sorry sputnik, had to post and run!! They are both english and retired over there, in a tiny village in tuscany, it's very beautiful,not sure there's a cultural gap as such but she's very unlike my family- very dissaproving and a snob anyway,feel bad slagging her now! , anyway, legs crossed you!! I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you too x
Seansgirl, you're clearly a supermum!! Your df sounds like my grandfather by the way, feel for you , sounds tough. great party though!
got to run again... Peace xx