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allthegoodnamesalreadytaken · 04/03/2016 06:47

Hi all started a new thread as the old one was getting almost to 1000. We're a very chatty bunch! Happy Friday St Davids

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primarynoodle · 06/04/2016 19:52

Ah yes baby clothes bundles...

Ive had a few gumtree/ebay bargains already but there is a shocking lack of neutral newborn/0-3 baby clothes so think will have to order some when we find out after baby is born.

cookies how utterly rediculous :( try not to let it get to you! I worked really hard to get from just over obese bmi down to healthy and now im overweight again so i know how disheartening it is but its not like its biscuit and cake!

beautician my baby is due a week after dp and a week after my nannas 80th too so either way his birthday will be overshadowed. (Secretly hoping i go at 38 weeks so that baby can be in the 80th celebration photos!)

allthegoodnamesalreadytaken · 06/04/2016 20:51

tams I second what you've said about the pebble plus. That's what we've opted for as we're planning to have more children so it will still be OK to use once the new regulations come in

I'm in awe of all the lovely knitting and craft skills on display. Almost convinces me to take up knitting then I remember I am absolutely crap at anything creative

We did the free 30 minute first aid course by the British Red Cross at the baby show and it was really informative. I've got a code somewhere that they gave us for a discount on the full course. I'm out at the moment but will have a look for it when I get in and post it on here for anyone wanting to book.

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BelOfTheBall79 · 06/04/2016 22:30

Re car seats I would agree with those saying only get 2nd hand if you are 100% sure it's not been in an accident. We are probably getting the pebble plus as well due to isize and also it fitting on lots of the pram systems for ease.

Cookiesandcoffee · 06/04/2016 22:44

Thanks ladies. I shouldn't be so affected as I've been doing so much exercise and my nutritional knowledge is probably better than hers but it still hurts to have someone tell you you're 'obese'. I'm shocked more than anything they would measure BMI on a pregnant lady.

Jealous of all these sleepyheads. I too mini think they're so expensive and we won't be getting one sadly. If a friend had one I would happily borrow/get second hand, but I've been wedging blankets down the sides of Moses baskets for mine and seemed to do the trick Hmm

mini fingers crossed there will be no GD and still chocolate treats Wink
You guys are all so good for researching all the best safety car seats!

Agree with sophia I've heard great things about Aldi nappies. I never tried them last time as we were recommended Lidl nappies so bought a load but sadly brought DD out in a rash.. So I went back to being a Pampers snob. (Always bought in bulk/Amazon mind you) but will definitely try Aldi this time

beautican the vest is a good idea! I love a personalised gift and second notonthehighstreet or maybe etsy? Also incase you do go into labour and won't manage a meal out? But I would book a sitter/table as well, as someone else said if you are still pregnant it will be something to look forward to and secondly something you won't get to do for a while.

Also, I recommend booking a beauty appointment or arranging something nice for the day of your due date. The pampering will feel nice and takes the edge off the disappointment that you don't go into labour. Although I did this last time, had a hair appointment on due date. Then went home after and went are straight into labour ! Gave birth an hour or so later Shock

Lucia82 · 06/04/2016 23:49

Dats the baby nest is basically made with wadding that you might use for a quilt. Three layers for the base, then a sausage shape for the pillow edge. You could choose to use polyester or more expensive cotton depending. I did a mixture of both. It all washes and dries easily.

And yes, I love ravelry and spend too much time on Pinterest. Instead of actually doing something!

DH has asked if it might be possible to make a DH sized baby nest....

Ellizardo · 07/04/2016 08:58

Doing my GTT right now..eeek! Fingers crossed. Say it'll be a week before I get the results, bah.

YouAndMeAreGoingToFallOut · 07/04/2016 09:17

A week! How annoying! I've been told I'll hear today although I'm not sure I believe that!

Bluebell20 · 07/04/2016 09:35

Sophia does the Joie stages seat come in and out of the car easily (e.g. a base it can unclip from), or is it one that you really have to leave permanently fixed in, and lift the baby in and out of? That's the thing that's making me dither over the Graco milestone at the moment...

Cookies so sorry they were rude to you - it seems RIDICULOUS that they would measure a pregnant woman's BMI - you have a person inside you, for goodness' sake! Fingers crossed about the GTT. I've been thinking about you all and your GTTs so much that I actually dreamed I was having one done last night!

allthegood would love the discount code if you can find it, thank you!

I've just found that our county (Somerset) runs a nappy library where they loan you kits of washable nappies to try out, which is great as I wouldn't want to invest in an expensive kit and then find that baby/we don't get on with them. (DH can't believe that I'm okay with using other people's nappies but not old mattresses - for a scientist, you would think he would understand a bit more about the cleansing power of hot washes!)

We just had a 'discussion' about what we're going to do about a nursery. We have three bedrooms - two doubles, one which you could fit a double bed in but not much else. Biggest bedroom is ours, second biggest is my office, smallest has a single bed in it that folds out into a double for visitors, plus all our junk that won't fit anywhere else.

Basically, we are not going to be able to have the third bedroom as a nursery with the spare bed remaining in it - there is not enough space. Options are:

a) Move my office into the smallest room. Put spare bed at one end of the second room, and cot at the other end of the second room. Leave half of my stuff in the second room because there is not enough space in the smallest room, so it becomes nursery / guest room / my craft and book storage. When people come to stay, move baby's cot into our room.

b) Move the guest bed into my office, blocking off a lot of my storage. Turn smallest room into a nursery (god knows where all the junk will go, though).

c) Move house.

Another good solution would be to have a sofabed in the lounge instead of the fold-out bed upstairs, but unfortunately our lounge is the tiniest lounge you have ever seen - we had to have a tiny sofa custom-made to fit it - and there is no way a sofabed will fit in there.

I am tempted by option b). At least that way the baby gets a decent nursery, and I get a decent space to sit and breastfeed. No idea where we will put the stuff that's currently in the second room though, if we do that! ARrrgggghhh. I need an interior design queen to come and sort me out!

Bluebell20 · 07/04/2016 09:37

Sorry, to make that clear, we have two 'normal' double bedrooms, and then one bedroom which you could technically fit a double bed in, but wouldn't want to have one there all the time, thus the single bed which folds out!

YouAndMeAreGoingToFallOut · 07/04/2016 10:05

Bad news. My levels after the two hours were fine, but the initial fasting limit was very slightly over. So that's that. I'm "on the pathway" now. I have an appointment with a diabetic nurse on Tuesday, and then an appointment with a doctor the week after that. I'm really upset.

SpeakNoWords · 07/04/2016 10:11

youandme sorry to hear that. It may well be that they can do the test again and then sign you off. I think to do anything else would be over the top for a slightly high reading, which could be caused by a variety of things, rather than GD.

YouAndMeAreGoingToFallOut · 07/04/2016 11:00

From what I've read there is no such thing as over the top when it comes to GD - they don't seem to make any distinctions between anything. But I suppose I have to wait and see. I was trying really hard to prepare for this happening, but now it has I feel completely devastated. Somehow the borderline nature makes it even worse!

Ellizardo · 07/04/2016 11:10

youandme - so sorry to hear it, as speak says though, it sounds like a borderline case. i have everything crossed for you, but in the event that you do have GD, please don't worry!

The nurse appointment will be taking you through things like how to check your blood sugar levels with a little stabby thing and fill in the results in a booklet, dietary advice and getting a sense of whether you can control it through diet alone or whether you need drugs.

I was really downhearted when I learned, not only because the next 12 weeks were going to be even less fun with sugar being added to the blue cheese and booze veto list, but also as you couldn't really 'just forget about it' as you were pricking your finger all the time. Plus you can't be midwife led and there's an increased risk of getting Type 2 later in life. HOWEVER the moment I had Ted, the GD disappeared and I've adopted a lot of the dietary lessons in general life. My pangs of guilt, shock and even, dare I say it, shame that I had GD were overwhelmed with just getting on with the last stages of the preg and having a healthy kid. At 8lb10, Ted scored 10 out of 10 on the apgar and could not be a more resounding endorsement of a healthy preg.

Thinking of you, let me know if you want to ping me direct x

Thom80 · 07/04/2016 11:30

you&me - I am sorry to hear that. Hopefully it won't be too dramatic the impact, and as it sounds borderline it can hopefully be controlled by diet rather injections or tablets.
bluebell - I have to say that I prefer option B. In my mind I am going to spend a lot of my time in the nursery so want it to be nice & comfortable. If we don't move, we are currently offer & have had an offer accepted so it looks like we might be, I have put my foot down and said the study has to move into one of the spare bedrooms. To be honest I don't know why need two spare bedrooms anyway, and one could easily become a joint study / bedroom.

tams13 · 07/04/2016 11:37

you and me Sorry to hear about your results. Like everyone else has said, it sounds borderline (not much help, I know). My friend (who is a doctor) told me a few months ago that the rules on GD had changed so that the threshold to diagnose it was now lower. He said it and told me not to worry too much if I was told I had it at some point. Not too much longer to go now...

Bluebell20 · 07/04/2016 13:16

YouandMe so sorry that you are so upset. Totally get the fact that it was borderline is all the more frustrating. I hope that hearing about Ellizardo's experience has helped a bit. Flowers

Thom I think option B is what is going to happen - and the thought of having a lovely nursery space is reconciling me to wrecking my lovely office space. I kind of want to start moving furniture and clearing crap out NOW, but I have a book to edit, so I can't! Gah! Back to the serial killer thriller for me...!!!

YouAndMeAreGoingToFallOut · 07/04/2016 13:20

Thanks everyone. Ellizardo that's really helpful. It's especially encouraging to hear that Ted was a normal size: I am really worried about having an enormous baby!

Bluebell20 · 07/04/2016 13:48

Ha, I met some NCT 'grads' on our course on Sunday, and one mum - who did NOT have GD - had an 11lb 13oz baby born by EMCS once the hospital had realised, slightly belatedly, how utterly enormous he was. Think I would probably take an 8lb 10z with GD over a 11lb 13oz without GD!!!

Jem01 · 07/04/2016 13:54

you&me happy belated birthday!

bluebell we made our smallest bedroom into a nursery. Also agree with the others esp with newborn clothing. I've bought newborn multipacks of baby grows from John Lewis - good prices too.

Elliz Ted looks so adorable!! Also the handmade blanket is such a sweet idea, wish I was as talented!

allthegoodnames would be interested in that Red Cross first aid training discount code please!:-)

Thanks everyone for your fab advice on breastfeeding! As a first time parent you're inundated with info about it, but it's nice to hear experiences from mothers who have actually gone through it!!!

I've left hubby to look into car seats - pebble plus is our first choice.

youandme sorry to hear your results. Hopefully like everyone said it can be controlled through diet rather than drugs.

Good luck to everyone else doing their GTT. I'm still waiting for my results..may have to chase the hospital.

Can I ask what is the difference between a sleepyhead and a cocoonababy? Eg - which one is worth buying?!

Cheery1 · 07/04/2016 14:52

Afternoon all!

Right I'm rolling up my sleeves to reply to all I've missed in last week!

Elizardo - Ted is so adorable in his sleepyhead and handmade blanket!

Lucia - that moses basket is gorgeous you clever thing.

So impressed by crafty ladies efforts. I can do embroidery…..less useful for babies…ah well….boy has got some clever Grandmas (3 in total) and so far he's got a knitted blanket, a beautiful cot quilt and a hand lined moses basket on their way, more than makes up for my lack of skills!

Also great suggestions on nappies and other essentials… suddenly time is a ticking eh? Eeek.

Beautician - vest is a lovely idea - you could also make a date to do something lovely once baby is a bit bigger - a something to look forward to for both of you in honour of DH birthday? Might be nice for you too?

Bluebell - think other ladies have it covered on what you need to buy - as a first timer I'm not sure if I can be much help to you…..I'd say go with you gut instinct on car seat though, Mums do know best on most things and I'd feel the same as you getting that second hand, same with mattress. It's just not worth you being unnecessarily worried about things that are easily avoided. x

Cookies - that is so rubbish and how can they be looking at BMI when you're 6 months pregnant?! It makes me so cross! I think they seem to be so hot on GTT at the mo so I guess better to be safe than sorry. I do hate BMI as a measurement of health though - it is so inaccurate. I had eating issues in the past (whilst running marathons, well done me) and didn't have periods for 2 years because I didn't eat anything - I really wasn't very well but because my BMI was ok I never got any treatment. If you exercise you will weigh heavier as muscle weighs more than fat. So sorry for you, I'd be really upset too. Also to answer long ago question - I chose to stop running with this pregnancy. After mc last year, I just didn't want to risk it this time….didn't feel right. Trying to stay sane and not let the anxiety of putting on weight get to me. Sending hugs to you x

youandme - so sorry to hear about your results, I'd be so upset too - though sounds like Eliz will have some great advice for you. So sorry for you though Flowers Again there are some great recipes out there that can help control it with diet. Hoping you get some good care from your hospital too. x

Bluebell - we have similar conundrum and are in the process of clearing the smallest bedroom ready to be a nursery…..we have so much junk! No idea where it's all come from! We really want to have the option of a spare bed for people staying (helping!), especially my Godmother who'll coming down from Brum to help once DH goes back to work. I work from home a lot too, and we have a futon in th spare room/office which works really well and is really comfy. Just a thought. I think the reality is that stuff must go to make space for baby and baby stuff! All part of the process Smile

Any thoughts on buying a Snuzzpod if we've got a (very ancient) moses basket - don't think we can get a frame for basket and I do like the idea of basically co-sleeping…is it a waste of money? WE've got enough John Lewis vouchers to buy one but am undecided….there's so much else to buy!

minieggaddict · 07/04/2016 15:21

Just back from 28 week appt. All good so far and all measuring average. Asked about foof swelling and its normal - pelvic floor exercises help apparently.

Dodged the gd bullet - sorry you don't Youandme. FYI, I didn't have gd with DD but she was 9lb 3oz and it wasn't too bad having a big baby. In fact I never worried about delicate arms or legs when dressing her cos she was so chunky, which I would have if she'd been the 7lb I was foolishly expecting.

YouAndMeAreGoingToFallOut · 07/04/2016 15:46

Come to think of it minnie I think my "undercarriage" pain has reduced a bit since I started being more religious about a pelvic floor exercise regimen!

Cookiesandcoffee · 07/04/2016 16:06

youandme I'm so sorry to hear and also how upset you are. I think I would feel the same if I'm completely honest. Good advice from elliz and hope it can bring you some comfort. If it's boarder line is there no option for retesting at a later late? There are some great 'no sugar' recipes around at the mo so maybe some tasty but good options? I'm sure it would do me good to follow these regardless!

bluebell I would be inclined to agree. You'll want a nice nursery. And will eventually become a 'bedroom' - one thing I had to remind myself whilst choosing rooms etc (we stand no chance of moving for a long long time)
Crosses legs at thought of a 11 lb 13 baby.

mini glad your appointment went well

Hope you get your results ASAP elliz. Crossing everything for you.

Thanks for your kind words ladies. Totally agree cheery . Given I teach weight classes you would think It was extra stupid.

I barely slept last night where I worked myself up and then woke myself up crying first thing from a bad dream. Think partly to do with the fact I couldn't get comfy from where my arm hurt so much following anti d. Don't remember it hurting Hmm

Anyone else wishing away the last of the school holidays?! (Bad mum I know)

Ellizardo · 07/04/2016 16:50

youandme - re: baby size, the fact is no one knows how big baby is going to be. they were alerted to my GD because ted's belly was 'bigger than average' around 26 weeks...and of course he was a totally normal size when he eventually arrived, talk about an inexact science.

The only good to come out of it all is reducing our own sugar levels and eating more healthily for the last trimester (says the haribo fiend)...I think the NHS are paranoid about GD and diabetes in general at the moment so are being extra careful. we'll be ok!! (positive thinking please).

bluebell - i actually started sketching a plan of your house with movement arrows (!) and then ted went bananas so got distracted. sounds like your instinct is right?

Jem - i don't think there are many differences between sleepyhead and cocoonababy, other than slightly diff designs. they're about the same price?

GoingLoopyQuickly · 07/04/2016 22:18

Youandme. I am sorry about your results. I am nervous of my test as if I get "put on the pathway" I won't be able to have my home birth amd will be gutted.

Today is my viability day and I think she is celebrating by spinning around and stretching out all over the place. It is sooo painful. DS was never like this. He got into position by the exit quite early on and just waited. Or so it seemed. But I did have an anterior placenta then and a posteriour one this time.

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