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Due March 2008 - for our early arrivals and the loooooong 3rd trimesters

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merryberry · 10/01/2008 08:16

Hello all.

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turtle23 · 04/02/2008 15:03

MB-I would be happy to come with you as bodyguard and not let them near you for induction. Unless they can prove to you (twice) that it is of medical necessity, stick to your guns. You've been through enough and experienced too many f*wits thius time round. Do what you feel is right!!
Tori-We're meeting the 22nd near London Bridge. Lila's Patisserie, would look for thread for you but must take a little nap. XX

turtle23 · 04/02/2008 15:03

Oh, and Brazilianmum...mine too, and yes, it does help. Immediate relief!

merryberry · 04/02/2008 15:15

BM yes lob on the lansinoh, makes a world of difference.

skidoodle, there's US research that shows the average gestation of 1st babies is 40+10 days and of subsequent is 40+5 days! It's just some weird routine we've all fallen into it seems to be induced before 42 weeks. The differences in outcomes if left are negligible, and only get concerning past 42 weeks. Must hunt out references for you sometime. Need to get kitchen straight first

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skidoodle · 04/02/2008 15:41

thanks merryberry, that's interesting. I know everyone says 1st babies are late but I had no idea there was an average of 40+10 for firsts wow, I wonder why they don't just add an extra week for 1st babies and say you will be pg for 41 weeks?

BTW HQ I'm kind of off the water too. I don't find it that refreshing, although it doesn't leave a bad taste particularly. I've been drinking a lot more juice and even fizzy pop which I normally wouldn't have at all. I usually love drinking water and try to avoid drinking a lot of sugary drinks, but I'm struggling to keep myself sufficiently hydrated right now.

Someone was asking earlier in the thread if anyone was working past 36 weeks. I'm planning to work to 39 weeks but everyone seems to think I'm totally crazy. I can't even imagine being off now and don't have much desire for it yet. My DH is being really great and doing almost all the housework right now, so other than work my life is pretty restful.

3madboys · 04/02/2008 16:05

hello all, god all this talk of induction things are starting to get very real, i will be 37wks on friday, all good here tho, i see the midwife at 38wks and she will come round and do a home visit, i am now starting to get organised, have sorted all the baby clothes, blankets etc, and have my comfy pj's for after labour and some breast pads, still need to get maternity pads etc. oh i have towels and sheets and a shower curtain ready for the home birth. my list of home birth essential included a 'baby bath' which we dont have, if the baby really needs a wash then it will be top and tailed or come in the bath with me, or else it can go in the sink

oh we also have a torch and a lamp which are on the home birth list.

as for induction, i have already had an app with the consultant who has agreed that i can go to 14days then have a check up and if all is well they will let me go over that, the last two were 15 and 17days late, i seem to like to overcook them, not that any of them looked overdue and my placenta, fluid levels etc have always been fine, my mum had long pregnancies too, so i think its partly genetic.

hope everyone is well xxxxxxx

PurlyQueen · 04/02/2008 16:21

I'm 'only' 32 weeks as well and due on 29th March. Am beginning to think I may have been rather rash in deciding to work up to 36 weeks. I am thinking about stopping a week early as I'm starting to get tired.

Oh - and I had the mother of all cramps early this morning in both legs. I knew i was in trouble as soon as I had a stretch. The pain was excruciating!

e14mum · 04/02/2008 16:36

Man, this has been my hardest day at work yet. Is it because I know it's almost at an end? I keep finding mistakes I've made, have to make loads of trips to the loo, want to put my head down on the desk and just sleep the week away!

merryberry · 04/02/2008 16:51

they do just add a week over in france skidoodle!

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piggyp · 04/02/2008 16:59

Halfords grrrrr! Went to get my isofix base (pre ordered on interent for in-store pick-up). Got it, paid and then, while waiting for man to show me how to use it, noticed that it was rather scratched and not in a box or bag. In fact it had every appearance of being ex-display. Normally I wouldn't mind but for a car seat it rather have one from a box. Anyway they seem to have run out of boxed ones at all halfords! The lads were really helpful but I'm going to have to wait for a new one! it all took about an hour and then I did tescos and now I'm shattered.
Is anyone else finding normal activities ridiculously tiring. I feel really guilty because dh is at work all day but I'm too pathetically exhausted to cook him supper. Feel very lazy!
Glad to hear about placentas shifting - how do you know where they are though?

JFly · 04/02/2008 17:07

piggy just see my last 50 posts for complaints about being exhausted! I'm about to leave the house for the first time today to walk up to the shops and I'm not looking forward to it. I'm not sure if I'm lazy or tired.

feedmenow · 04/02/2008 17:36

Goodness, so much going on!

Awful as it sounds, I keep losing track of how many weeks I am! I think it's because my scan date and LMP date are 4 days apart, I spent ages going on the scan date but have now changed it to the later LMP date to allow me more time after due date before they start giving me grief about induction, IYSWIM! Anyway, I am somewhere between 33+2 and 34.

As far as longer pg's go, I read somewhere ages ago that in years gone by then the average gestional period was 40 weeks, but as we get fitter, healthier, stronger and bigger then we are able to grow our babies for longer, thereby increasing the period of gestation. So probably a pg in the western world would be average 41 weeks, but in third world maybe 39 weeks (purely guessing there BTW!).

Anyway, I am actually feeling a bit panicky that we still have lots to do. In some ways I feel really organised and in others I feel helpless. The "nursery" still has a large sideboard and a large dresser in it and, until they are both gone, we can't decorate. Walls are strippedand coving is up, but we still need to: sand and fill walls, wallpaper, paint walls and ceiling, fit skirting board, paint skirting and coving and lay carpet. Then: put together changing table and cot, get cot mattress, move wardrode from ds room to nursery. Oh god, typing it all just makes me feel worse!!

JFly · 04/02/2008 17:44

feedme if I wrote down what needed to happen for the nursery to be done, my list would say replaster, replace window (!) and THEN do everything you just outlined!! At nearly 36 weeks, I'm up the proverbial creek. So, you are not alone!

Glammama · 04/02/2008 17:58

feedmenow you're ahead of me in the decoration stakes. I have a Co-op flat and I'm waiting for them to come round and authorise and arrange yucky black mould removal from bedroom windows, treat with biocides and redecorate. So everything is on hold, including the paint and wallpaper we bought ages ago and we have still not fitted the carpet we haven't bought yet. So, this is why we have a Moses basket (for the living room) from DP's mum as there is no way I'm bringing baby home into the room yet. Or into a freshly painted room either. May get onto Co-op tomorrow as they were supposed to arrange something before the end of the week.
piggy I'd like to say I can sense the location of my placenta through my extremely honed mothering instincts but I'd be lying! I had a scan today and the highy trained sonographer identified that particular blur.

JFly · 04/02/2008 18:15

Hey all you knitters, just found this site courtesy of another MN thread:
www.knittinghelp.com

Really useful videos if you're just learning, or re-learning like me!

derah · 04/02/2008 18:27

Perhaps I should be grateful that new baby doesn't actually have a nursery and is just being squshed in with us to start with and then moves in with DD! At least I don't have any decorating to do!

Well, I have lots of decorating to do but not baby-related.... large chunks of the house need doing at some point.

Glammama · 04/02/2008 18:39

derah, our baby doesn't have a nursey either. This is our room

Remember pregnant ladies, it's Pancake Day tomorrow.Bring out the nutella!!!

turtle23 · 04/02/2008 18:46

Ladies...please remember that these are babies we are talking about, not interior design experts. As long as they have you they couldn't care less where they are. Promise.

doup76 · 04/02/2008 19:04

HQ My DH is going on a business trip this thursday for 3 days so maybe he'll come back a bit more baby focused....here's hoping!!!!

Merryberry Anaemia - I know the convo on iron supplements was a few pages back but in case you didn't see it, I would definitely recommend Floridax liquid iron. So much better than the tablets and you will notice the difference in just a few days. Have a word with your pharmacist.

glammama My appointment is a 2pm so could meet up for a coffee after. Was thinking then I could stick around and go to the tour at 5.30pm. It all depends if my mum is going to drive me up so I don't have to take the dreaded tube for once!

derah · 04/02/2008 19:22

Speak for yourself Turtle, my baby will be born with impecable taste and a flair for interior design!

Glam - that can't be good for you or baby, hope you get it sorted soon. Go all hormonal on their asses!

AdelaideJo · 04/02/2008 19:29

Hi everyone, 34 + 3 weeks for me, so I'm mid-March but am really envying the 36 weekers on here!!

Does anyone know if there are any hard and fast rules about not going to a midwife-led birthing unit if yr showing as anaemic? At my last MW appointment I asked her if I was booked into that unit as I requested and she said if my iron levels are still low after testing this week i'll have to go on the delivery suite...she was incredibly vague and wouldn't explain further...or would it be that she just doesn't want to commit to me getting a place in the midwife-led unit.......?

confusedly, Jo

feedmenow · 04/02/2008 19:32

Thank the lord I'm not alone!!

Turtle, I don't actually care about the decoration as such. baby will be in with us for a while and all that. The problem is that we've got nowhere to put all the baby stuff. Our (still undecorated) room is a disorganised tip with piles of baby stuff in every available space and I can't work out what the hell I'm doing with it all. So I DESPERATELY want the other room done just so that I have somewhere to put all the stuff so that I can try and get our room a bit tidier too! Amazing how something so small can "need" so much stuff! (of course, I realise that the baby doesn't actually need mush at all and it's more like what I want for it )

Glam, hope you have some joy getting your "issues" sorted out! Sounds like a right nightmare! Surely they'll do the biocide bit before you have a baby in there???

Merry, like Doup said, try Floradix. I take it, pg or not! Can get it from Holland & Barrett. It really DOES pick me up. And it says on the box it is fine for pg or lactating ladies.

feedmenow · 04/02/2008 19:33

Jo, but did she actually GIVE you anything to increase your iron levels?????

piggyp · 04/02/2008 19:34

We don't have nursery either - in with us to start with! Then in spare room (with some furniture changes!). I thought I'd wait a bit and then make more of a child's room, than a baby one. Maybe I'm just mean though!

Glamma - thank you for reminding us about pancake day, I'll have to get the nutella out of its hiding place (it's the one thing I just can't share!).

merryberry · 04/02/2008 19:40

Jo check this out about anemia and risk in labour, also read the associated links on this page.

MIdwives often aren't very good at this sort of thing, it's a vague sort of professinal memory with no back up. Sadly cos there is no decent research. Will check Cochrane for us soon.

Basically, the concern used to be (when my mum trained) that being low iron could increase risk of post partum haemorraghe. Not true it turns out, but it does mean you can't afford to lose so much blood as someone with higer iron levels.

Do you know your levels? I have what they call nutrional anaemia (lowish haem count) but my blood cells are the right shape and my cell volumes are fine. Pay particular attention to Mary Cronk's contribution on this on the page above. She is a star

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timmyinatizzy · 04/02/2008 19:47

Hmmmm Nutella Totally forgot it was pancake day until the childminder reminded me. Thank god she is doing them with the dsd's. I'm on my own tomorrow. Dh is off on a jolly to Paris with his work team. Apparently its supposed to a bonding session!!! I'm so

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