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Anyone due July 2020

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rhij86 · 30/10/2019 12:46

Hi all,

Anyone due July 2020? Sorry if I've missed a thread, done a quick search and couldn't find one...

DH and I were due to start TTC for #2 in the new year, but haven't been actively not-trying. Well something was just niggling at me over the weekend, I just 'had a feeling' if that makes sense... did an FRER yesterday and there it was! that second pink line...

I'm equal parts excited and batshit scared haha. I've not told DH yet, it's his birthday on Tuesday so going to break it to him then.

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Babytrain89 · 08/11/2019 10:12

@mlax I am....I know it can be a sign of a couple of things. If it becomes more regular or I start bleeding then will ring doc/go hosp i guess! Feels a bit like youre on your own in these first few weeks doesnt it!?
Fingers crossed for you!

mlax · 08/11/2019 10:14

Absolutely yes! @Babytrain89 ridiculous too that your first scan is 12 weeks... I do have a private one booked for tomorrow as well..!!!

emzyemz85 · 08/11/2019 12:06

Hey everyone!

Just to keep everyone updated I had a scan today and they could see a sac!!!!

I am soooooo happy! So I have another scan booked in two weeks time SmileGrin

edinbaby · 08/11/2019 13:14

Hello! Can I please join? I’m 5+2. Due 8th July! I see there’s a few of us due then Smile.

This is my first pregnancy, it wasn’t planned at all but after the initial shock we’re so excited!

Has anyone else’s symptoms faded a bit? I am still getting mild cramps/niggles and slightly tender nipples but that’s it! I’m trying not to worry. My first midwife appointment isn’t till 13th Dec so we have booked a private scan on the 24th Nov for reassurance.

AKC123 · 08/11/2019 14:42

Congratulations @emzyemz85

@edinbaby im due july 6th, not far off yours. I am not having many symptoms either. Since I have been drinking more I am feeling pretty much normal (was feeling lightheaded before) apart from sometimes feeling tired.

edinbaby · 08/11/2019 14:56

@AKC123 that’s reassuring. Yes I have been drinking lots too and of course peeing a lot.

Trying to enjoy being pregnant and not worry too much but it’s proving difficult.

Dafs123 · 08/11/2019 18:16

Brilliant news @emzyemz85 can't wait for a scan ... 3 weeks to go 😭😭

meg127 · 08/11/2019 19:21

Hi everyone! Congratulations to you allSmile hope you don't mind me joining in but I've just found out I'm expecting and believe my due date is around 12th July! How is everyone doing?

Goldington · 08/11/2019 19:26

Is anyone else terrified to go to the toilet! I just keep worrying I’m going to see red!

Symptoms wise I felt really sick the last couple of days but today not so bad! I’ve completely gone off food, sore boobs and tired!

AutumnDazed · 08/11/2019 21:39

Hi all, just to reiterate from my earlier post, I’m a husband whose wife is pregnant so hopefully you don’t mind me being here. I’m trying to learn what to expect for what my wife will go through, week by week.

@edinbaby my wife had a couple of days this week where she had very little in the way of any symptoms and was a bit concerned but today the sore breasts were back and she was delighted(!)

@Goldington the fear of peeing is definitely felt here. Is that normal?!?

@mlax just wanted to wish you all the best and hope you hear good news this evening.

LisaxMarie · 08/11/2019 22:27

Would love to join!! Congrats to everyone! I had surgery with right tube removal for an ectopic in July. Finally got my bfp on Wednesday with a due date of 17th July 2020! Over the moon but absolutely petrified at the same time 😓 worrying about every twinge! Glad I’ve found this thread as reading the comments has put my mind at rest!

Izabelus · 08/11/2019 22:54

Hi @LisaxMarie and welcome! We are due dates buddies. I find it difficult to get excited too as I had a MMC in July. Fingers crossed we get our healthy babies in July 2020! ❤️

mlax · 08/11/2019 23:07

Hi everyone

To all those concerned - been to the hospital and been sent back home. They've said good news is I have no infection and I'm in no pain but 50/50 at this moment. I've not been admitted but I'm off on Sunday morning at 830am for a scan... praying for good news.

Hope everyone has a lovely weekend!! X

FireflyGirl · 08/11/2019 23:16

Hi all, am tentatively joining.

Been getting faint BFPs since last Sunday when I was due on, EDD is 11th July.

I had quite a horrendous MMC over the summer, thanks to the hospital cocking up my treatment, so am very anxious, but also want to be able to talk to people about this pregnancy.

FireflyGirl · 08/11/2019 23:18

Good luck for Sunday mlax Flowers

LisaxMarie · 08/11/2019 23:27

Hi @Izabelus! Aww due date buddies!! Glad to have someone I can chat to through this then! So sorry to hear you went through that. It’s really heartbreaking. Will this be you first child? It will be my first. So nervous though. Booked in for early scan on 22nd. Just want to be told it’s on the right place 🤞

mlax · 08/11/2019 23:28

Thank you @FireflyGirl.

P.s your EDD is my birthday!! X

LisaxMarie · 09/11/2019 00:00

@mlax got everything crossed for Sunday. Hoping for the best for you x

Lcham89 · 09/11/2019 05:12

Please can I join Wink

First baby.
4yrs trying. 6months clomid, 2 rounds of IVF in 2017..NOTHING.... Haven't been actively trying this year and planned to just enjoy our life......and BOOM!
Tested Wednesday. EDD 16th July. Never had two lines before. Extremely anxious. Everytime I nip to the loo I'm convinced I'm going to get my period, super crampy too. How on Earth do I get to 12/40 Confused with my sanity intact. I really hope for a sticky one..x

AKC123 · 09/11/2019 05:35

Welcome @Lcham89 comgratulations!

@mlax fingers crossed for you today. Really hope all is well

Lcham89 · 09/11/2019 06:52

@AKC123Thank you.
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Dafs123 · 09/11/2019 07:01

@Lcham89 I love stories like yours congratulations !! Time feels like it's going backwards for me 😭x

Sprintfinish · 09/11/2019 08:06

Congratulations everyone, so nice reading about so many bfps!!

I got my BFP on Thursday at 3+4! I had some spotting and cramping on Tuesday, with the spotting being different from normal pre-AF spotting. Tested early and I'm due 19th July!

Nausea has kicked in big time. I had it from early with DS1 so seems will be a feature this time too 😳 no other symptoms although still some very light spotting going on, but hoping just implantation bleeding.

dragonmummy17 · 09/11/2019 08:08

Hi everyone happy weekend and congratulations to all new people. I'm just catching up after a few busy days.
@mlax good luck for tomorrow
I panicked in the night when I was up with DS as I felt ok for the first time in a week... I should have enjoyed it because the fatigue and nausea are back this morning!

RedRobin7 · 09/11/2019 08:12

Hi ladies! I've known for two weeks but have been too scared to join a July thread. Here I am though and lots of posts to read already!

I'm also due on 8th July at the moment. I'm terrified though as this is my third pregnancy... I had a MMC in March '18 at 12 weeks and then MC at 7 weeks in July '18. My husband didn't want to try again so this pregnancy wasn't planned. I'm hoping it's a miracle but I only have sore boobs and desperate for more symptoms!

Last year my work paid for me to have private tests. Only thing found was high androgen levels so my consultant put me on metformin. I've been on it over a year now so hoping it will help. He told me to stay on it until 12 weeks so I hope that's safe! Seeing him on Wednesday for a 6 week scan but this time we have to pay. Consultant wants to see me every 2 weeks until 12 weeks when he hands me over to NHS.

Anyone else have very few symptoms? I'd love to be sick. As crazy as it sounds! It will just help my anxiety!