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FloriaTosca · 05/06/2007 13:44

Thought I'd get the new thread started as no one objected to my title suggestion

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MrsFish · 29/06/2007 14:17

I had one of those pushchair moments too was in Asda luckily with my mum ds was about two weeks old and it was the first time I had ventured out anywhere. Had an awful time as he was crying to be fed (was feeding every 2hrs) and I was bf at the time but hadn't got the hang of doing it without showing everything off IYSWIM, so didn't feel comfortable doing it in the cafe (did try)and there was nowhere else to do it, ended up sitting in the back of the car (not the first or last time I hasten to add). Had also tried to change him and they didn't have any facilities so ended up on the floor of the toilets (not nice) went back to the car as was so stressed out and I couldn't remember how to collapse the buggy, I remember almost screaming in frustration with tears welling up. My mum couldn't do it either so it ended up on the backseat I can laugh now but at the time it put me off going out for weeks after

muppetgirl · 29/06/2007 14:29

She's also said that she doesn't think she'll be able to breastfeed as mother/sister couldn;t, fine so far.
BUT when I said that 'You've got all the bottles qand thought about formula then just in case' she said 'no as my mum can pop out and get them'

We had 6 hrs of ds screaming and ended up phoning nhs direct at 3 in the morning to which they suggested giving him a bottle of expresed milk or formula. We had these in (just in case) and were fine after that.

I just worry she's leaving a lot of quite important things till after the baby's born.

...you all remember how even the slightest tricky situation could reduce you to tears.

MrsFish · 29/06/2007 14:34

Oh dear, she is in for a rude awakening...

muppetgirl · 29/06/2007 14:38

ah, and she is a teacher so is dh and she is due middle of July and he then he has the 6 weeks holiday and then his school have agreed to the 2 weeks parternity leave on top!!!!

How jammy is that?
My dh is self-employed and I will be lucky to get one week (not paid)

MrsFish · 29/06/2007 14:51

I'll be lucky to get a week out of dh too

muppetgirl · 29/06/2007 14:55

Have jsut spilled water down my rather large tummy and now have to go and hunt for a clean top -that fits- as have to pick ds up!!

btw pesky jack russell that chewed through hover cable has now been banished to the kitchen/garden by use of baby gate. Black lab banished too by proxy -is this too harsh?

FloriaTosca · 29/06/2007 14:59

Ok Muppet and Mrs Fish you have got me scared .
I have got the crib (amby), grow bag and bedding and been given the pram (not seen it yet but watched the "how to fold it" demo on the web site), I have ordered reusable nappies (12 shaped and 12 terry squares) and intend getting some disposables in too. I have been weighing up breast pumps, freezer bags and bottles and microwave steriliser for when/if I cant do it myself and I believe my Mum has bought a few sets of newborn and first size sleep suits, vests, etc....we have researched car seats and DH is going to get one once we get past the 30 weeks amnio....And I actually said I wasnt going to buy a single thing until I had this baby live and kicking in my arms!...so please tell me what have I missed that I really must get before LO arrives?

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inzidoodle · 29/06/2007 15:04

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muppetgirl · 29/06/2007 15:05

You've got everything you need!!!

I have 2 pregnant friends who are near me, both having thier firsts.
One is asking advice 'so what do I really need in my hospital bag...? 'etc

The other is 'I know my rights...!'

I was very much the asking opinions type but I do wish i'd tried my pram out before he arrived -I never got the hang of it!!!

Car seat in car vvvv. important. Our car was a lany and the seatbelts were too short on most car seat manufacturers, my friends car seat base was too big and the manufacturer didn;t want to take it back as they said it was used.....

Everything else is just eatin' sleepin' sh**in' (oh god and LOADS of washing'!)

MrsFish · 29/06/2007 15:07

Newborn nappies, formula (even if bf may be handy as back-up) infacol - great if baby is colicky, helps settle their stomachs, give a few drops before every feed Lansinoh (if bf) great for sore nips, also if going bf route and get sore nips, I can't recommend nipple guards (from mothercare) enough

FloriaTosca · 29/06/2007 15:07

AWW Muppet! the poor lab! Get a crate for the JR terrorist...you are not supposed to use crates as punishment, but if he's confined to one with something to amuse him when you cant watch him like a hawk to prevent him chewing the wrong things, it will save your hoover, your temper and your poor lab from being tarred with the same brush My lad loves his and is very protective of it and its a god send when the nephews come round because he loves kids too much and wont stop washing (or is that tenderising) them!...oops, sorry, dog trainer side of me took over....in years to come you will laugh about his antics honest!

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muppetgirl · 29/06/2007 15:08

Inzi -am so sorry about you sil..

Re threads -that one was a bit harsh.....

my mil thinks all this 'what to eat' thing is rubbish. She's austrian and says that's what we eat all the time!

Each to thir own I think.

MrsFish · 29/06/2007 15:09

Inzi - Sorry to hear about your sil, its awful Iknow, my best friend and I were both pregnant at the same time with ds1, she lost hers at 12weeks, I was distraught seeing as I was still pregnant

Mumpbump · 29/06/2007 15:10

Inzi - sorry to hear the news Can't say much else...

FT - make sure you have a couple of cartons of pre-made formula and bottles before the baby arrives. One of my friends suggested this in case you have problems bf and the baby is screaming the house down at 2 am. Fortunately, bf was fine, but was nice to have the comfort of back-up. Other than that, you sound fairly sorted...

Agree with muppet to check that the car seat fits. Dh turned up at the hospital to collect me, then tried to install the car seat in his flashy car and found it didn't fit! Fortunately, my mum was there with her trusty Astra so she gave me a lift home instead!

FloriaTosca · 29/06/2007 15:12

Inzi; I'm so so sorry (((((big hugs)))your poor sil, the poor dog, poor you! Theres nothing can be said but I'm thinking about you all (((hug again)))

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muppetgirl · 29/06/2007 15:13

Floria -my jack russell does have a crate which he loves. Bought primarily as a place he could bolt to when ds got to much, he sleeps in it, travels in it and when we go out (there's no way i can trust him on his own.....) he gets shut in it.

Just feel we're getting no-where with him atm.
He used to wee everywhere and got better at that now it's this chewing. I wouldn't mind the odd sock (I don;t have much choice..!) but I could have switched the hover on with the chewed cable.....

It just has to stop!!!!

MrsFish · 29/06/2007 15:13

there's that new hover appliance again!

muppetgirl · 29/06/2007 15:14

sorry floria that sounded really butch of my.....think fluffy white rabbits with pink ribbons round their necks when reading....)

FloriaTosca · 29/06/2007 15:21

Mump, Mrs F; Thank you ...I've copied them all down...and am very grateful..and we definately will get a car seat that fits both cars...looking at 1 maxicosi cabrio with 2 easyfix bases ... but will actually get fitted before buying....have to think about mums and mils cars too!!!

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MrsFish · 29/06/2007 15:24

We have the maxi cosi one, superb choice

FloriaTosca · 29/06/2007 15:36

Muppet; he's a teenager and a terrier..great combination!he's testing you but he'll grow out of it soon and you already are more than half way there with the crate....I would suggest chilli paste on the cable (its usually chair or table legs)but it'll mark the floor and he might be one of the weird ones who actually likes it! (mils setter was!) Buster cube toys often work well with terriers (toys with little holes for food to come out of if he works at it) but for me the best cure for all my dogs bad habits (I've had 4 Dobes and now a Bouvier)is exhaustion...tons of excersise (5 mins swimming = 30 mins walk) and obedience training to exhaust their over active little brains...I done a lot of agility but that might be a bit much for you at this stage of pg. but flyball is a JRs idea of bliss and you just sit there while he does he work!!! Mine is enjoying searching work at the mo...I throw his toys into long grass and he has to use his nose to find them..that one exhausts them too! he'll be a boring sedate old man before you know it and you'll miss the mischief Good luck!!!

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FloriaTosca · 29/06/2007 15:39

OOps DH due home soon and I've done Nothing all day! Better get off and do some cleaning so it looks like I've done more than mnetting all day!!!. I'll drop in tonight if get the chance..(Dh whinged that he was a computer widower the other night!!!!)have a good evening everyone

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ejt1764 · 29/06/2007 15:58

FT - don't worry too much about other people's cars - otherwise it will drive you absolutely mad!
And when it comes to buying stuff, you are doing very well!

Inzi - am so sorry for your sil - and you - my best friend and I were pg at the same time last year, our due dates were within 2 weeks ... I lost the baby, while she didn't ... I think, on reflection, that it was probably harder for her than me ... as I've said before, she'd gone through a lot to get pg herself, so I didn't begrudge her in the slightest ... in fact, I went to see her when her ds was less than 24 hours old, gave him a cuddle, and cried - and she cried with me.

BB not on the catch up service today booooo!

Have a good weekend all!

muppetgirl · 29/06/2007 16:02

This is from a thread i've been looking at, thought you might all be interested.

THIS IS A COPY OF THE EMAIL I SENT TO UCH THE MICROBIOLOGY CONSULTANT {I have deleted my RL name and the microbiology consultant's name also my DS name and dob and DS consultant's name at UCH}

Hello

Our twins were born in 1995, and twin 1 died but twin 2 survived and was in NNU for 3 months. He is now 10 years old.

We were told when he came home that we did NOT need to sterilize the bottles or dummies.

We were told that the microbiology dept advised that the correct way to clean everything was to wash EVERYTHING in very HOT soapy water and put on kitchen roll to AIR DRY.

I was wondering if this was still the advice that was given to parents when they leave the NNU.

Thank you for your time

This is the reply that I received this afternoon. So this is the advice given as of September 2005.

Thank you for your email. Yes you are right about the bottles. However I cannot emphasize enough the importance of cleaning the bottles so that there is no dried or caked milk at the bottom of the bottle as this will encourage bacterial growth. Clean and dry are the operative words. Bacteria thrive in warm moist environments. In addition the greatest attention needs to be paid to hand hygiene before preparing feeds. A bottle steriliser is not a substitute for proper hand hygiene and may even give a false sense of security. For those lucky enough to have a dishwasher, the hot cycle in the washer after removing milk debris mechanically is good and sufficient cleaning method for bottles, provided they are then stored clean and dry.

This advice obviously applies to this country only as we are confident that there is no faecal contamination of piped/ mains water supply. I cannot comment on the state of the water supply out of the UK.

Consultant Microbiologist
Department of Clinical Microbiology
Health Protection Agency Collaborating Centre
University College London Hospitals

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