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Feb Babies - Come on Down!

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tyaca · 03/02/2008 16:21

'ere we go, guys!

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SallyInYorkshire · 14/02/2008 17:57

Hi everyone!
just a quick post to say I think my waters may have leaked but I'm not sure... Off to the hospital to get checked out!!!
Am pretty excited!!!

Egg · 14/02/2008 18:00

BABY ANNOUNCEMENT!!!!!!!!

mymissus has a baby boy! She gave birth to a little boy who is being nicknamed Digby after a marathon 38hr labour. He was 7lbs 3oz and mum and baby are both well.

Good luck Sally!!! Hope this is it for you .

wotsits · 14/02/2008 18:05

Good luck, Sally!
Congratulations all recently hatched babies and mummies!
I have GOT to keep baby in until at least this Saturday - my sister arrives from abroad to stay with me for a month and help with DD and new baby. Hurray! It means there's no room for in-laws to stay over and (ahem) "help".

widgetsmummy · 14/02/2008 18:28

oh Sally - don't let them bully you into thinking you wet yourself!!!

good luck!

38hr labour well done mymissus! you might win the longest labour competition with that one!

bovrilsarnies · 14/02/2008 18:37

Congratulations to Mymissus with your baby boy!!! wow - that is a l..o..n..g.. labour!! glad to hear mum and baby are both well.

Good luck Sally!

Jo9977 · 14/02/2008 19:40

Well done mymissus and all the best Sally - hope this is it!

And congrats to all the new hatches in the last couple of days - it's really hotting up!

OK...birth story from Coventry

Was in pre-labour type pains Weds evening for three hours and then again Thurs morning, gradually getting worse throughout the afternoon. By 6 the TENS was having no effect and I was ready for some big guns pain relief! Went into hosp where we had to hang around in front of reception while she took a phone call and had a discussion as to whether she could take the call with a labouring woman in front of her () We left her to it!

By this time was 3-4 cm dilated and finally allowed on that gas and air (tip I didn't know till after, there's a button on the back that doubles the gas!) Felt a lot better and we had five hours of reasonable labour only to find that I'd progressed...nowhere! Called for pethidin (by this time birth plan and window had met, shaken hands and agreed to be friends!) then asked when it was going to kick in, only to be told in no uncertain terms that it had and that's why I was so dopey! Another couple hours and I was a massive...5 cm dilated.

Baby's heartbeat was dropping by this time and they wanted to put me on a drip to increase the contractions. I asked for an epidural and fell in love with the anaethetist - who brought an end to the pain. By 3am up to 6cm dilated and progressing nowhere again. Loads of people around my bed discussing the heartrate and talking about ceasarean...I didn't want it but it looked like no choice and by that time I'd had enough. I was so scared - convinced Daniel was going to be stillborn and I was going to die (not one to be a drama queen! ) but it went ok. It was hard to associate the tugging going on behind the screen with the baby's cry after 10 minutes but we got there and DH was fab, just talking to me constantly and staying so calm.

Sorry if it's not such a great story, but it is worth it, and the memory fades really quickly, and the end result takes your breath away!

Really hope things are going well for all new mums (and dads!) and that those of you still pregnant are getting some rest and doing ok.

princessllama · 14/02/2008 20:49

hardcore labour jo! congratulations to cosima and blondie and mymissus.
mitford sisters i was wondering what had happened to you. i'm reading the msisters letters at the mo!
bovrilsarnies lol i am always trying to put the spare room out of action for same reason
good luck sally hope you're in the middle of a good labour-fingers crossed.
i am feeling so tired now, have to pull myself awake when dd wakes from lunch time nap. then move around like zombie til she goes to bed.
i am going to immerse myself in the bath now to cheer up a bit. am on my own as dh is at a wedding that i felt too knackered to go to. rented dvd but can't work the machine stupidly. cat got his tail stuck in the new catflap tunnel and went mental-almost took my finger off when i tried to help. so now typing with throbbing finger (reminding myself it's nothing like childbirth). and dinner went cold whilst trying to sort out cat and dvd. builders back again today and now say they have to come back to do more next wednesday.
will go and find chocolate for bath.

Jo9977 · 14/02/2008 21:57

that's a new one on me, princess, chocolate bubble bath!!

Egg · 15/02/2008 06:56

Hi girls. Looks like lljkk could be next [http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/1365/478370?ts=1203058307375&msgid=9662752. Looks like lljkk labour].

DS2 been awake half the night. Think it is wind. Wont sleep for longer than 20 odd mins without crying again.

Have become addicted to the nasal unblocker thing. It sucks snot out of their noses . Maybe I sucked too much and he is peed off with me.

Onto coffee no 2. Ds2 seems quiet on my lap if looking at MN.

Egg · 15/02/2008 06:57

Oh and apparently inlaws are coming to stay tomorrow night . Anyone want to occupy my spare room so there's nowhere for them to sleep. You can have a couple of babies and a toddler for the night too if you like .

Egg · 15/02/2008 06:59

lljkk link here sorry...

morningglory · 15/02/2008 07:46

Oooh. i bought one of those things, Egg! Haven't used it yet, but I', sure DS2 will get a runny nose, as I STILL have this blasted cold, and its getting worse!

Poor you and your in-laws. I banned mine for six months (after a horrible experience last time when they came 3 days after I gave birth, and expected 4 course meals, twice a day, and didn't help me at all!). DH tried to tell me that they would be really happy to see the baby...I gave him my most arctic look.

I think I'm going to hide from the cold under a large duvet all day today. Hope everyone else is doing well!

Egg · 15/02/2008 07:48

I have three crying children. DS1 has conjunctivitis again. DS2 has now been crying on and off for nearly 5 hours. DD is only crying cos everyone else is . Actually, I am not. I don't even feel close to crying. They don't scare me !!!

leesmum · 15/02/2008 07:50

hi everyone, i'm back at last after having no computer for ages due to crappy norton security thing going off on us and getting loads of virus's

i'm going to get a brew and read over what i've missed and catch up in a bit.

well done to all the mummies whose births i've missed xxx

tyaca · 15/02/2008 08:05

wow - so much news.

first off - a great big congrats to cosima, blondie , loobyt and mymissus. cosima, was wondering when we'd hear from you! loobyt, i cannot believe that the MW didnt want you to give you her remaining gas and air ...

4 more boys -- c'mon, this is a teensy bit spooky right?? well, at least if this is part of some global trend, my little girl'll get the pick of the boys!

jo - your tip about the button that doubles the G&A is the single best thing i have learnt from Mumsnet. and i've learnt a lot of good things here

K27 - wow, what a tough time. hopefully things will simpler now. fair play for getting through so much so far.

a belated response to the lovely birth stories of omy and lolo. both make me feel a lot better about my choice of trying to go natural. omy, i confess i too was v freaked by that 8% stat --- poor you and your DH. just freaked my DH out by telling him that.

gill - i remember being bribed to give up my dummy. the bribe was the boardgame guess who, which would have made me ooohhh.... five at the very least?? didnt do me no harm. and i got a board game out of it. result.

princessllama - i got the mitford sisters letters and the jessica anthology for xmas and spent the best part of januray engrossed on their crazy world. there is a fab line by jessica decsribing baby constance as something like "not too red and sicky like other babies" and calling her "it" at three months...lol... must dig out the quote.

wow, egg, your DS2 is already soothed by mumsnet?? that is one powerful addiction you have passed on!

all ok here. DH's half term starts today, so i'm allowed to go into labour from this point on.... feel like it may even happen, if not soon, then sometime, thank goodness.

had a really bad night on weds. really achey, not just in standard baby places, but loads on shoulders and neck. couldnt get comfortable anywhere other than sitting room floor, and even then didnt sleep.

MW appt the next day, was on own so too scared to do lift and walked the eight floors. by the time i came home, i was out of my mind with aches and tiredness. couldnt help thinking that there was no was my body could cope with labour in its current state.

No news from MW except that the numbness in my hands is called Carpal Tunnel. i confess i'm quite excited to have something that is both harmless and named! secondly, baby is "really well engaged" .... wanted to ask for a fifth measurement, as that's what everyone else gets, but didnt have the nerve!

cant remember who said they'd chucked their DH onto sofa to sleep. felt really bad, but when DH offered last night, i took him up on it in an istant. we both were asleep by 9pm and had great nights. best make the most of it, eh?

baby dreams getting spooky now tho' - last one had me giving birth to a puppy!

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Egg · 15/02/2008 08:05

hello leesmum . Was just wondering how you were.

Has anyone heard ANYTHING from miniandme since she gave us her birth story??? Hope she is just busy with her brood of five and everything is ok.

SallyInYorkshire · 15/02/2008 08:18

Hi guys!
Well I went into the hospital and they examined me by speculum and finally agreed (after a committee discussion between a very young looking midwife and even younger looking junior Dr!) that my waters had gone... Yay!!! (I was beginning to doubt myself, except that every time I stood up I had a miniature gush!)

Unfortunately I had not been having even the slightest hint of a contraction, and baby seemed quite happy in there, so they sent me home to Await Events - I didn't see any point in staying in hosp unless I was being induced.

So of course last night I was too excited to sleep. And today the waters are continuing to flow away, so I have been inflating my birthing ball while my belly deflates! And still NO SIGN of even the tinist contraction!!!!

Egg · 15/02/2008 08:21

oooh sally is it nervewracking knowing how close you are to having a baby???? Really good luck for today when things start happening. Will they have to start the contractions off it it doesn't happen within a certain time?

Egg · 15/02/2008 08:25

Tyaca!!! EIGHT flights of stairs... blardy hell .

If you look in your notes does it say how many fifths engaged you are? My MW never told me but did write it down.

Nobody crying here now

SallyInYorkshire · 15/02/2008 08:30

Well they told me that if nothing was happening by Sat lunchtime I should go in again to discuss induction. Am a bit scared about being induced cos I have heard it is so painful and increases the risk of forceps etc. So whether things start naturally or not, it's not long for me now...

DH is v excited bless him, and I'm terrified!

leesmum · 15/02/2008 08:42

Wow so many babies!! even though i havent been on for a while i have been thinking of you all and hoping that you were all doing ok.
I do like to think of you all as close friends

Congratulations to all our new mummies and babies, it looks like some of you had a rougher ride than others but a long as your lo's get here safely that's really all that matters.

And sally how are you getting on?

Egg you are hard as nails, i hate it when ds2 cries but luckily its only when its time to change his nappy. How is your ds1 getting on? Is it his 2nd birthday next week? are you doing something extra special for him or haven't you made any plans yet?

Princess it sounds like fun in your house! are the builders nearly done?

Morning i've been expressing too and at first it was hard but yesterday i got 4oz's in 10 mins, i had an avent hand pump which was ok but a bit slow and then my friend let me have her twim medela pump, i feel a bit cow like with it on but it's great and meand dp gets to spend some special time with james. I found that i get more out in the morning or after a bath.

Gill hows motherhood going? i am in favour of dummies, before i had ds1 i was one of those "my baby's not having a dummy" mothers but i do think they serve a purpose and if it stops your baby getting themselves into a state then use one, ds1 ended up just having his for bed until he was 3 and then we claimed to have left it on the plane when we last went away and he wasn't bothered. You do whatever you think is best for you and baby.

Wotsits will your sister be with you when you have baby, it's nice of her to take time off to be with you when baby arrives.

Well we are all fine here dp was back at work this week and to be honest it was a good thing really because it meant i had to get my day a bit more organised, it's little things like getting the boys clothes out at night for the next day and making sure the nappy bag is stocked up for when we go out.
The health visitor is round again today, he's really nice, yes it's a man he's fab his name is eddy and he used to be a district nurse, of course dp thinks he's gay!!

have a lovely day ladies xxx

Egg · 15/02/2008 08:47

Never used to be hard as nails. Am getting TOUGH recently though. DS1 is fab most of the time, he is being a lovely lad today, despite looking like he has conjunctivitis again. He is indeed TWO next week (on Weds). We have my sis and his three cousins (his fave people in the world) coming to stay the night before so are here on the day, plus my parents are coming for the day. My nephew has the same bday (he will be five) so we are just having a birthday lunch with all their fave crap foods. We might drink copious amounts of wine too.

DS2 has drained his bottle and is passed out. No doubt he will sleep all day now from exhaustion so will have to try to keep him awake a bit later on.

Off for a bath while everyone is happy.

P.S. Leesmum, did you SEE that footie result last weekend????

Egg · 15/02/2008 08:48

Sally if they say not til Saturday things are BOUND to happen before then. Try running up and down the stairs . There's always sex.........

SallyInYorkshire · 15/02/2008 08:59

or not... they told me sex was off the cards because of risk of infection - bit of a shame on valentines day I thought!!!

Egg · 15/02/2008 09:28

Ooops yes forgot you have to be ultra careful once waters go...