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Due in May - W/c 21/05/07 We're not impatient at all, no not us...

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twelveyeargap · 21/05/2007 08:12

Morning.

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twelveyeargap · 25/05/2007 13:28

Made me larf when I heard the alcohol thing on Radio 4 this morning. John Humphries made an arse of it all and kept saying things like, "So you're saying there's no ACTUAL EVIDENCE to show that moderate alcohol intake is harmful? There's nothing to back up this change in policy whatsoever?" Said in so many words that the ban was for binge-drinking cretins. Classic Humphries. I was delighted.

Just back from the hospital. My BP was up when I got there and I reckon it was becuase I was terrified they'd be pushing me about induction. (Am 40+6 today.) They were actually lovely. Bit worried about my swollen feet as it's spreading up my legs, but conceded that it was probably the hot weather making it worse. They took some blood and sent of my urine to check for pre-eclamsia. Am booked for foetal monitoring on Tuesday and Friday next week and they'll organise some sort of placenta test (I think) on Friday, if she still hasn't made an appearance. The registrar initially booked me for induction Friday (at 41+6), but the consultant said it was no problem to change it to the Monday, when I'm 42+2 and even then, if I want to wait or go over the options again, I can and they'll have more info by that point from the monitoring etc. I was really surprised at how willing they were to work with me. I'd king of psyched myself into thinking I'd have to fight with them over it.

Registrar managed a sweep today - AFTER I'd told her DH was away til the morning. She said it was highly unlikely to have any effect before then. T'was bloody uncomfortable - the "I'm just pulling your cervix forward" bit. Was doing my hippo-breathing and she asked if I did yoga. She was surprised I was managing to get through it. Encouraging, in the sense that I feel a bit more confident about "breathing through" discomfort. So, cervix a bit softer and she was able to do a sweep this time, so that's good news. It means something is happening, doesn't it?

Baby's head is at a funny angle she said, and might be why it's not engaging any more. Have been told to walk, but not to let the feet get too much worse either... I suppose bouncing on a birthing ball does the same thing. Does it? Perhaps Mars or Lulu will know.

Last I heard from LG&T this morning was the pains were coming every 5 mins, but that she wasn't holding out any hope for the cervix keeping up! Hoping that the fact I haven't heard since is good news and it's all moving along.

C'mon baby twelveyearandfourdaysgapsofar. Let's have labour starting around 8am tomorrow morning, just as DH is landing!

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madeindevon2 · 25/05/2007 13:42

i notice most of us have swollen feet and ankles....my midwife kind of dismissed it when i told her and said its just part of pregnancy. is there any prob with it? mum says lie down and put feet up. but midwife been telling me not to lie down and lean over birthing ball to get baby in right position.
so what do you do?

madeindevon2 · 25/05/2007 13:45

oh and ive got a bun in the oven
no really. ive made a cake. its in my very dodgy non-fan oven as we speak....prob be a total disaster but hey ho....i tried!
(am a total non domestic godess...incidentally this cake receipe is from an old school book...reckon that was last time i made a cake...aged about 14....a VERY long time ago)

MarsLady · 25/05/2007 14:20

MadeinDevon... lean over the birthing ball. Put your feet on some cushions to elevate them.

12yg.... you need to walk up and down stairs sideways, do exaggerated marching steps, pelvis rocking (a bit of dancing, figure of 8 with hips) etc. This is to open the pelvis and hopefully encourage babe to stop star gazing. Email me if you want other tips. Might have a few more up my sleeve.

twelveyeargap · 25/05/2007 14:44

Thank you Mars, that's really kind of you. Will email now...

Madeindevon - my m/w wasn't worried about the swelling either. I think, becuase I have no other symptoms. They were asking at the hospital today about headaches, becuase I think that's kind of the next symptom of pre-eclamsia to look for.

They're not overly concerned, but both the doctors kind of went, "Oooh, you REALLY ARE swollen aren't you?" and pressed the skin in lots of places to see how long the white mark lasted. They decided they'd do the tests just in case I have pre-eclamsia without other symptoms, iyswim. They can't be that worried though, becuase they said that "we call if there's a problem", but I should check with the m/w for the results next week - in case I was missed!

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madeindevon2 · 25/05/2007 15:21

thanks marslady and tyg for advice.
ill watch out for headaches. did had one few days ago actually but fine now
my right foot is much worse than my left. looks swollen like when you break a bone.
but i feel fine and BP was fine on tuesday when she checked it so im sure there is nothing to worry about.

madeindevon2 · 25/05/2007 15:21

www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2-2007240087,00.html

you seen this!! amazing

madeindevon2 · 25/05/2007 15:22

sry. dunno how you post a link. that obviously didnt work properly

twelveyeargap · 25/05/2007 15:25

Doh, can't get my "t-bar" Birkis back on. FFS!

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scootermum · 25/05/2007 16:31

LILKEL texted to say her baby was born via planned C section this morn...all fine and doing well..So its quite the red letter day on the thread today!

Congrats to Gingerbear as well!

My DH has just managed to invite 4 friends over for a BBQ tonight..Could do without it, plus its about to rain here which means everyone wil end up indoors and a mess will be made which I will have to clean before tomorrows viewings...sigh..

My back is still hurting but no worse than before...its geting a bit dull TBH...

Glad it went well this morn TYG...

If im the last person on here will you all still come and talk to me till the baby is born?!

Creena · 25/05/2007 16:49

Hullo all.

Just popping in to look for new baby news! Fingers crossed for everyone about to/preparing to deliver right now. I have a feeling that we're going to have a flurry of new babies very soon.........

I'd also like to pick the brains of those of you in the know on breast feeding, if I may. This might sound strange but how long on average does it take for breast milk to replenish itself? The reason I'm asking is because Conor is going through a right greedy phase at the moment. All day yesterday he would feed for at least half an hour on one side, emptying it completely; he still wasn't satisfied so I'd put him on the other side and he'd empty that too. He did this at almost all of his feeds. Not only am I finding it knackering and physically draining, I'm worrying whether there's enough milk getting through to both boobs in time for the next feed, which is generally three hours later. I was in tears at 1am this morning, worrying about whether I would be able to keep up with him and whether I'm going to spend the next 6 months feeling utterly knackered and wrecked as part of my new life as a human milk machine......

scootermum · 25/05/2007 17:02

Hi Creena..from what I can recall that sounds like a bit of a growth spurt..your supply will automatically increase to match what he is wanting I think..thats what happened with me.....Just make sure you are eating plenty and drinking loads and you should be fine..

Have just had a sneak into postnatal..

scootermum · 25/05/2007 17:07

Oh and no, you wont feel so knackered forever ..just that right now your body is in overdrive getting used to the new pace..it will even out and catch up soon and you should feel fine..but to be on safe side, get your iron levels checked?Mine were really low for months after DD's birth without me realising and I felt like the living dead!
Also I found it knackering doing ALL the feeding..maybe when Connors spurt is over you could express a bit and get DH to give him the odd expressed feed..(only if you feel comfy with him having a bottle of any kind though-I know some people dont..)Makes for a bit of a break for you though...

elkiedee · 25/05/2007 17:18

Congratulations Lwatkins and everyone else who's given birth, looking forward hopefully to reading your stories. (I was on the April thread as due date 24/4 but my Danny was born on 4 May after an induction so I was beginning to look in here as our antenatal thread emptied). Then Danny and I were in hospital and so I was offline from 11-19 May, with limited online time since.

To those still waiting past their due dates, commiserations and labour vibes to you, as I remember how I felt on 25/4 and up until 30/4, then I was fretting about induction.

madeindevon2 · 25/05/2007 17:38

hi scoot. hope bbq tonight means dh does all the cooking AND clearing up afterwards!?
if i feel tired i just point at my horrendous feet and hubby makes me put them up! someone at his work has worried him about pre-eclampsia i think.....mind you they look terrible. they scared me earlier too! they were tingling too. is that a bad sign? put them up for an hour anyway and i think they look a little better.

madeindevon2 · 25/05/2007 17:45

so its minipop, juliewoolie, scooter, tyg, intheseshoes, jonah, and me all still waiting? anyone im forgetting?

any news from lgandt?

scootermum · 25/05/2007 17:57

you'd think wouldnt you?But I very much doubt it..plus my ankles look ok ish today..probably as Ive been lying down all morning and for the last few hours..cant say same for face though..

Just the magnificent 7 to go then!

DaisysGotABigBump · 25/05/2007 18:03

Just a quick hello again to say congrats on all the babies being born. It's my DS birthday today, so can I say that 25th May is a great day to be born

Do you want to know the sex etc of Lilkel's baby? or wait to hear from her yourself? information on the June thread for those that are interested

madeindevon2 · 25/05/2007 18:19

right im logging off now. will check in periodically over weekend.
sending everyone lots of quick, easy labour vibes!
wonder who will be next!?!?!

scootermum · 25/05/2007 18:22

Have a good one MID..and a baby all being well..drop us a text if your lo comes along..will be thinking of you and sending you labour vibes..hopefully the thread will be defunct by Monday and we will all be raving it up on postnatal!

twelveyeargap · 25/05/2007 18:53

Creena, if you can face expressing, it will build up your supply a bit as well as it is creating extra "demand". Plus, you can ask DH to give a feed or two if you manage to express and store it up.

As Scoot says, this is most likely a growth spurt and your supply will catch up really quickly. I second that you won't feel tired forever either.

LOTS and LOTS of fluids though. You need loads of fluids when producing milk and obviously even more so in the hot weather. Dehydration will make you feel fatigued.

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twelveyeargap · 25/05/2007 18:56

Texted LG&T just now, btw. I guess her phone will be off if she's giving birth. Won't bother her again though, just in case. Will have to be patient! Dammit.

And there's JuicyLucy waitng as well.

minipop, juliewoolie, scooter, tyg, intheseshoes, jonah, madeindevon, juicylucy

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scootermum · 25/05/2007 19:06

The amazing 8!

Friends here now, must go and be social..dont like my chances-am in a total tetch!

InTheseShoes · 25/05/2007 19:27

Still here!

Taken ds to a party tonight and now my ankles are like balloons - hideous. Curry on its way as a half hearted attempt to move things on a bit, but nothing really doing here, just a few bits and bobs of twinges and stuff.

Congratulations to Gingerbear and Lilkel! Looking forward to reading about the other bebes we're waiting for!

JonahB · 25/05/2007 19:54

[Sound of Jonah shoving her fingers in her ears and singing loudly to no-one in particular] la la laaa la la, not listening to any current alcohol/pregnancy advice at all. Friday night is the one night I?m allowed a glass of Guiness. La la laaa la la??..

Congrats to Lilkel and Gingerbear!!!

8 of us left then? Right,you seven. I want you to know now that each and every one of you who has a baby before me WILL reduce me to tears . Be warned. I will also race you all to last place as I?m fairly convinced I?ll still be sat here in June.

Have a good evening ladies?..

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