@CuppaSarah - so sorry to hear about your bleeding. Take care of yourself.
We’d planned not to tell anyone before the scan, but ended up telling MIL yesterday as we’re going to a charity ball with her next weekend and it seemed easier than trying to hide not drinking etc. I wasn’t entirely happy with sharing this early, but it might also be easier if I have to rearrange working days due to appointments (my MIL looks after DD on those days).
I’m gutted because I’ve just seen an ad for my perfect job (sounds like it might even have been one where I could WFH), but there’s no way I can give up the mat pay in my current job 😢