Ooh rufus, that looks ever so swish, lucky baby! Don't think there's a single room in my house that looks that classy 
On the ELCS front, I chose one last time (and have again) owing to the history of hideous births in my family. It was absolutely the right choice. I appreciate for you it is a matter, as you say, of the least worst option, and therefore it may not be possible to reassure, but I can certainly say it was a calm and (as these things go) pleasant procedure. I hope that your MW has explored all the things that can be done, both psychologically and medically, to ease the anxiety.
On the boobs front...mine are odd. They do not change. I've been wearing the same bras before, during (and after) the pregnancies. Like who, I bf'd for a year, slowly decreasing over that time; when I stopped, they seemed to loose some 'fullness', but it was only brief and temporary.
Had the whooping cough-and-every-other-bloody-vaccination jab this afternoon, arm not falling off so far, but as it was bloody sore after the flu jab I'm expecting the worst.