MN - I know i am RUBBISH - some secrets i can keep, you know the really important ones where it is really important that no one knows, but how can you keep a secret when you are ready to burst because you are soo pleased? .
LVB&T - No worries, send her on over . We are not far away, about 45 mins up the M3 to j5.
Have been trying to figure out what colour i want the nursery to be. At the moment both the childrens rooms are painted a dirty blue colour, so i have decided that Jacks room can be 3 walls in a nice ivory/creamy colour and the 4th wall where his bed is can be a pale blue, that way it ties in with his bedding etc. And in Ella's room (how weird!) we will do the same but a pale pink on her cot wall.
Well, my sofas arrived yesterday - woohoo - and look lovely. Managed to borrow a friends van to take the old ones to their new owner, then enlisted his help to give dh a hand putting our tv on the wall. It looks lovely and we now have enough seats for all the in-laws when they come tomorrow!
Mentioning ILs - i HATE mine! Talk about another load of guilt trippers! I invited MIL, and 4 of my BIL's over as they havent been before and i thought it would be nice. All was going well until my MIl's party about 2 weeks ago when i told one of the BIL's to stop going on about how bad his lfe is and just change the subject as it is BORING and we were there to celebrate his mums b'day and not make him feel better. (He is 22 BTW). The following day he decided that he wasnt going to come on xmas day, so i thought fair enough, will be pretty lonely on his own but hey ho. WELL, last night we get a text from MIL saying that my BIL was sorry and was it ok if he still came. Now i do have enough food and we could fit him in, but dh said to his mum that bil needed to apologise to me as it was nothing to do with him (dh). BIl decided that he didnt want to do that and still isnt coming. The hour inbetween the text messages was spent with me either cross or in tears at how i am always made out to be the evil one. Coz you cant tell them that they are wrong. AAARRRGGHHHHH. TBH it will be a better day without him, and i wanted to make a point that if you say that you arent going to go somewhere/do something then you have to stick by your decision and not change it at the last minute coz you have realised that you are a complete w*nker.
Sorry for the rant!
Have a lovely xmas eve ladies xxxxx