Meet the Other Phone. Protection built in.

Meet the Other Phone.
Protection built in.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Birth clubs

Connect with mums-to-be with similar due dates to share experiences and support.

October 2021

154 replies

LJZRBB · 22/01/2021 18:40

Hi everyone.

Dare I start an October thread!?!

Anyone got a positive result for October? It’s early I know.

Got mine this morning on a FRER at 8 DPO. The line was surprisingly strong. Just feels to good to be true. 🥰 period isn’t due until Monday 25th. So very early days.

If all goes well I am due 03/10/21.

This is my first pregnancy.
Look forward to everyone sharing their journey/stories.

OP posts:
Thread gallery
5
HotCupOfNo · 14/02/2021 19:07

@AlexLeah mine is the 21st too I think, actually my sisters birthday!

Wish I could help you with advice - this is my second and I'm just as nervous as I was with my first. The thought of getting all our hopes up is really hard!

HotCupOfNo · 14/02/2021 19:10

Thanks @2021WillBeGreat, I wouldn't say they're severe. My boobs are bloody huge though! Is this your first?

HotCupOfNo · 14/02/2021 19:12

@Doremifasol I'm so sorry to hear about your miscarriages ❤️ how are you feeling?

yellowspot · 14/02/2021 19:12

Tentatively joining :)

BFP today with Sue date calculated for 22nd October. This will be number two, have a little boy who's 17 months.

Experiencing cramps here two but I had them (and spotting) with my first and everything was fine.

Congrats to everyone on their BFPs xx

sandsandwiches · 14/02/2021 19:45

Congrats on all the BFPs. @AlexLeah and @HotCupOfNo this is number 3 for me and I still have no idea to stave off the next few weeks anxiety! I'm trying to think of distracting activities for next week... And browsing all the October MN boards. There seems to be a few! Currently watching below deck and trying alcohol free white wine, would not recommend the latter!

HotCupOfNo · 14/02/2021 21:24

Hi @yellowspot and @sandsandwiches Smile

I haven't seen any other October boards, must be looking in the wrong places!

Come to bed early as I'm so knackered and found myself obsessively googling chemical pregnancies 🤦🏻‍♀️

2021WillBeGreat · 14/02/2021 21:49

@HotCupOfNo yes it's my first. Is it yours? I'm shocked at how early I've had symptoms.

2021WillBeGreat · 14/02/2021 21:50

@HotCupOfNo I have found two other's
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/pregnancy/4150199-Party-for-ladies-due-in-October-2021

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/pregnancy/4139842-October-2021-Babies

Hopefully the links work!

imisscoffee · 15/02/2021 06:11

@HotCupOfNo I'm also having cramps. Trying not to worry about them as I had them at this point with my other pregnancies but after losing my last one, my anxiety is creeping in.

Anyone else having hot flushes? My face will suddenly burn up and my skin is so dry and sore. I typically have oily skin so this is all new!

Doremifasol · 15/02/2021 07:54

@HotCupOfNo I had a lot of period type pain at around 4 weeks and was convinced I will start bleeding. It had calmed down a lot since, now I am 5w 1 day.

Doremifasol · 15/02/2021 07:57

@HotCupOfNo feeling fine actually, quite a bit of stretching feeling in my uterus ( must be a good sign??) and afternoon nausea but not too bad in fact.
Hope your cramps will ease off soon!

HotCupOfNo · 15/02/2021 07:58

@2021WillBeGreat this will be my second, my daughter is nearly two but honestly if you gave me a newborn now I wouldn't have a clue what to do with it. I do remember waiting to test last time though as I didn't really feel any different and just thought my period was late, so symptoms definitely earlier this time!

HotCupOfNo · 15/02/2021 08:00

Thanks @imisscoffee and @Doremifasol, I'll try and chill out about it, google definitely doesn't have the answer.

I've been blowing hot and cold @imisscoffee but I'm actually recovering from covid so I don't know what's that and what's pregnancy (it's been a mad few weeks)

sandsandwiches · 15/02/2021 10:07

That does sound like a mad few weeks @HotCupOfNo the two things that make your feel really exhausted, Covid and first trimester!

I've had the odd cramp/period like pain and 5 weeks now, I think it's normal but who knows! I've forgotten about previous pregnancies too but friends have assured me when baby arrives it all comes flooding back 🤞🏽

I've just sent midwife registration form in so all feels a bit more real now.

sandsandwiches · 15/02/2021 10:08

@Doremifasol I've noticed nausea is always in the afternoon not the morning too, not sure morning sickness is very well named!

JoannaRose · 15/02/2021 10:38

Hello fellow Octoberians! 🤔🤣 I would love to join, I got my BFP yesterday and my due date is 28th October so I just make it for this thread hehe although same as others - celebrating tentatively at this stage but also trying to be relaxed at the same time - it is a balancing act isn’t it! If little bean sticks and take after me then little bean will definitely be late lol as I am one of those annoying people who can’t be on time for anything! Lots of virtual celebration hugs to you all! I am shocked as it is 1st month TTC so in my head was prepared to be trying for a lot longer! Very sensitive boobs, cramps and feeling bloated right now! Xxx ❤️

HotCupOfNo · 15/02/2021 13:00

@sandsandwiches I just registered too! Feels a bit mad!

ED81 · 15/02/2021 20:09

Hi ladies,
I tested positive today. 4 weeks! Due date should be 21st Oct. First pregnancy at 39 years old and I’m scared as hell!!

Su01 · 16/02/2021 17:56

@JoannaRose

Hello fellow Octoberians! 🤔🤣 I would love to join, I got my BFP yesterday and my due date is 28th October so I just make it for this thread hehe although same as others - celebrating tentatively at this stage but also trying to be relaxed at the same time - it is a balancing act isn’t it! If little bean sticks and take after me then little bean will definitely be late lol as I am one of those annoying people who can’t be on time for anything! Lots of virtual celebration hugs to you all! I am shocked as it is 1st month TTC so in my head was prepared to be trying for a lot longer! Very sensitive boobs, cramps and feeling bloated right now! Xxx ❤️
Congratulations 🥳

Jan was our first month it TTC as well and we prepared ourselves to not get excited or stressed and try for a few months. We were excited but kind of terrified when I got BFP. No symptoms though, went for early scan today. All good except that I not 6+ weeks as predicted by pregnancy apps. 4-5 weeks 😊

Su01 · 16/02/2021 17:56

Congratulations everyone. Hope everyone is doing well 🥳😊

HotCupOfNo · 17/02/2021 12:15

Congrats @ED81 !!! My sister had a baby at 39 🥰 and my mum had me at 39 and my sister at 41

ED81 · 17/02/2021 17:55

Thank you @HotCupOfNo. That means a lot. I've really been struggling over the last 48 hours with what is happening so your words are very appreciated.xx

33Carr · 22/02/2021 07:39

Hi everyone! Hope I can join, got my BFP yesterday with predicted due date of the 31st of October!

Very early days but filled with so much joy, just hope this little one sticks around 🌈

Hope everyone is doing well 🤗

Squid2021 · 23/02/2021 22:09

Hi everyone! Hope it is okay to join you all

I am currently 8 weeks today with my first baby. I found out I was pregnant on the 2nd Feb, the day after my birthday! What a gift! After being told that I couldn't have children naturally and I would have to go through IVF 3 weeks prior!

My DD is 5.10.21. I am super excited, but also nervous/ anxious and the do's and dots and all the information there is to read!

Hope you're all doing well!

sargeantsaltnpepper89 · 24/02/2021 19:43

Hey ladies just found this thread and hoping I could join? I'm six weeks tomorrow so will be due around the 21st of October. have 2DC already so this will be DC3, still feels a bit surreal saying thatGrin hope all you ladies are well and congratulations to u all !Flowers