You guys go so fast..sometimes I wish I was at work, I'm sure sometimes it would be more restful so far this morning I have done two lots of washing, hung them out, tidied up (big job) taken two children and bump to Sainsburys where canny 5 yr old dd has convinced me to buy all sorts of rubbish that I wouldn't normally go near, stopped at the petrol station for a requested treat from dc for a car wash (easily pleased my kids), put shopping away, made lunch and now 5 mins to try to catch up with you all!
We tried dummies on the odd occasion with both dc and they just spat them out! So I gave up.. Also because I am so lazy I just whipped a boob out at most whimpers which did the job. The sore nipples thing doesn't last too long, the leaking norks thing does..
Thanks TYG for your comments on Jasper, I think I may reconsider, though I find making any kind of decision at the moment about anything is nigh on impossible.