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babies and bumps mixed thread -May babies are coming!

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cantbelieveImquittingcoffee · 11/05/2016 18:44

Here's the new thread, for bumps and babies before we all graduate together!

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ODog · 24/05/2016 13:35

I don't think they know. They won't get results from some tests until Thursday morning which sucks as we are stuck here until then.

She seems fine now so its very frustrating especially as I have DS at home but better to be safe than sorry.

ParsnipSoup · 24/05/2016 14:32

Congratulations grouchy! Looking forward to hearing your birth story.

Sending big unmumsnetty hugs to you ODog! I hope your little ones blood cultures etc come back negative and you can get home on Thursday.

I'm another one due today. Went for a posh lunch and had painful tightenings which have since vanished. Not holding out much hope, but have a pedicure booked for tomorrow morning to look forward to.

Icecappedpinetrees · 24/05/2016 15:03

Who is watching your son? are you far from the hospital? Best of luck over next few days, how daunting. Keep us updated.

GunShotResidue · 24/05/2016 19:27

I hope your enjoy your pedicure Parsnip, I've heard lots of people say that booking an appointment brings on labour!

ODog hope the time passes quickly until you can get home.

Had some tightenings and little niggles, but not getting too hopeful.
TMI had some discharge earlier that was very thick, but not discoloured. I seem to remember with DD it was obvious when I lost the plug, so thinking it's probably just discharge and wishful thinking!

frozensmoothie · 24/05/2016 19:52

Congratulations grouchy

Sorry to hear about your dd odog I hope the tests come back clear. My dd was on iv antibiotics and had had a cannula too, it looks so brutal in their little arms.

I think I am getting too obsessed with position and attachment and need to go with the flow more. I'm convinced she's not got enough boob in mouth, chin in the wrong place etc... Midwife coming tomorrow for next weigh in so we'll see how it goes.

My mum came to visit today which was nice. Her and DH took baby for her first walksaround the block in her pram while I slept. She's been incredibly sleepy today, only waking for short feeds and nappy changes. Not sure if it's the jaundice affecting her or if she's just having one of those days.

I'm feeling really anxious and teary at the moment. She's feeding too much, not feeding enough, sleeping too much, not sleeping enough etc... I hope it gets better from here!

Icecappedpinetrees · 24/05/2016 20:22

Aww Frozen, welcome to the world of motherhood anxiety. It's a stinker. The only thing worse is motherhood guilt. They go hand in hand. It's only natural, they're so precious. Good luck with weigh in, hopefully she'll have gained and you can start to trust your instincts. Honestly, forget position and latch and where arms and chin and nose are. If you can feel her sucking and she comes off happy then you're golden. I used to worry about swallow pattern too, is DS gulping? Can I see him swallowing and fluttering? It's not a technical challenge, it's sucking milk Smile

Watch out for that anxiety, don't let it run away with you. Newborns sleep loads or not at all, they guzzle, graze, nibble. They have off days and on days, they are delightful then grumpy. It's so difficult but with this newborn (opposite to last newborn) I'm just letting him do what he does. Wake or sleep, feed when he grumps, cuddle loads.

Pikz · 24/05/2016 20:45

Grouchy congratulations Flowers

Frozen I echo so many others, I know my latch isn't perfect but it's working for me and him so all good. Mental health is more important than a perfect latch. Watch that anxiety

Cheering all those still to go on....not long!

Icecappedpinetrees · 25/05/2016 07:36

Oh my goodness, third night in a row of grunty, gurgly, growling baby - all night. He's waking every hour and a half and he's just so so loud He sounds like a wee animal, no, a large animal grumbling and grunting, he sounds like he's half drowning or in pain. He sleeps silently during the day or lying on your chest. We've elevated his bed though he's not inclined to lie in it (a little bit of sleep deprivation humour...) it sounds like trapped wind but burping is so hard. I seem to spend hours patting and rubbing him but he drinks that much milk too. Any other noisy babies out there? Any other tips? earplugs

GunShotResidue · 25/05/2016 13:54

That sounds difficult Ice! I know white noise is often recommended for newborns, but maybe it would help you to drown out the noise too!

Had a lot of backache last night but it turned into nothing. My sister is coming later today to stay for a few days, hopefully I'll go into labour whilst she is here. Sweep tomorrow morning, not sure what to expect!

GrouchyKiwi · 25/05/2016 14:50

How are you getting on, ODog? Hope you don't have long to wait for test results. Flowers

Hope all those still waiting are feeling well. Fingers crossed for arrivals soon!

So this is how my home birth went:

Had some show on Sunday but very little in the way of contractions. Loads more show on Monday morning and it all started to feel like things would be happening soon. MW decided not to do a sweep because she was sure that the baby would arrive in the next 24 hours.

Very irregular contractions on Monday night, then I woke at about 2am with contractions 10 minutes apart that rapidly became 5 minutes apart. Called the labour ward to contact the home birth team and it took them about half an hour to locate them, and then half an hour for the two midwives to arrive. I was quite worried they wouldn't get here on time!

MWs arrived at about 3:30am, I was 6cm dilated when they checked. Contractions were almost continuous at this point, though I did get a couple of breaks this time, unlike with DD2. My Mum says at one point I said "I need a nap" and just fell back on the bed, which she found very amusing.

Basically, at 4:30am or so I felt the urge to push and could feel DD beginning to crown, told the MWs, got into my birthing position and my waters went straight away. Took about 3 pushes to get her head & shoulders out then she literally fell onto the bed. No stitches this time: 3rd time lucky!

She cried till they passed her through to me, then she just snuggled up on my chest and lay there happily for an hour or so before we put her on the breast to feed. It's quite a nice change to have a calm, quiet baby!

I loved the home birth. It was very relaxed, everything I needed was there, and it was lovely for the girls to wake up in the morning to meet their sister. DD2 came through at 5:30am while I was in the shower and was so pleased to see the baby. DD1 was very funny about her, delighted that she's softer than a cat. I'd definitely recommend a home birth for those who would consider it for a later pregnancy.

TristanlovesIsolde · 25/05/2016 14:56

That sounds like a positive experience groucy.

Contractions started and becoming more regular now about 10-12 minutes apart. Only 10 mins from hospital though so staying put for now.

GunShotResidue · 25/05/2016 15:02

That sounds like a great experience Grouchy :)

Good luck Tristan!

GrouchyKiwi · 25/05/2016 15:04

All the best, Tristan!

ParsnipSoup · 25/05/2016 16:16

Your home birth sounds really lovely Grouchy. Lucky they managed to get hold of the midwives!

Good luck Tristan!

Had my pedicure today so have lovely sparkly toes, but still no signs of labour. In a rubbish mood because some thoughtless moron has scraped the back of my car and not left any details. Grrrr!

notsoold · 25/05/2016 19:23

Tristan good luck!!!!
grouchy wow .... I always had long painful labours so it is lovely to read abou5 yours!
gun good luck tomorrow....

Icecappedpinetrees · 25/05/2016 20:57

Aaaw just saw about Tristan...good luck Smile

Grouchy, that's amazing! Well done you! So nice to hear stories like that.

Everythinggettingbigger · 25/05/2016 21:57

Fab Grouchy such a positive experience!

Good Luck Tristan!! I'm not jealous that's it not me Grin no really though good luck and you will have your baby soon how exciting!!

ODog how is the baby today are you still in hospital?

Ice white noise sounds like a good idea! DS1 was a very noisy baby I wish I would have thought about white noise!

Well been very crampy all day and had a few irregular pains, all seems to have stopped but turned into back ache now.....still not holding my breath though think I've got a while yet!

MIL been to a medium tonight (I'm not a big believer but what's been said is quite nice).....firstly the medium said there's a few more days to wait for a new arrival, the 28th/29th came to mind. He's going to have dark hair (we are all blonde!) And he's going to have something about his eyes that are going to make people say wow! Oh well only time will tell if she's right or not!

frozensmoothie · 25/05/2016 22:26

Lovely birth story grouchy

Good luck tristan

Hope everyone else doesn't have too long to wait. Will be interesting to see whether the medium was right everything

We've had had a better day today. Maternity Support worker came this morning and helped me with the latch. I've got a technique to get a deeper latch now so hopefully she will feed more effectively and be more satisfied and full up. Hopefully my boobs will be less sore too!

We took her on her first walk in the pram down the road to the doctors surgery and also gave her her first bath which she seemed to enjoy until we took her out into the cold air!!

GunShotResidue · 26/05/2016 15:40

Hope things are going OK Tristan

Glad yesterday was better frozen, I hope feeding keeps getting easier.

Did your cramps turn into anything everything?

I don't think the midwife managed a proper sweep today, but she did say it could start something. Have another on Sunday. Had to park quite far from the hospital and then walked round town with my sister and DD for a while, hoping that will start something!

ParsnipSoup · 26/05/2016 16:37

I went to Ikea to try to get things moving. No success in starting labour but I enjoyed my meatballs and bought some vases. Went to midwife today, baby is engaged but they don't do sweeps until over 41 weeks, so I'm booked in for Wednesday.

Hoping everyone else who is still waiting is luckier than I am!

ODog · 26/05/2016 19:27

Lovely birth story grouchy. and good luck tristan if baby hasn't arrived yet.

DD is all good. All blood cultures came back clear by yesterday afternoon so we were allowed to come home. Had midwife and HV today so been discharged from midwives and despite being poorly DD gained another 6oz so is 11oz over birth weight at 10 days! So proud of my boobs!

She has been super Velcro baby today though. Only slept in the sling thank god for slings and been at the boob constantly and just a bit fussy.

I'm also stressing about hand washing because I have a cold sore and I know that it can be so dangerous for newborns. Dr at the hospital said it's very rare for newborns to catch herpes from a cold sore unless you are smothering them in kisses but I don't want to take any risks.

Icecappedpinetrees · 26/05/2016 20:28

Great news ODog - pleased that she has the all clear. Bet you're glad to be back home with your toots. And a big well done to your boobs (if that isn't overstepping...) it's a funny feeling, being proud of your body. I think because there are no measurements of volume, no idea how often to feed etc, it's so reassuring to see that you're actually doing well.

Notrobusta · 26/05/2016 20:45

Baby boy arrived on Monday on his due date surprisingly. All a bit traumatic in the end. Very jealous of those quick labourers. After 24 hours of labour and over 2hours of pushing it was obvious he wasn't going to come out without help so had to go to theatre for emergency forceps delivery. I then has a pph and despite being home now I must admit I feel very drained and emotional about how it all went. Baby was also not breathing when he arrived and needed help. All in all a pretty awful day.

Everythinggettingbigger · 26/05/2016 21:03

Has the sweep done anything Gun? Pains fizzled our to nothing again!! Started having regular pains every 8 mins lasting 2 mins for over an hour earlier on then they started getting a bit erratic duration and times then just stopped! Got back ache again now but I'm not holding out any hopes it's probably just another night of thinking is this it!!

A nice day out with a few purchases if nothing else parsnip......the day isn't over yet though!

Everythinggettingbigger · 26/05/2016 21:06

Glad your DD is home and doing well ODog

Congratulations Notro but my God that does sound traumatic! Hope you get some rest and feel better soon.

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