May Mummies, w/c MAY OMG, it's May, buds and babies will bloom, don't want to be left til June.

[Mrsjaffabiffa]

Morning,

TYG a bit quiet today too-was she last on this morn?-hope she is ok...would text her but have PJs on and its too dark to walk to the top of the hill to get reception..might learn semaphore as would be more effective..(thats the thing with flags right?)

She cant talk properly yet largegandt thank God or I bet she would have .Gave her her toothbrush to suck on to stop her yelling 'Hiya'-her best current 'word' at the top of her voice and revealing me

Scoot thanks, mum did come up for 2 weeks when i had Arlen, we had a lovely time but she had to get back as she has a business and her dog is pretty old and needy, besides i feel a bit funny having her around when things arent great - she would never lecture or poke her nose but i could tell she knew things werent right when she came up, trouble is i grew up in an enviroment of stressed atmosphere and always said to my mum why not just leave we will all be happier and now i feel like i am putting my kids in that enviroment which is horrid - I am in Reading, Berkshire btw

No havent won yet, did very well last year won 2 jackpots £4500 and £1200 could do with that right now!!

Sorry if this is tmi but is anyone else finding pooing hard work atm? I'm not constipated or anything but finding it such an effort getting it out! It's there but it's like my body just can't be arsed to get rid of it.

Well am not so very far away if you need anything or a lift anywhere-only in Herts...I know you might feel a bit funny about asking as we are only 'puter buds, but dont-really-if you need anything at all..

LW have faith it will all come out before the birth!!! So i am told anyway - never got that far with any of mine lol, take a magazine in with you and take your time

lol

I am lwatkins-but thats the copious iron tablets Im on-STILL anaemic BTW-ruddy hell, dunno where all the iron is going..

have just seen those people on the news whose little girl was abducted on holiday..oh I hope she turns up-its just horrific..

Awww thanks scoot - I met my best friend through ebay lol she bought some of my stuff and i said i would deliver if she met me at the stn to collect it, we got chatting and 2 years later we are still nattering for an hour everyday and see each other every other week at least

Lupins, I wish I could offer more help, do you get any time together on your own, to talk to him about how you are feeling?

I have just been watching the news, and am so for that family in Portugal whose little girl has gone missing, i can't imagine how awful it must be for them just now. We have often left our dc asleep in a room while we are in the nearby restaurant, maybe its time to think again.

Has she definatley been abducted I heard she may have woken up and wondered off, I know its an awful thing to happen doent even bear thinking about but what the hell were the parents doing leaving them and going out to dinner WTF!!!

Well it just goes to show...actually I bet I speak to you ladies far more that I speak to some of my RL friends TBH..and in far more technicolour detail at times

turning in now as pretty knackered...speak to you all tomorrow x

The worlds a crappy place. I don't understand anyone's reasoning for kidnapping an innocent 3 year old girl. Family must be distraught, I would be and I haven't even met mine yet.

But we've done it loads of times, now I feel like a bad mummy! We always lock the door of course..

Night Scoot. Next time i speak to you I'll be HOME! Must finish packing.....

Cam your not a bad mummy! It's the sick, twisted folk abducting young kids that's the problem here, not you my sweet

No Cam we dont spend any time together - its not that we cant but he is always on the pc, dd asked him to sit with us in the garden for dinner the other day - he said yes then when he asked how long dinner would be (we always eat at 6) he said he wouldnt be able to as he was busy with the guys online, dd just hung her head I really felt for her, as it was i joined her and we came in after 5 minutes as it was bloody cold!!

Right am logging of too. Have my entire room to pack up and no boxes. Just gonna have to be creative with this methinks lol! Catch up later lovelies

Lupins next time he's on the computer just, I don't know - slam a mallet down on it. See how well he can chat to his buddies then. Right must go pack x

Sometimes I am deffo a bad mummy, like when I say no to reading a story, when I am catching up with you guys

Is there anyone who can sit with the kids Lupins, after they are in bed, even for 2 hours so that you and he can go to the pub for a couple of hours, don't ask him, just tell him thats what you are going to do, together and don't give him an option - god I'm starting to sound like LW!

Night Night LW good luck with the packing xx

right, battery about to go, speak to you all in the morning, could we have some babies tomorrow please?

Cam lol at sounding like LW think we should all have some of her spirit, no we havent really got anyone who would babysit, friends are all to far away or have kids of thierown (and are still to far away) and all family are miles away, apart from the fact that he doesnt like to go out!! we have been invited to a wedding in June, I really would love the chance to get dressed up and see some old friends but he says he doent want to go, because the person whose wedding it is hasnt really made an effort to visit since we had dd,

Anyway enough moaning for 1 night I am off to bed to dream about being single and having loving and much fun affair with Howard from Take That who will spoil me rotten and be the man of my dreams

You are all so lovely and am lucky to have you as my friends, thankyou yet again for your support and kind words - I may have never met any of you (except AM) but feel you are all special to me

Night night, sweet dreams and dont let the bed bugs bite xx

Wait it's still early here. . . .

Lwat I wish I had your problem. I need to "poo" at least 4 times a day and when I get the urge people need to stand out of my way because there is no waiting.

Morning....

Oh Lupins. I'm so sorry you are having a tough time with dh again. Not what you need right now. Reading all your posts this moring made me feel sad and I wanted to jump into the laptop and snatch you up for a big hug. Keep talking about it, to us or your Mum or whoever but try not to bottle it in. We are very good listeners. Or nosy. lol one of the two. I hope you have a better day today hun.

LW, I've probably missed you, but have a very good journey HOME, yey, yey, "she's going home, she's going home, she's going, LW going home" Don't forget to get set up at home as soon as possible otherwise we'll miss you.

lg&t, Are you still using N's phone for your sim card, only I text you the other day? It was nothing important so don't worry about it, it was only a HELLO, but I just wondered if it was working or not? Enjoy your pampering today, how lovely, I'm forcing myself to straighten my hair each time I wash it, "just incase". We missed you yesterday, but AM and I decided on msn that it wasn't baby lg&t as we reckoned you'd have texted someone. Stalky, detectives see!!!

Right must go and put some clothes away, I have a huge pile of them and am on my own. Harrison has gone out shopping with Nannie and Nandad and Maddie has gone with Daddy to price a job (she'll hide in the car). Bliss house to my self, must make the most of it.