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Thread #10 - TTC#1 Grads Thread - Babies Ahoy

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PotatosMum · 10/08/2016 07:27

Welcome to TTC#1 Grads, thread #10.

Congratulations to Bunch our first graduate, graduate!!!!

All are welcome to the thread whether you've just got your BFP or your about to pop!

No TMI is TMI and no question too silly to be asked. But be warned, this thread is addictive and moves FAST!

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leoniethelioness · 20/08/2016 17:48

Bunch That afternoon tea looks AMAZING. So sorry to hear about your stitches - hope you are OK!

My sister lost 1.5 litres so she was due to have the injections. Not sure if she still needs to have them after the blood transfusion yesterday. I think she'll be on iron tablets too as they have said she is anaemic as well.

shelbTa · 20/08/2016 18:21

Aww bunch that's proper shit about the stitches - hope you don't end up back in hospital. Those pictures are ace!

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BunchOfBobs · 20/08/2016 18:30

Thanks everyone,
Well new antibiotics it is and another visit tomorrow to check I don't need to go to hospital. Good news is it is healing in parts but I definitely do have an infection.
The next load of antibiotics apparently will pass through my milk and cause Atticus stomach upset so I'm looking forward to that... Not. Poor little man.

AudreyBradshaw · 20/08/2016 18:30

Loving pictures of babies, actual, real, wonderful babies! I'm amazed! Guys, you made PEOPLE! I'm so proud of you all!

Think my Mam was having a bit of a moment earlier, love her.

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leoniethelioness · 20/08/2016 18:36

Awww, your Mam! What a star, Audrey. I definitely have stretch marks now. More lines than an AA road map by the end of this pregnancy...

Bunch Can you pump before you take the antibiotics or is that not how it works?

Feefeefs · 20/08/2016 18:49

Hope your stitches feel better soon bunch you look great!

Having a fab weekend pink! Thanks. In London for the weekend to visit my brother and some friends, my parents are over too (first time they've seen me pregnant as they live abroad) so nice to see everyone and catch up! Walking now too much I think and sore but worth it for now! Hope things get moving for you soon!

Glad you're home safe and sound potato!

BunchOfBobs · 20/08/2016 19:43

Leonie I don't think so. I asked if there was anything I could do to help alleviate any discomfort he'll have and was told just to keep feeding him.

How sweet Stardrey.

I'm feeling really down now, doesn't help DH has had to go on a 1.5hour mission to collect my new drugs, living in the back of beyond really does suck sometimes.
I just want one midwife check where my stitches have improved rather than got worse or as yesterday, stayed the same. It's so annoying. Thankfully I'm feeling better every day apart from peeing, I'm now having to pee in the shower Hmm

Anyhoo I'd go through it all again at the drop of a hat, as my little man is so worth it. I'm just having the odd woe is me moment.

IrregularCommentary · 20/08/2016 20:14

Hope it improves soon Bunch. I think you're allowed to feel a bit woe is me at times. There's no part of me that doesn't want this little baby girl I've got growing inside me, but I can still wish I could bend over properly and that I didn't get fanny pain every time I try anything even remotely exerting!

Mileymoocow · 20/08/2016 21:52

bunch your coat is awesome Grin he looks so bloody adorable and I'm so glad your first outing went well. Hopefully these antibiotics will sort you right out and though they may give Atticus an upset tummy just remember they wouldn't let you have them if they were going to make him poorly Smile fx your damage is on the mend. Also you definitely do not look like death warmed up - I hope I look as good as you when I'm a new mummy!

potato I'm really happy you're home! All the panic about getting into your new home in time for Arya's arrival seems like such a long time ago now! Everything has fallen perfectly into place. Enjoy your first night and am looking forward to hearing how it goes

PotatosMum · 21/08/2016 00:42

Shelb I bet your contractions will kick off again in short order. Try to relax as it will help.

Pink I'm sure those BH will turn to real contractions soon.

Bunch I didn't have a bleed in the end which is brilliant! I only lost 300ml of blood And they didn't give me the injections in the end, I am on iron tablets though.
Good to know tares rarely end up infected so it's probably still lack of sleep and hormones realigning.

Glad your day out went well, those pictures are ace! But sorry your stitches have become more infected. No wonder you're feeling a bit sorry for yourself Sad I hope Atticus deals with the antibiotics well and you feel a bit more positive soon.

Lara glad the birth stories helped. I know I'd rather know exactly what to expect in advance.

Miley OH pointed out yesterday what a good thing it was that we paid the previous owners to stick to the original time scale as if we hadn't we would have been due to move while I was in labour! That would not have been goodHmm

Arya was good as gold this evening and went down well at 9pm when we went to bed... She then decided to play "guess why I'm crying" at 11 and I discovered that there is nothing more irritating than someone snoring away while you're repeatedly trying things, turned out she was hungry so she's now fed and sleeping again a little restlessly. I'm hoping she drops into one of her deep sleeps soon so I can get a bit more shut eye!

I'm learning that the first few days of being a mum are all about being incredibly over sensitive about every sound and movement your baby makes but then again I guess that's how you learn. For example I now know that Arya dreams for the first 30 or so minutes after I put her down and will make chirps, Whimpers and crying sounds in her sleep... She'll then fall into a deep sleep and be dead to the world.

In related news I had to deal with a over wrought mother today. She's got really stressed and upset that I hadn't phoned her. I had to spend a good half hour calming her down and explaining that I'd only just got home. She was convinced that I was pushing her out and ignoring her and that I or OH should have been calling her all through labour with updates Hmm
Not what I needed, I guess it shows that somewhere in there she still cares but in her head she'd twisted everything I'd said to her to compliment her woe is me story. She's also decided that my OH is purposely leaving her out and is getting hostile towards him.
I had asked my sister to handle my mother for a few days but she can't do it like I can. I know all my mums tricks and how she manipulates. She doesn't get away with using tears, threats or manipulation on me but others are too soft with her and just like a child she uses that to get her way.

Right, Arya is pretty settled now so time to try to sleep myself Smile

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shelbTa · 21/08/2016 04:08

Morning

Potato you sound like you are doing amazingly well!! And yeah good point about the move, can you imagine!

Hang in there bunch with the different antibiotics - they will crack it.

Feeling a bit 4am sorry for myself - this insomnia is becoming really hard and I don't know how to crack it. Also if I get up now, the mild BH and Fanny daggers will get much worse - can't win!

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PotatosMum · 21/08/2016 07:01

Aww shelb how are things going now?

Morning everyone Smile

So Arya has decided that her mummy and daddy don't need sleep Shock I disagree so we're working on our difference of opinion.

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leoniethelioness · 21/08/2016 07:31

Awww, Shelb! Thinking of you.

Can someone explain what BH feel like? My belly was really uncomfortable last night but not sure if it's just the position of the baby.

Potato How is the feeding going?

shelbTa · 21/08/2016 07:40

Thanks guys.

Leonie - feels like the top of your bump tightening and going really hard.

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Newmrs22 · 21/08/2016 07:48

Congratulations Potato Arya is absolutely beautiful! Jealous of the 4 hour labour Grin

Well done for getting out Bunch especially with your infection. I went for a tiny round the block walk yesterday and discovered that my pelvis feels a bit like it's been pulled apart and put back together wrong and my coccyx feels a bit bruised. Overall not feeling too bad though. The constant feeding is getting a bit much. The nips are a bit sore. I'm going to see a breast feeding councillor tomorrow to get some tips on improving latch.

I had decided to keep pretty anonymous on here, but as everyone else is sharing. Baby is called Jacob and here is a (not great) little pic, the only one I have on my iPad

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leoniethelioness · 21/08/2016 07:53

Good morning, Jacob! What a beautiful baby boy. Feeling your coccyx pain - owwww. I hope the breastfeeding advice helps! In the meantime, some good nipple cream?!

Shelb - Thanks! My bump was just hard all over. 😏😣

Newmrs22 · 21/08/2016 07:54

Ooh and whoever asked (I skim read the last few pages!) I refused antibiotics initially because they'd admit me and I wanted some more time to labour at home rather than in a ward with other ladies. Plus when I asked the actual risk the consultant actually confessed it went from 0.5% to 1% and I decided I was comfortable with that risk. I also get really bad thrush when I have antibiotics, so wanted to avoid that.

BunchOfBobs · 21/08/2016 08:28

Oh hello Jacob, he's gorgeous New!

LisaTheSimpson · 21/08/2016 08:30

Aww, New, Jacob is beautiful! Love the name. And so much hair - he's adorable!

It was me who asked about the antibiotics - thanks for letting us know. I hadn't thought about the being admitted thing, which is a good point. You sound like you were so in control!

Bunch - hope the stitches are better today, you poor thing. Can't believe how likely episiotomies are to get infected, it's crazy. Sending you hugs.

ElleSarcasmo · 21/08/2016 08:31

Pink Arya is just beautiful! The babygro is gorgeous too. Hope you are starting to feel less wobbly now. The little newborn snuffles are so adorable Smile. That sounds really hard with your mum. Maybe it wouldn't be a bad thing if your sister got more involved now?

Bunch love the afternoon tea pictures. Stupid question, does the babywearing coat have a built in sling or do you still have to wear a sling under it? Sorry about your stitches. Hope Atticus copes ok with the antibiotics.

New Jacob is gorgeous! How did you find the breastfeeding counsellor, was it through the hospital?

Shelb hope you managed to get back to sleep or that you can nap later, insomnia is a bitch!

ElleSarcasmo · 21/08/2016 08:33

Forgot to say, that's very cute of your mum Audrey! She is obviously excited. Mine has started on a blanket which is sweet.

BunchOfBobs · 21/08/2016 08:42

Elle in wearing a sling underneath it, it's just an extra panel in the coat with a teeny persons hood in it. Grin

The gooeyness is much worse this morning but I think that's a good thing as it's the infection leaving.

Atticus had a disturbed night. Not crying but lots of straining and grunting all night which DH can't seem to ignore- I can. That resulted in about 5 nappies worth of poo this morning whilst DH was changing him. He must feel so much better now! He's so good though, not to jinx things but he's a grunter, snuffled rather than crier.

Hope you get a better nights sleep tonight Potato.

Canters15 · 21/08/2016 08:45

Lovely pics bunch! Sorry about your poor fanjo.

Yay for being home potato! And baby Jacob is gorgeous new!

I'm feeling a bit better thanks pink, rest seems to have helped, though getting some delightful sciatica when I walk now. Feeling really nervous about going to work tomorrow- will i cope and will they all think I'm insane after Fridays breakdown? Must rememeber that in 6 weeks I'll never see any of them again.....

PotatosMum · 21/08/2016 08:48

Leonie I think people feel BH differently. Form me it was a tightening in the tummy that made me feel a little as if I'd just gone really fast over a hump backed bridge. Your tummy will feel quite hard when you have one.

Feeding is going well. Arya's averaging about 30 to 45ml per feed. I have been using the disposable bottles at the hospital and for the first day at home. We're going to set up her normal bottles and bottle maker today so hopefully that will make her an even better feeder.

New I love the name Jacob. It would have been on my boy short list! He's lovely, look at all that hair!!!

I know how you feel regarding undercarriage. For me it's my bottom that's the problem. It feels very sore and bruised... Warning ladies, once you've had the baby Drs stop being obsessed with your wee and start being obsessed with sticking their fingers up your bottom to check it's not broken ShockConfusedBlush

Elle sadly my sister lives in Canada so there's only so much she can do, also I've been a career for my mum who has bipolar and dementia since I was 13 so I've built up a lot of experience managing her that my sister just doesn't have. Mum lives in a care home now so I'm not dealing on my own. I think she was just scared that she wouldn't be allowed to be part of Arya's life.

So, Arya managed to fall asleep at about 4:30 this morning. I think part of the problem was that we've got a motion sensor in her Moses basket and it was making her mattress lumpy. I've fixed that with some blankets now so hopefully she'll be happier tomorrow.
She has taken to spitting up first thing in the morning meaning crack of dawn clothes and nappy change she is not a fan of this and she's learnt that for maximum inconvenience you should always choose the moment between having your dirty nappy removed and your clean one applied to have a gigantic wee Hmm
Should see the community midwife today.

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PotatosMum · 21/08/2016 09:14

Thanks Bunch, I'm going to try and sleep a bit during the day. Also popping out for a potter later after the midwife has been Smile

Sorry the infection's looking no better. You're really going through it Sad

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