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Scase1firsttimemum · 14/12/2015 21:25

Hello ladies, made a new thread seeing as we have almost run out of room on the last one!

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Scase1firsttimemum · 08/01/2016 07:45

I dont know whether to feel lucky or not..! Ive been hardly getting any symptoms for the past couple weeks

I get the odd wave of nausea, my boobs hurt as the day goes on but not all the time, the only thing thats making regular appearance is the doomed heart burn, hunger and fatigue! I know youre supposed to feel more energetic now its the second tri but I cant sleep through the night and it doesnt help that Ive been having work so early recently.. Ive been having to get up between 4 and 5 this week apart from today I woke up at about 6 ish Sad think I need to have a word because I wont be able to cope much longer Ill be falling asleep at the till!

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Cookiesandcoffee · 08/01/2016 07:54

insufficiently I'm so sorry to hear that, sending hugs your way Thanks will be thinking of you and hope you are getting all the support you need. It's so sad the reality of how many pregnancies end this way Sad
wanting so sad about your dog. As an animal lover it breaks my heart it I do also understand. I'm sure it was an accident but with small children I guess you just can't be too careful.
Ha bluebell i do understand! My DH had a very questionable teenage life and put PiL through hell so it lingers at the back of my mind. I would love a boy though. Love one, especially as he will be the youngest and I will make him my mummy's boy Wink the little boys I know are 'softer' than my girls tbh. DD1 has a lot of 'boy' characteristics and I've always joked she's a boy in a dress Grin

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Lucia82 · 08/01/2016 09:44

Very sorry Insufficiently Thanks

YouAndMeAreGoingToFallOut · 08/01/2016 10:17

I think I might starting to feel the baby moving, but I'm not really sure! Still quite early at 15+4, but over the last couple of days I've felt some definite strange sensations - sort of like strong fluttering? I'm pretty sure it isn't wind because (tmi) I've had plenty of that and it doesn't feel quite the same!

minieggaddict · 08/01/2016 10:20

Sorry to hear your sad news Insufficiently. Take care x

BeauticianNotMagician81 · 08/01/2016 11:06

Insufficiently so so sorry to see your news.

Bluebell as a mum to 3 boys I may be biased but boys are fab. I would like a girl purely so I get to try bringing up a child of a different sex. However, I would still be happy with four boys. Boys are so loving and my three are all very different in personality. My middle son is very in touch with his feminine side and is a definite mummy's boy. If I had a girl I would like to dress her in all the pretty dresses etc as I've not even got a niece so never been near the girls section. I would probably have a complete tomboy though. Also teenagers are hard work no matter what the sex. I was vile to my mum pretty much right up until I had a child of my own.

Wanting how lovely. Glad all is well. Sorry to read about your son but at least he is ok. Your poor mum that must be a very hard decision.

Hopes glad the scan went so well for you. Now we will worry until the 20 week scan. I'm already on count down. 7 weeks to go.

I haven't been too bad symptom wise. Any nausea has passed. I am exhausted all day though. I thought I would feel more energetic by now. I get so out of breath. In trying to walk everywhere around our town for exercise as I know I'm going to be huge. But I worry on the way home if I'll make it as I feel so breathless. The toilet trips at night haven't improved either in fact I think it's got worse. Last night I got up 4 times for a wee.

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Woodsy81 · 08/01/2016 12:02

insufficiently, I am sorry to read your sad news. Take care of yourself. x

wanting, I am glad your little boy is OK. Its always such horrible situation to be in. We had to put a family dog down once as she had gotten very old and with that very irritable around my younger siblings. It just wasn't worth the risk. Hope you and your mum are OK.

You and me, I have a had a couple of little flutters which I think are movements. It happens so quickly that I always doubt that its anything but its different to any other sensation I have felt before.

I have been feeling much more myself lately. Other than a little bump developing, I feel normal. I think I have a blocked salivary duct which I have had before. Its more annoying than anything else but can be quite painful. If its not gone by Monday I might go see the GP. Don't want it to get infected.

I watched One Born Every Minute the other night. I have never quite managed to watch it properly before. Spent most of it an emotional mess. Crying every time a baby was born. My next challenge is to get DH to sit and watch an episode with me. DH has been so good. He has been researching things such as baby monitors and sterilisers etc. (doing much more research than me - putting me to shame).

Woodsy81 · 08/01/2016 12:03

15+3

Cookiesandcoffee · 08/01/2016 13:19

Woodsy* and youandme last night I may have felt something but always could be wind with me.. But felt slightly different.

FINALLY got my NHS nt results back.. Over 3 weeks later. Feel silly for panicking they hadn't come, my adjusted results were 1:23810 & 1:19085. I didn't realise they could be so low.* blush]* way lower than DD2 in fact.

Hope your scan went well* hopes

Cookiesandcoffee · 08/01/2016 13:20

Stupid capitals Angry
my belly is DEFINITELY bigger than last week
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Hamsolo · 08/01/2016 13:37

That is low Cookies. I think mine was 1:3500 and I was happy with that Wink

We have the same due date I think! I'm also 14 + 4

Woodsy I made dh watch OBEM as research first time around. Not sure it helped. He was traumatised!

Vickie360 · 08/01/2016 14:21

So sorry to hear your news insufficently it's such a horrible thing to go through I hope you are looking after yourself.

XL · 08/01/2016 14:47

Need to catch up!!
Just thought I'd let you know I had my 12/40 scan today and I'm now a week ahead of myself and all is well soo relieved I was a bundle of nerves new EDD is 16th July but I think it'll likely be the week before as elcs
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redstrawberries101 · 08/01/2016 14:48

In sufficiently so sorry :( xx

gnat99 · 08/01/2016 16:26

Congrats XL! Glad it went well. Great that you have an extra week behind you!

Vickie360 · 08/01/2016 17:08

Hi we had our scan and everything was perfect I've been moved on so now due on the 15th x

gnat99 · 08/01/2016 17:28

Wow cookies, those nt results are low indeed. You must be delighted! ! I got my letter back yesterday after our nhs scan on Tuesday - impressed that it only took 2 days. Results were 1:4013, feel quite pleased except that am confused that they are so different from the private scan we had two weeks ago, 1:1100. Could there be that much difference in a scan at 11+3 and one at 13+5?

Really pleased with the care we have got so far, all the appointments seem prompt even if the booking in felt a bit rushed. It seems to vary so much from region to region doesn't it? Crazycatlady, I think you have been quite unlucky with yours.

Been meaning to reply to all the posts about weight gain. I thought I'd only put on about a kilo, but when they finally weighed me at the blood tests this week I was 4kg more! Am hoping it was just clothes, shoes, time of day, different scales, etc... Must have another weigh in before my shower in the morning. I'm still ok for BMI etc, but it's never a nice feeling to put on more than you think you should. Like others, I have been eating a lot although mostly healthy food. Am so afraid of fainting I am snacking a lot so my blood sugar doesn't drop.

Really hoped the nausea and tiredness would be gone by now at just over 14 weeks, but feel even more sick and exhausted than before. Am hoping it's partly just the Christmas cold I caught working its way through and next week I'll be better.

Wore my first pair of maternity trousers to work this week. Mainly because my sister had passed them on and some of my other normal pairs were in the wash. They were slightly too big still, but oh so comfortable! Think I will be OK for the next month or so but will gradually outgrow my normal clothes and need to supplement what sis has provided. In the meantime, my normal tunic dresses and leggings are a godsend.

Lastly, a comment for the herbal tea discussion (difficult to keep up when there is so much happening on this thread all the time!). I am a big herbal tea drinker and nearly died of shock when I happened to see on one of the pregnancy diet advice pages that you're not supposed to drink that much. I agree that it's probably due to lack of research, but there was a list of at least 6 teas that have been proven to affect pregnant women, so it's worth a check.

Otherwise, my compromise is to try and drink different kinds of herbal tea, so as to not have too much of any one herb. My main ones are lemon and ginger (lifesaver in the mornings!), rooibos and camomile. And cranberry if I am worried I am getting a bladder infection. I already drank decaf black tea in the evenings, so am having that more in the day instead of normal. However, black tea blocks iron absorption, so it's not a good idea to drink with meals (or even an hour before or after!). So that can also be tricky when you're anaemic.

Phew, long post! Sorry about that...

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gnat99 · 08/01/2016 17:28

Great news, Vickie!

gnat99 · 08/01/2016 17:29

Melvali how are you doing?

mascaraisamust · 08/01/2016 17:38

Sorry insufficiently Sad take care x

So I've felt great since Wednesday and now I've finished work for the weekend I've crashed! Laid on the sofa, feeling sickly and off food again Confused feel like I need a good nap!

Great news Vicki! Cookies fab result too.

Scase1firsttimemum · 08/01/2016 17:44

My maternity work trousers and shirt finally arrived at work today, and Ive never felt comfierGrinGrinGrin

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mascaraisamust · 08/01/2016 17:48

Ah it's great Scase! None of my trousers fit, living in tights and my only pair of maternity jeans! Nothing worse than being uncomfortable!

12 weeks today Grin

pulpi · 08/01/2016 17:52

So sorry, Insufficiently.

Scase1firsttimemum · 08/01/2016 18:02

Mascara- im currently living in leggings! I hate jeans but also went a size too big so have to wait until Im a bit bigger :L

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