other day!
Still no sickness but last night i had some Campbells condensed chicken soup which made me feel really sick, weird as i normally love this!
Ive re-added myself to the latest list as i seem to have dissappeard!
Oliviaelanasmum - EDD ? November (#4)
LittleHarrysMum - EDD ? November (#2)
AliciaJohns - EDD 1st November (#2)
Pinkyminky - EDD 1st November (#3)
MummyAnnabella - EDD 1st November (#2)
Jojay - EDD 1st November (#2) Scan date: 21st April
Jaydee - EDD 1st November (#1)
Lilchick - EDD 1st November (#3)
divedaisy - EDD 2nd November (#2)scan 14th March EPC scan 21st March/ 4th April
Chickenmommy - EDD 2nd November (#1)
ChilledBunny - EDD 3rd November (#1)
LolaBella - EDD 3rd November (#1)
Heartmum2Jamie - EDD 3rd November (#3) Scan 24/4
Cricri - EDD 3rd November (#1)Scan: 20/3
mum2becks - EDD 4th November (#2) Scan Date: 25th April
Creena - EDD 4th November (#4)
Scully - EDD 5th November (#3) Scan dates: 25/3 & 23/4
Renaissancewoman - EDD 6th November (#3). Scan 25/4
Suiledonn - EDD 6th November (#2)
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FlightyRachel - EDD 9th Nov (#4)
Dozymare - EDD 10th November (#3)d/scan 31/03
tammycc - EDD 10th November (#1)
Browny -10th November (#5) Scan 23/3
Trixibelle - EDD 10th November (#2)
bubbaz - EDD 10th Nov (#2)
llareggub ECC 12 November (no 2)
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TheDoctorsWife - EDD 14th November (#1)
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Roca - EDD 17th November (#3)
Emmanj- EDD 17th Novemeber (#1)
EButters - EDD 17th November (#1)
hanaflower - EDD 18th November (#1)
Oblomov - EDD 18th November (#2) Scan 31/3
juanitad - EDD 19th November (#1)
Mum2ozzie - EDD 20th November (#2)
Misdee - EDD 21st November (#4)
Tegan - EDD 21st November (#3)
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twinklingfairy - EDD 23rd Nov (#2)
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Tinkerisdead · 29/03/2008 16:24

just had a read and catch up. my DH just asked what mumsnet was all about and started looking. i have a feeling he is going to become a lurker now

this morning i tried loads of trousers and tops on. the tops wont button over my boobs and the trousers wont do up so ive made a pile for the loft!!! im down to 2 pairs of jeans and two pairs of high waisted formal trousers. sulking but happy that things are progressing. DH offered to buy me new trousers but i said dont bother unless we want to buy more in another 6 weeks again! Def feel like im showing, i cant hold my tummy in anymore.

Thank you to everyone who responded specifically about the tests i should ask about and to reassure me about bathtime. As someone else said, this is getting far more relaxed and a lovely place to be for support. Esp when you feel bloated, sick, tired and worried!

Creena - didnt want to post without sending you hugs. As everyone says spotting in pregnancy is normal but I know I would have a heart attack and so wishing you happy thoughts. x

hertmum2jamie - sending you your own hugs for your own heart stopping bleed! x

Heartmum2Jamie · 29/03/2008 16:48

Thanks ladies, my heart most certainly did miss a beat or 2 yesterday. I really wanted to get to 9 weeks with no spotting or bleeding, which thankfully I seem to be on target for. Tomorrow I am 8+6 and that is the day I woke up to spotting when we had our miscarriage, so a hurdle that I am looking forward to getting past.

Hanaflower, I think I would be asking if there was anyting that can be given to help with the nausea, or you could end up dehydrated and in hospital. I feel for you, hugs.

TheDoctorsWife, I just remembered I meant to comment on the bathing thing. I was very quickly shown how to do this on the ward was ds1, but they made it look so easy, the reality was very different at home, it took 2 of us and reduced us both to hysterical laughter. In the end, we bought a little rectangular washing up bowl. It is great for those early weeks as you can put it up on the counter top so you don't hurt your back. Once the boys were a little bigger, we invested in one of those bath support things for the baby bath. A month or 2 later, it became dh's job to bath the boys and it has stuck, he always gives them their bath (although ds1 is nearly 7 now and sometimes likes a bit of privacy when bathing!).

I also did a little clothes shopping today. I can tell how much I have "thickened" with a pair of semi casual black trousers I used to wear to work. They were a little loose pre pregnancy, but now are digging in. Thankfully we have a good seconds type charity shop here. They had some maternity stuff which was quite useful, first time I had seen any, although in fairness, I would not have been looking for it before, lol! I managed to get a skirt and a pair of trousers, which are both sooo comfy (am wearing the skirt now!) and a top. I also plan on trying to fit a stop in to H&M on Monday on my way to take ds2 to his hospital appt in Brum. Like it has been said, it is a little reassuring to be getting thicker around the middle!

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bubbaz · 29/03/2008 16:51

Hi Everyone,
Creena I have my fingers crossed for you. Hope it works out.
hanaflower I feel sick and hungry all of the time too. I have about a 10 minute time slot from when I first feel hungry to when I have to eat ot I can't and once I start I can't stop or I feel sick again!!
I know its a good sign??? but its still not that pleasant.
Hope everyone is having a lovely wk end xx

Renaissancewoman · 29/03/2008 19:09

Re growing size. I'm having trouble with regular jeans - huge overhang and they feel so uncomfortable, am wearing combination of yoga pants and pjs already. Have only put on 5lb (am 8 wks + 2 days) but have gone very flabby very quickly and waist has disapeared. If relax my tummy - the bulge could easily pass for 5 months!. I don't want to tell anyone yet but people are bound to start wondering.

Still very anxious about my fibroid issue but trying to keep calm. Am craving cheese which is a problem as I am not supposed to eat it - it makes me anti-social (if you catch my drift).

Congratulations to all newbies.

Re feeling light headed and dizzy - I've had this in all my pregnancies and found taking iron completely sorted it out.

Storytime now!

divedaisy · 29/03/2008 20:47

Evening ladies. I'm on a roller coaster of worry today. I started a brown stain this morning and at times it looks jelly-like (sorry TMI ) I have period type cramps too on and off. I phoned the maternity unit (EPC dosen't work weekends) and the Obs-Gynae Reg told me that bleeding in early weeks is normal, to take paracetamol, and if the bleeding gets worse than a period or if the pains get unbearable to go to the hospital. I am trying my best not to worry, and like you, Creena and Roca, what can be done trying to prevent nature? If it's gonna happen it'll happen, but hopefully it won't be that. So I've become a reclucant knicker checker! Anyhow so long as there's no fresh blood I think I'm OK for now. OK Creena? I'm with you this weekend and hope we're both OK. Big HUGS xx Oh yeh, and feeling a bit dizzy today - but I also feel surreal about this situation - out of control; can't do anything about it!

Watching Casulty and then I'm off to bed with my book - 'the Waking' bu TM Jenkins.

divedaisy · 29/03/2008 20:51

Heartmum2Jamie you could try this for advice:www.constipationadvice.co.uk/causes_constipation/constipation_during_pregnancy.php

ceebee74 · 29/03/2008 21:07

Creena/Divedaisy - have got everything crossed that you are both ok

x

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Roca · 29/03/2008 21:46

creena and divedaisy - with my DD is got spotting which was only ever pinky in colour and quite light. With my recent mc I had full on bright red period type bleeding with massive pains and could litterally feel gushes of blood so I just knew alsmost straight away that that was it.

I hope that what you're having is the common spotting and pains that lots of women have.

Please keep us all updated.

Just watched Charlie & Choc factory with kids so a late night for them (well I snoozed on the sofa through half of it). Now watching a recorded I'd do anythng.

Massive jacket potato with cheese for dinner tongight - proper easy and craved sat night food!

twinklingfairy · 29/03/2008 22:51

Oh hanaflower you poor thing, but it is good tht you managed to eat a good amount tonight.

I have now been to tescos and have my lemongrass and ginger cordial in a bottle at my side. Glugging away quite a bit
Nausea comes and goes, but, so far, nothing coming up or threatening. So I am counting my blessings and planning to take each day as it comes.
Bit scared by the fact that it has been getting steadily more re-current over the past 3-4 days.
Started with feeling dizzy in the morn, to waves just in morn, now getting waves at any time.

Bit cross with DH I told him to tell no-one bar family and instead he has blabbed to a blabbermouth (actually 2 blabbermouths. And they are each from a town nearby! So word is not just out in our village but in town too!) and he didn't even tell them to keep it quiet. So expecting to be given congrats by random folk any time He didn't even tell them that I was only 6wks so they have no idea that it is early doors.
I made him feel awful though by pointing out that these girls now knew before even his brother did(and mine, both of whom still don't know) !
I Know he is excited, but for goodness sakes.
Silly man thought I would be amused with a wry and a sigh.

twinklingfairy · 30/03/2008 11:26

Where is everybody??