It's the dream combo of carbs and couples massagers, welcoming pukey newbies and teffrifying norks, it's GTTs a go go on JS Grads 41!

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Welcome, welcome, welcome to the 41st grads thread... celebrating the success of Just Shagging in getting us viroids upduffed!

For those that don't know, a 'viroid' is from the original JSing thread 1, where someone was trying to type ladies (in reference to all the JSing ladies), but their phone decided to call us all viroids instead!

The name stuck and we've been the JSing viroids ever since.

The 40th grads thread is HERE

The thread we have graduated from is HERE in its 55th outing. WARNING: they're all a bit kerazy not to mention randy!

There is also a Just Mumming thread HERE
for once your babies come along, or to keep up with the graduated graduates!

There is also a private facebook group (so it doesn't give the game away in your news feed!)... if you want to join to see photos of new babies etc, just ask in-thread!

HERE is the stats list, please update your own spot with any updates.

Everything gives me heartburn!

Lol Lil! Her words were "well, legs are still quite close together, but if we look here, these lines indicate the labia, so it's probably a girl." Not sure how definite that is!

That's a yes honey they can't say "for sure" they just tell you what it "looks like".

At my 20 week scan I said I thought it was a boy and she said "I can't see anything it looks like it's a girl" and I was confused and asked if she had seen the lines and se said yes she had...

Better than nothing honey but yes think I'd be erring on the side of caution with that one!

Got my scan date in the post today....4/12 when I'll be 12+1 (I'm going by clinic dates now)

Is it bad that I'm mostly excited I'll be able to have sex again after that?

Yay for sex lil!

Yes, we haven't told anyone the sex yet. Will see if I can get a second opinion at next scan!

You can walk in circles round my house, each room has two doors. Heard what sounded suspiciously like a cat licking the bacon pan from breakfast. Got up from sofa to look, of course no cat there. Turn around and in saunters the cat from the other door, licking her lips. She must think I am stupid.

I've written this post three times fuck you mumsnet mobile site, I want the app back!!

pud that is so exciting!!
molly have a lovely shower on Sunday
zyla you were right, they're looking at treatment having heard my diet + results, see NFMGD below. Since you were 8, gosh, you must be a pro, but it can't be a fun thing to have to live with.
thurs sorry for the heartburn
lil yay for scan date and potential shagging!
honey cheeky puss!

NFMGD: referred over to diabetes department and the nurse there wants to see me first thing Monday. She's leaning towards insulin because metformin is more effective for people who had a high bmi before pregnancy and mine was only 20. Head spinning and feeling daunted at managing my insulin levels/self injecting!

He's left me. He's fucking left me. I was an idiot to think we were working things out. Don't think there actually is anyone else (though wouldn't be surprised if it doesn't take him long). He just doesn't love me any more apparently. Doesn't want to try and get counselling. Fuck.

Oh molly.
I'm stunned and don't know what to say.
I'm so sorry

I'm so sorry Molly!

I don't know what to do about the birth. I don't want him there but I don't want my child knowing I kept their father from their birth. And money and contact arrangements and everything....poor poor DS. I now won't spend every Christmas with my kids, or even every weekend and what about with a newborn who's breastfeeding?

Shit Molly, that's awful. Have you got someone who can come and be with you?

Oh my God Molly! Are you at home? I hope he's taken himself off out so you can think.

I don't know what to say... Other than what the actual FUCK is he thinking?!

Slow down. You don't need to think about any of those things right now. Call a near by friend right now. Aldo make sure his stupid face isn't going to be hanging round the bloody house

Absolutely do you not need to think about these things now.

He's gone, I live with parents, brothers are here and best friend coming over tomorrow (she's a journalist and in Paris). Lots of support. Just devastated.

Oh my god Molly I'm so sorry What a twat

Fantastic that you've got people around you to look after you and DS now. Don't worry about the birth, it sounds like there are plenty of people who deserve to be there other than him. Certainly your child wouldn't blame you in the future when he realises his dad fucked off aa month before they were due. The giant arsehole.

I wish he had properly fucked off to be honest. Rather than insisting he still wants to be fully involved. He's talking about when dcs are older living with me half the week and him the other half. Because that's fair on them living out of suitcases the whole time

You also have a bloody big group of viroids. We are here. You are in no way alone

He has just walked out he has absolutely no right to bring up custody arrangements right now. Everything will work out. It just doesn't need to right now

Oh Molly, I'm so sorry. There is nothing I can say to help but don't waste your energy worrying about his access problems. What's important at the birth is that you have the right people there to support you.

Ffs what is he playing at. Now is really not the time for him to discuss custody. He can piss right off. You are the primary carer, he can get lost. He is better of considering how much of his salary he is going to give you rather than how often he wants to see the kids.

Thank you. I know. Just very overwhelmed and sad. Keep thinking about what it was like bringing DS home and how different it will be now with this one. So fucking unfair