Evening ladies,
Loopy - I would love a water birth but have been told I will be continuously monitored as soon as I go into labour because of the complications of DS's birth.
One of my prerequisites for going for a VBAC is that despite the monitoring, I will be able to change position and stand up/walk around the bed. I have made it clear that I want control. That I will be able to have breaks from the monitor if I want them etc.
I just don't have the courage to demand a water birth against advice because I will be fighting the medical team, my family are definitely going to be against it (no-one has ever tried home/waterbirth before) and I know I won't have DHs support. He will see it as me risking mine and baby's health. Basically after what happened with DS arriving early - we'll all just be grateful if this baby will hang on until November!
Thanks for the encouragement though - will be thinking of you if any of the MWs try to bully me
LizzieO - good luck with your VBAC - it's a scary decision isn't it! And agree on the respect for single mums thing. I now have the utmost respect for anyone bringing up a baby without a partner. I know I'd cope if I had to but I really can't see how.
About working - I gave up work when DS was born so have been a SAHM for 2 years - bar a bit of henna work over the past few months. So I am the opposite - am looking forward to getting back to the rat race in fact. Will probably work M-W in a 9-5 job and that leaves me with 4 days at home with the kids. Most henna work tends to be on thurs/fri evenings or occasionally at the weekend so I can pick some of that up when it suits me.
I miss the office banter and having a reason to dress smart. I miss having lunch hours to wander around aimlessly without children in tow...sigh.
Good luck with everyones GTTs - glad I've escaped that fun adventure!