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Due in July- The Winners Enclosure!!

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Princesspowersparkle · 12/07/2007 02:07

Caroline- took your title to follow on the horsey theme!!

No idea what I'm having. Wanted to find out but DH didn't and as it meant we'd have had to pay for a private scan we didn't bother.
What about you?

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typhoonsmum · 26/07/2007 12:28

Are you not with partner anymore. Is that hard?

agnesnitt · 26/07/2007 13:01

Our relationship ended in January, so yeah, very hard.

Agnes

MelissaM · 26/07/2007 13:08

Sorry to hear that Agnes - I really admire you coping through your pg on your own. I struggled enough with dh around. You are a star!

Everyone - I forgot about the keeping mobile bit. I kept having to go for walks to get my contractions going again as they were very stop/start (and mild - thought they were bh) for a couple of days before lo arrived. I did feel like a bit of a plank having to stop every few minutes when they kicked off again and lean on peoples gate posts, but did help.

Lynecc - At my mw app 2 days b4 Evelyn arrived, I was still only 3/5ths engaged so if you are now nearly fully engaged, your lo must be heading in the right direction.

Typhoonsmum - extra slime and period pains are good signs!

agnesnitt · 26/07/2007 13:16

It's been hard Melissa, must admit, but I'll get there. Just keeping going.

Right! I am going to go get some clean clothes on (got to love slobbing about in your jim jams) and I am going to go buy biscuits!

Agnes

typhoonsmum · 26/07/2007 13:16

Well done Agnes. At times I wonder if I could manage without DP. He drives me mental sometimes but he does make a nice cup of tea and goes to get Mc D's breakfasts on a Saturday morning so he has his uses.

Had extra slime for a while but it has got worse over past few days.

MelissaM · 26/07/2007 13:24

If it's any consolation my DH is going my head in. He keeps going on about the state of the house. Sorry - I thought my priority was to look after and feed our dd, not keep a show home. And the stuff he keeps complaining about is stuff he has left lying around. He fails to see all the jobs that I have done when I should be having naps to make sure I make enough milk! Aaargh!

typhoonsmum · 26/07/2007 14:13

Melissa we may be with distant relative of each other. That sounds just like DP.

Beyonceen · 26/07/2007 14:30

total respect for you agnes. YOu are a star. Ditto to extra slime. (yuk) in my stupidity i confused it with waters. ha bloody ha! i LOVE the competetion idea. I will win I know it. what prize should we have??
am walking around a lot in vain hope.
not sure about the engaged thing. i am 4/5 engaged and the baby is not ready to come out as the cervix is "not favourable". how favourable do you want it to be.? The child is measuring 44 weeks for goodness sake!
Have just emptied the ironing basket...see my halo glow..

typhoonsmum · 26/07/2007 14:37

My baby is measuring 36 weeks. i'll still be here at christmas this way.

What virtual prize should we decide on for the longest pregnancy. Dumbledorf is the front runner at the moment.

Beyonceen · 26/07/2007 14:45

what about Champagne at the virtual bar? - oh God, i can almost taste it!!

Here is the leader board:

dumbledorf 15 July (40+11) *
Keiralou 18th July (40+8)
agnesnitt 20th July (40+6)
Beyonceen 22nd July (40+4)
firststar 26th July (40)
lynnec 27 July (39+6)
typhoon 29th July (39+4)

feel free to add your name if i've missed you.

typhoonsmum · 26/07/2007 15:09

Virtual Moet and Chandon. Hey as it is virtual lets go for the most expensive. what is the most expensive champagne.

Beyonceen · 26/07/2007 15:11

isn't it bollinger? shouldn't we know this?

agnesnitt · 26/07/2007 15:13

If I win can I be a cheaper bunny and go for a virtual bottle of Smirnoff Norsk please?

Well, went to tesco, got drowned for my troubles, but remembered to actually buy a packet of biscuits so it's not all bad

Thanks for the kind thoughts guys, they're much appreciated

Agnes

Beyonceen · 26/07/2007 15:24

Agnes hun, you can name your poison. you deserve it!
just read princesspowersparkle's birth story and TBH it reads like your worst nightmare!! 5 days from waters going to delivery!!!! gulp. I don't need to hear stuff like that right now! poor pps. but lucky her all the same - she doesn't have to suffer the indignity of the leaderboard!

JennsterBubsLayer · 26/07/2007 17:17

RE CLARY SAGE

I'm sure you can massage it, but 4-6 drops in a nice hot bath is what I did with it.

Ohh and Krug is a pretty pricey champers.

Eavesdropping over.

My sympathies and lots of hugs to all

Dumbledorf · 26/07/2007 17:50

ooh, quite pleased now that I am in the lead. I am also, apparently "favourable" and the baby is 2/5 engaged, but sorry to disappoint- it has been for ages......
MW who came round today was v nice and encouraging and told me about the other girl who was waiting for hb last weekend- she went 14 days over and had no twinges then went into labour the night before she had to go and get induced. She also asked if she could come if I had hb cos she had never been to one, so at least she thinks its a realistic possibility.

Well done btw Agnes for doing this on your own since jan, that's amazing!

I just informed dh we would have to have sex again tonight and the poor man groaned (honestly, that's gratitude!) and agreed to dash off to get me 2 pineapples before he goes to footy!! That was the mw's tip btw- sex and pineapples......

Bought the clary sage today after reading mixed reviews about it on the web, you can use it to help with the pain of cb apparently, I will put some in the bath tonight and let you all know what happens.

My suggestion for the winner is a nice big hamper....I could donate a load of curry powder, some pineapples, probably 3/4 bottle of clary sage, 1/2 box rl tea.....

agnesnitt · 26/07/2007 18:05

I have got a few different curry powders as I like to blend and make something a bit different each time I make curry. Get bored of the same taste all the time.

Every time I see a new one in a local shop I buy it, must have about five different pots

Agnes

lynnec · 26/07/2007 18:53

Just to say...im still here...had period type pain most of the day, still jumping up and down on the b/ball.

Agnes..your one in a million!!! I know how hard it was for me when prev dh passed away suddenly and i had a 4 year old to deal with, with you going through this pg on your own must be very difficult...well done!!!

Keep bouncing girls

typhoonsmum · 26/07/2007 19:04

Feel very strange today. Don't want to eat as I feel sick. Have have period pains on and off all day and just generally don't know what to do with myself. Feel I should be doing something but can't be bothered.

Going for a bath to try and calm myself. What is Clary Sage and where do you get it.

Miaou · 26/07/2007 19:20

Hi everybody!! Thanks for the congrats. Euan is a wee smasher, feeds and sleeps beautifully (so far!). here is a pic of him.

Labour was ok, less than four hours in the end - Dh didn't manage to be there but I had lovely midwife support and it was all worth it!

Good luck to all those still waiting - will have a read through all the messages soon!

JennsterBubsLayer · 26/07/2007 20:13

Miaou - All your dc look lovely, Euan looks very happy.

Typhoons - Clary Sage is an an essential oil and you should be able to buy it in any health food shop. Even if it doesn't do anything (it's meant to be relaxing and calming), it smells quite nice.

Dumbledorf · 26/07/2007 20:45

Hi everyone,
have just posted THIS message over in the pregnancy thread:
Am massively overdue and have been twiddling my nipples in an attempt to get things moving. Tonight, both nipples have started slightly leaking yellow stuff (much like custard) which I am assuming is colostrum. there's not loads and now it's started I'm getting some good cramps, which I'm keen to encourage - just not sure if I should!! Should I stop now or carry on

Anyone got any bright ideas?

Have just had clary sage bath btw and feel very relaxed, if nothing else. I got it at Holland and Barret today.

agnesnitt · 26/07/2007 20:55

Twiddle on!

Agnes

typhoonsmum · 26/07/2007 21:28

Twiddle away. Are you having a HB or hospital one

bilblio · 26/07/2007 21:47

Sorry it's taken me so long to get on here, we've been inundated with visitors, when they haven't been around I've been either feeding or sleeping.

I know Mr Bilblio came on here to give you the news last Friday, in fact he managed to inform all my online friends, but forgot to let my work mates know

The basics are... I gave birth to a baby girl at midday on 20/07/07, 7lb 1oz, and we've named her Bryher after this place

Then the full story... if I can get it written before she wakes.

On Friday morning at 4:30 my contractions started. I didn't realise for the first one, just thought I was desperate for the loo. I climbed back into bed 7 minutes later and had another to woke Mr Bilblio and told him to get the rest of the bag packed while I phoned the hospital.
Because of the fall from the chair and possible waters breaking I wanted some reassurance. The hospital told me to come in straight away as if my waters had gone that far back they'd be inducing me whether I was in labour or not.
So we phoned the taxi and were in the hospital by 5am. By which point my contractions were 4-5 minutes apart and I was at the "I can't talk through them" stage. I was examined and I was 4cm dilated.
I had G&A, but I'd only had 1.5 hours sleep and was exhausted, the MW suggested pethedine and I decided she knew best.
I was hooked up to monitors for the whole of the labour as the babys movements weren't very good so I couldn't walk around. I tried going on all 4's but my back was too sore for that too.
At one point I asked for an epidural, but it was too late as I was 8cm dilated. I was also impressed how quickly I'd got that far so decided I could do the rest anyway.
At 11:30 they decided if I hadn't delivered by Midday they'd use intervention.
I work well with deadlines.
At the stroke of midday I gave birth to a baby girl called Bryher, 7lb 1oz. She had a "true knot" in her cord which had tightened during the delivery and had passed meconium so was rushed away, but a bit of suction and she was fine.
They had problems with me as the placenta wouldn't come away, then when it did I bled heavily so I let Mr Bilblio and my Mum (who wasn't there for the birth but I allowed in to see the placenta being delivered) have a cuddle, while they sorted me out.
I got her back at 12:15, we did skin-to-skin and she had her first feed at 12:20... and it feels like she hasn't stopped since.

I was home by 1pm the next day. I was really lucky the ward was really full thanks to other hospitals in the area being closed. There were 22 women to discharge, and only 2 midwives, but thankfully one of them was the Community midwife I've seen a lot so she discharged us first otherwise we could have still been there at tea time.

Bryher is very contented, feeding very well although she struggles to keep awake while feeding and it can take 2 hours, but she sleeps for long periods in between so when I can switch my brain off I'm getting decent sleep.

We must be doing something right though because rather than losing weight on her 3 day weigh in she'd put on 3ozs!

I'll catch up with all the other posts soon.. I have to suss out feeding whilst sat at the PC.

I did spot one question though from Typhoonsmum I think... is it possible for your waters to break but contractions not start?...
Yes. The fall from the chair did rupture my waters, they leaked slowly before for 2 days before the contractions started. I wouldn't recommend falling off chairs as a replacement to semen or pineapple though

On Sunday my Dad and brother fixed my chair, and my brother is going to get me a new, much better chair from his work place as a replacement