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July 2019 Part 4 - Still in the 1st Trimester

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Frazzlerock · 27/11/2018 16:54

New thread y'all

This is going to be our good luck thread Grin

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ReginaPhalange89 · 04/12/2018 13:20

Oh I'm so sorry to hear of more losses today :(

All this loss is making me so nervous ! I'm 6+1 today, thought nausea was finally coming this morning but think I was just hungry 🙈 hoping I get some symptoms soon !

Chinks123 · 04/12/2018 13:23

Don’t worry about symptoms too much, those that don’t have them. In my last pregnancy I had 0, none at all I was never sick once. I just had heartburn towards the end, and she was perfectly healthy. Smile

SnailorSwift · 04/12/2018 13:26

So sorry to hear this @smerlin and @HallowsandHorcruxes look after yourselves 💕

@Delilah7 you poor thing. Are you in work today?

Delilah7 · 04/12/2018 13:28

@SnailorSwift I am. The HR lady is saying that just take it day by day this week and it's not affecting much at work etc because funnily enough today and yesterday I haven't been sick, at work. I have at home.

Chinks123 · 04/12/2018 13:28

Very sorry @smerlin and @HallowsandHorcruxes, thinking of you both.

StargazyDrifter · 04/12/2018 13:36

Smerlin and Hallows very sorry. Hope you get your rainbows just as soon as you're ready and, in the meantime, look after yourselves.

On the ectopic, I had this in June and remember very well the hard and scary choices between the options. Chose not to have the tablets (can't TTC 6 months after) and thankfully it resolved naturally. Good luck to you with the treatment.

SnailorSwift · 04/12/2018 13:47

@Delilah7 at least that seems to be a more sensible response than you got yesterday - taking it day by day. But being ill at home
is obviously going to affect how you are feeling overall. Look after yourself 💕

I've just about half an hour ago thrown up in my office bin and in the rush to try to make it as far as the bin thrown coffee over myself 🤦🏼‍♀️ can't wait for this day to be over!

Delilah7 · 04/12/2018 13:48

@SnailorSwift oh the joys of sickness😂😂

TinselBee · 04/12/2018 13:49

So sorry to read of more loss on this thread Sad If those of you who have had losses from this thread wanted to join, we have a July 19'ers thread on Conception board. Some of us will be TTC straight away but some of us are waiting. It's a thread to process what's happening with our loss and grief rather than just TTC. Flowers

As for symptoms, I don't think you can go by them too much. Half off the people who have had a loss on here appear to have had no symptoms but others still have symptoms (like me, still being sick everyone morning and lactating but I've a confined MC)

RooKangaroo · 04/12/2018 14:25

Oh @smerlin and @HallowsandHorcruxes, I'm so so sorry. We've had such rubbish luck on this thread, it feels :(

MrsC87 · 04/12/2018 16:10

So sorry @smerlin & @HallowsandHorcruxes
Sending you lots of love 💕💕

TwinkleDay · 04/12/2018 16:28

@HallowsandHorcruxes and @smerlin and @hayley87 sorry to hear this, take care and enjoy a merry Xmas!

Thinking of you all xxx

HchyScott · 04/12/2018 16:30

So sorry to hear of your losses ladies sending big hugs xx

itsallgreek · 04/12/2018 17:23

Awww ladies more losses. Really we've had so much bad luck... I'm sending you lots of hugs and hope you get your rainbow babies soon.

StargazyDrifter · 04/12/2018 17:24

How did you get on itsallgreek? Was it today or have I lost track a bit?

MrsC87 · 04/12/2018 17:55

So how many weeks is everyone now? Have people had their 12 week scan dates through yet.
I'm 7+4 today and scan is on 07/01/19. x

BirthdayKake · 04/12/2018 18:01

So, so sorry for the losses. Look after yourselves ladies xx

Very sick here. Yuck.

I think I'm about 8 weeks today. Scan is on January 2nd.

Bubble77bee · 04/12/2018 18:10

So sorry to hear of more losses.

I am 6+2 today. Phoned up the EPU, and have decided to go in on Friday morning for a scan. I just need to know whether things are looking ok so far. The nurses and midwives at my EPU are just so kind.

blueeyedviking · 04/12/2018 18:12

So sorry @smerlin & @HallowsandHorcruxes - such sad news. Take care of yourselves.

@mrsc87 I'm 10 weeks today and got my scan on 24th Dec.

Just catching up on today's posts. Helps to hear that others DH's are a bit slow on understanding how exhausting all of this is.

Can't wait to get home and go to bed. Think my dinner will be coco pops & cheese and crackers (obvs not together)...

itsallgreek · 04/12/2018 18:17

Just back from the doctors... Nice strong heartbeat and everything looks great... He also told me that we've got a fast heartbeat which old wives say means it's a girl!!!! Next appointment 21st for a big scan and then they'll tell us 70% for sure the sex....

Glad I could bring some good news to the thread

July 2019 Part 4 - Still in the 1st Trimester
July 2019 Part 4 - Still in the 1st Trimester
SnailorSwift · 04/12/2018 18:35

Oh lovely @itsallgreek 😍 so nice to see!

I'm 8+4 today and don't have my date yet, which is bothering me slightly as community MW referred me as 'urgent' so was expecting to have heard. Maybe will ring if nothing through this week.

RooKangaroo · 04/12/2018 18:38

I'm properly smiling for you, @itsallgreek! It's definitely lovely to hear some good news. So glad it all went well.

Another one here with a January scan date - it feels like it's so faraway! And every day creeps by so slowly.....

RooKangaroo · 04/12/2018 18:39

@blueeyedviking, I don't know how you can stomach chocolate or cheese. You're very brave! Anything beyond bread or crackers (sometimes cornflakes) is quite a stretch for me these days 😆

reeny19 · 04/12/2018 18:55

Oh no more losses Sad

I’m 6+2 today, same as you @bubble77bee !

No scan date, no contact with any health professionals yet. Just doesn’t seem real at the moment. Not sunk in yet I don’t think.

cathyj87 · 04/12/2018 18:57

@mrsc87 I'm 9 weeks today! Have my first nhs appointment on 27th at 12+2, absolutely can't wait to see wee bean again after my early scan last Wed