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The March-ers 2019 - #9 Meet the Babies

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Angelmiracle · 12/02/2019 12:38

Thread 9 wow πŸ€—

All being well a lot more birth announcements this thread πŸ‘£πŸΌπŸ€°πŸΏπŸ€°πŸ€°πŸΎπŸ€°πŸΌ

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SharonO225 · 06/03/2019 05:20

Thank you @Angelmiracle @Wineandchoccy ☺️ I'm besotted all over again x

cardboard33 · 06/03/2019 05:49

Thank you all!

Was a very big shock as was no where close to finishing work and I hadn't really started to feel "heavily" pregnant at all as the pregnancy had been so smooth. I had my 36 week scan on Fri where they said his head was very low (but again, I hadn't been feeling pressure on my bladder etc) but didn't say birth was imminent, then in the early hours of Saturday morning my mucus plug started to go so we began to think it might happen a little earlier, but then spent Saturday completely fine doing usual stuff, packing the hospital bag, I cooked dinner etc and it was only as we were going to bed that I started to get contractions (in my pelvis/hips which freaked me out as thought it would be in my tummy) and then it went from there very quickly. And here we are!! They tried to stop me coming into the hospital when we phoned as I assume they thought I had ages to go, but once I'd arrived, got sorted out etc it was gone 6am and they were asking me what I wanted to do when he was here, telling me that I was nearly there etc. All very surreal!!!
Immediately afterwards I just kept saying "he's not supposed to be here yet, he can't come yet, I've not finished work, he can't come yet" for about 2 hours after he was born as was just in complete shock and literally shaking. The immediate few hours afterwards were more stressful and difficult than the birth itself because I wasn't able to fully get my head around the fact that that had been IT so I now had my baby. But ok now, other than he is all mucusy and quite literally won't sleep in his cot...

SquirtlesMumAgain · 06/03/2019 06:36

@sharono225 congratulations! Beautiful photo.

@cardboard33 - I remember the post birth shaking! Don't worry about him not sleeping in his cot - it's a bloody scary big world out here compared to the safety of inside. I know it makes it bloody hard but hopefully it will come and for now just follow the safe sleeping guidelines and you will get there! I found it easier to get DS used to sleeping in his moses basket during the day which transfered to night time after a little while.

cardboard33 · 06/03/2019 07:30

@squirtlesmumagain thanks, that gives me some hope. I've now managed to get him to sleep literally on our bed without someone holding him but now I obviously can't go to sleep, so not an ideal situation but hopefully proves that progress can and will be made...

cardboard33 · 06/03/2019 07:34

Also interesting you said that you were also shaking, as I just remember absolutely shaking from my tummy downwards for ages and they kept trying to get me to hold him and I didn't want to because of how unsteady I knew I was (I asked if the bed had sides so I'd avoid dropping him and they said no) and was just focusing on thinking "please don't have a seizure now and prove them all right" even though it felt very different to when I am in that position.

wordsmithereens · 06/03/2019 08:03

@cardboard33 It feels a bit unreal doesn't it? I can only imagine what that must be like if they arrive a lot earlier than expected. Work will still be there.

DD also won't sleep in her cot. For now we're mainly camping out in the lounge where I can get her to settle in the sleepy head for a bit, but it would be nice to transition to the bedroom at some point !

SquirtlesMumAgain · 06/03/2019 08:06

Have you also tried swaddling?
Worked really well with DS but obviously isn't for every baby. Used to have to wait 15 ish mins after the feed then could swaddle and transfer (he wouldn't feed swaddled!)

CaseofEllen · 06/03/2019 08:57

@SharonO225 congratulations! Another beautiful baby has arrived in the group overnight πŸ’•

Woke up at about 5.30 for a wee, got back into bed and had this huge, huge amount of pressure/pain down below all around my clitoris (sorry tmi). Literally felt like a ballon was going to burst inside me.. really panicked and thought my waters might go but nothing now. Tested for a UTI yesterday and all was normal so I have no idea what that feeling was!

Hope everyone is okay today.. wonder if we will get anymore birth announcements! X

Hermagsjesty · 06/03/2019 09:12

Congratulations on all the new arrivals! So many March babies in a rush to get into the world!!

We got home last night after Monday’s speedy delivery - they had to keep DS in for obs because the labour was all too fast for them to get the Step B antibiotics in to me. He’s fine though! So special bringing him home and my elder two are very smitten.

He’s another cot refuser but we all survived the night so I am chalking that up as a victory!

Did someone up thread say they have a gluten allergy? I do too - they ended up giving me a jacket potato with cheese and beans in the night and then sent out for GF bread especially in the morning!!

Gronk27 · 06/03/2019 09:44

@hermagsjesty I’m the fellow gluten free-er. That was nice of them!!

AssumeItWasSomethingClever · 06/03/2019 09:47

Congratulations @SharonO225 she's gorgeous x

Angelmiracle · 06/03/2019 11:07

Could only get DS over in his pram carrycot it was more snug and high sides but I know not all brand's are suitable for all night. I then gladly borrowed a Moses basket. Crib wasn't used until 12 weeks!

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Jenfur · 06/03/2019 12:03

Congratulations @Hermagsjesty @cardboard33 @wordsmithereens @SharonO225 - Hope I haven't missed anyone, been reading but not sure when I posted.

Saw midwife yesterday and she was really reassuring about the induction date I've been given. Said there's no reason to think I won't go into labour myself anyway and as it's second baby, the induction process should be quicker than if it was the first. She's booked me in for a sweep but couldn't fit me in until 2 days before due date so going to hopefully arrange a clinic sooner and fit me in on the end.

Tested for a UTI as I've had some discomfort going to the loo the last few days but all clear so expect it's just baby being awkward. He's 3/5 engaged and she gave him a push down as well but did say that he can just pop back out any time up until contractions start. Braxton Hicks have been ramping up lately, feels like my bump is hard more often during the day than it's not. Gets a bit uncomfortable, especially if I need a wee.

Finally got DS's bedroom finished and him moved in last night so the nursery is free for baby (just wanted somewhere to change and feed him during the night so that whichever of us is doing it doesn't have to wake the other up). Just got some boxes to move out of our bedroom in order to get the crib sorted out then I think we at least have the basics ready!

Off to stay with my parents this weekend so you can guarantee that if baby is going to come early, it'll be then.

Angelmiracle · 06/03/2019 13:29

@Jenfur glad you were provided with reassurance from MW. I also heard that induction with subsequent babies should be smoother. But the sweep may do the trick!! DH was to assemble the crib on Sunday but I came home to the box lying open with all bits still inside. He said he'd prefer me to read out the instructions Grin

Anxieties running high again. I need to write out my questions for consultant midwife next week.

My sis is home from Aussie 4 month old nephew on Friday that will be a welcome distraction.

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Angelmiracle · 06/03/2019 13:31

^with my 4 month old nephew

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march19 · 06/03/2019 14:38

@Hermagsjesty @Gronk27
I'm also gluten free and it hadn't crossed my mind about lack of GF food in hospital. So glad to have read your comments about it so now I can be prepared.

Gronk27 · 06/03/2019 15:15

@march19 I’m obsessed with food and very concerned where my next meal is coming from. You wouldn’t like me when I’m hungry Grin I think sometimes hospitals have provision but can be funny unless it’s on your medical notes or you can order it well in advance which isn’t always an option. It was a few years ago now but my coeliac Gran was being fed sandwiches and all sorts when she was in hospital as she had to wait for the dietician to see her first. My Dad went spare!

SquirtlesMumAgain · 06/03/2019 20:02

Growth scan is all good today, so we are on for induction next Wed but from the pressure I'm getting today I wonder if we will last that long!!!!

Wineandchoccy · 06/03/2019 20:36

@SquirtlesMumAgain very exciting Smile

Angelmiracle · 06/03/2019 20:51

@SquirtlesMumAgain that's good to hear. How are you feeling breathing wise?

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HidCat · 06/03/2019 20:59

@cardboard33 congratulations! So pleased all went well!

@wordsmithereens she's beautiful, congratulations!

@SharonO225 wow she didn't hang about once she got going! Congratulations! She's gorgeous.

Tightenings have ramped up for me tonight and are feeling like contractions but not so strong I'm sure it's going anywhere. Keeping an eye on it and hoping things are moving. Hopefully not til after DH has finished watching the footie though πŸ˜‚

SquirtlesMumAgain · 06/03/2019 21:23

@Angelmiracle it has eased in some ways as she has definitely dropped, but it still hits from time to time. Managed to run brownies tonight but that has absolutely done me in!

Exciting @hidcat - hope it starts progressing nicely for you!

WhatALearningCurve · 06/03/2019 21:45

So at 7pm last night I started getting contractions. By 11pm they were unbearable and I was getting 3 in ten minutes so head to the hospital. I started having issues with my blood pressure so went from the birthing suite to the labour ward.

Labour was horrendous. Contractions were every 90 seconds and felt like baby was trying come into the world via my back. Was on gas and air from the start pretty much and really straight with now difficult I was finding it, because I'd always been confident in my pain threshold! As well as gas and air I had codeine at one point and then diamorphine. All of which basically did nothing. (Gas and air was only effective if I inhaled so much I felt sick).

Finally I had Rima which wasn't great as pain relief but did keep making me pass out so I got to avoid the pain that way! All of this was continuous and the pain was excruciating! They were also struggling to examine me because the contractions were so regular that my stomach want softening up. Finally they started to bring through consultants around 10am, they eventually did an ultrasound and found out that he'd turned back to back! This is after him being positioned correctly from about 20 weeks, however it does solve the conundrum of what caused my back pain the other morning!

I was then rushed for a c section as baby's heartbeat started to lower (my two none negotiables in my birth plan was that I didn't want an epidural and I didn't want a c section. So by this point I was hysterical).

C section was done under local anaesthetic - most bizarre experience today being able to feel it without any pain!

Ending of the story - at 1:28pm after sixteen hours of horrid labour my beautiful son was born and I've already forgotten how awful most of the labour was. I'd genuinely do it again - just maybe accept an epidural much sooner ha.

The March-ers 2019 - #9 Meet the Babies
Wineandchoccy · 06/03/2019 21:52

@WhatALearningCurve Congratulations he is beautiful, what a labour you had though

ballanj · 06/03/2019 22:30

@WhatALearningCurve congratulations! You've certainly broken the quick labour pattern that had started up on here! Glad that he arrived safe and sound that's the main thing. Hope you are feeling okay too πŸ’™

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