ok, got a non-pregnancy dilemma, and I'd really appreciate some impartial advice.
About 4 years ago, me and my best friend stopped talking. There was no real argument, just kept missing each other when we called. Its like the friendship fizzled out. I was her bridesmaid at her wedding, and we were very close.
A year before this happened, me and dh (he was dp then) went through a very rocky patch. No-one else was involved, but he moved out for a week. We decided to work through it (so glad we did!) but I'm quite a private person, but she (and a few others) wanted to know the details, and couldn't understand why we got back together. More to the point, I didn't think she understood why I didn't want to tell her everything.
We live in the same village, and lots of things have happened , I've got married, had ds, she's now got 2 children etc.
Considering how small the village is, we've never bumped into each other - until yesterday. I didn't actually realise it was her until I'd walked pass (was trying to keep control of ds)
It really got me thinking about how well we got on. But do I try and make contact - and how? Or should I just let it be?