Hi all
Thanks for all your lovely support,
Anyway he's home, feeling very humble and full of apologies, I burst into tears saying how much he had hurt me, and we had a good chat, he is just feeling totally under pressure to be "the man of the house" never saw himself as family guy with 2 kids, hates his job, has no money and its getting him down,
So after getting it off his chest he apolgised some more, said it was just a shock that the baby was a boy and asked if I had thought of any names - he didnt like what i had in mind and he suggested Oliver - so looks like it might be baby Oliver as I quite like the Olli and Willow - sounds like trouble lol!! And he said baby Olli was going to be a motorbike racer - when I frowned he said it was alot safer than dd's horse riding so I cant really say anything
I did remind him that he has had a really bad run of work, I havent been able to work - but when I work pt, and he gets a good run of work things will seem better and he agreed
Personally I think he has seasonally adjustive disorder - he is always a miserable git much much worse in the winter and it does seem to be getting worse each year - I got him some stuff from health shop other day, guy said they take about a week to kick in so hopefully life will seem rosier soon for him
So life doesnt seem as bleak as earlier - although I am still feeling pretty bruised inside - batteries are charging to start the huuuuuugggggeeee clearout of girls clothes
Will try and catch up on thread later, hope ev1 is ok