Waving our pom-poms for the thread that FINALLY welcomes MiniLa, it's carb-tastic, all day sickness and when the hell can I nap? On JS 34!

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Welcome, welcome, welcome to the 34th grads thread... celebrating the success of Just Shagging in getting us viroids upduffed!

For those that don't know, a 'viroid' is from the original JSing thread 1, where someone was trying to type ladies (in reference to all the JSing ladies), but their phone decided to call us all viroids instead!

The name stuck and we've been the JSing viroids ever since.

The 34th grads fred is here

The thread we have graduated from is here in its 51st outing. WARNING: they're all a bit kerazy not to mention randy!

There is also a Just Mumming thread here for once your babies come along, or to keep up with the graduated graduates!

There is also a private facebook group (so it doesn't give the game away in your news feed!)... if you want to join to see photos of new babies etc, just ask in-thread!

Here is the stats list, please update your own spot with any updates.

5hell I hope you bleeding has settled xx

Okay this a like the tenth time I'm trying to post this! Fucking clumsy morning fingers phone.
niff sorry yes I'm completely befuddled! Also I thought you were in Malaysia or something? Maybe you could send me the link for uhm comparative browsing?
mcarrot
5hell let us know what the mw sayss?

Thanks for all the PMA :)
Dont have a mw yet...havent told gp or got referral form etc! But i think epu is open this morning so will ring them at 9ish.

Bleeding isnt bad...only on wiping really. Did another frer and its defo darker than last weeks so gx

Gx 5hell

sly surely he should get the one you like? I mean you have to wear it for the rest of your life! I was very specific with dp, pointing out the ring I liked.

5hell gx for you, try to stay calm ish but it must be very worrying for you.

Carrot I hope you get a nap today while your DP looks after DC with a hangover

I know this might sound wrong but
I'm so glad there's some hypermobile viroids here. I have hms and am a 9 on the Beigton scale. So far I'm definetly stretchier and clumsier!

That's got to be the best thing about pregnancy, my fibro symptoms all reduce massively. Arthritis flared up last time at the end but I think that's to be expected when I was carrying around a massive bump!

Another 9 on the B-scale high five!

dislocates finger

jelly that's what I think and that's what he says he will do he just thinks it is too 'obvious'. It is quite sparkly and he is quite minimalist. It is less money than an antique one that he loved and I kind of liked but found too plain. I think the real reason I felt upset is that I'm worried about planning the wedding. He HATES being the center of attention and doesn't Luke parties. He doesn't drink and has trouble hearing in loud environments. I am stuck on the idea that we both have to love everything and that's a bit of a tall order as he is so picky

5hell let us know how it goes!

dulcet are you lurking? Does your boy have a name yet?

I paid the deposit for my new house on Friday byebye money when I was about to pay it the solicitor said "will your dad be paying the deposit?" Errrrrrr no. Why would he? Sexist cow. I've got my own bank account and everything how bloody rude.

auf yes another winner! If your Gonna do something you may as well be the best
My biggest worry is that I have a hugely unstable pelvis already

Can't believe she said that Ga! How rude!

I'm sure you'll manage to find a compromise that works for you both sky. Have you stated planning the wedding at all?

Ga that is shocking!

Indigo, I forgot to say yesterday, congratulations on the 10! Woop woop! Do you keep practising at 10 now in order to ensure you are fully limber ready for the big day?

Sky, you don't both have to love everything, but you both have to agree on everything so that you are both happy. It may take some figuring out but it will be worth it in the end. It's our first wedding anniversary today (melts into a puddle of loved-up goo) and we had such a lovely day last year but we definitely did things 'our' way which is why it was so awesome

ga that is actually, well I'm speechless. How could they even think that is an appropriate thing to say?
sky that's interesting about your disagreement re the ring. Maybe continue looking? It clearly matters to both of you a lot so maybe it is better to find something you both like rather than something one of you likes and the other has to compromise.
forms rickitty HMS-Autoimmuny Viroid band. We'll be here all night, folks!
I have to confess that whilst everything went really well with my pregnancy and I was asymptomatic on the AI front and didn't feel particularly more unstable than usual or suffer any additional dislocations, I had an accident shortly after birth during which my HMS played up badly thanks to having been even more stretchy than before pregnancy, and I was bedridden for a few months. It was totally crap and I'm still fucking traumatised. This time around I'm not driving anywhere, walking anywhere, flying anywhere, climbing anything, bending anyhow, stretching anyway, picking anything up, moving anything, or going anywhere after birth to prevent a repeat of the situation. Clearly impossible. Obviously needs therapy.

ga sexism still alive and well I see! How rude of her.

indigo congrats on reaching 10! glitter cannons

auf that's sounds rubbish! I dislocated a rib washing my hair once!

Happy anniversary pud

country It was rubbish. It never should've happened. Circumstances combine to kick us in the nuts for no discernible reasons (although a friend told me it was karma because I had such an easy birth. )
I know you'll forgive me for laughing with you about how ridiculous it sounds to dislocate a rib while washing one's hair, and how painful I know it would have been.
TBF I'm thankful every day though that I don't have Ehlers Danlos!
stupidbodies

They can't be arsed to check if I have ed tbh apparently ed and hms are the same? Has that friend been hit with a stick as that's bloody mean!
No it's definitely hilarious laugh away. Although t does win on the scale of things that hurt the most to dislocate.

Ga how fucking rude! We need a jiffy from Tee
Hurray for getting closer though

Happy Anniversary Pud
I love a wedding story, mine was the happiest day of my life. I also have a DH who hates being centre of attention and really quite introverted. He coped though, we didn't do anything that he wasn't happy with. At one point he argued with his mum who said it was getting too big for him and he told her to shut up! Ours was amazing, exactly what we both wanted. Quite traditional but all in one hotel, 60 guests, and just a fab day!

ga have you been transported back to the 1950s? Who even says that?!

auf that was a horrid thing for your friend to say! Am shocked!

Feral child actually slept quite well last night and graced us with a 6am wake up (stupid dawn chorus has been getting us up at 5). His sleep is a finely tuned and very hard won thing, it was so disordered (slept for only twenty minutes in nearly 36 hours once) we had to get sleep consultant help! And I was SO determined he was going to be a good sleeper when I was pregnant HA! Did everything right but he had other ideas! Feel I'm owed a good sleeper this time!

What a lovely Sunday, anyone doing anything nice?

Thanks for the advice viroids. Regarding the ring, we can keep looking and settle on something we both like. Where the wedding is concerned DP would like no one to attend and for no one to hear our words to each other because they are private and for there to be no reception or dinner at all and for us to go home like it is a regular night. However when I offered to elope he said we can't because his family and friends would be too upset and it is clearly not what I want either. So his compromise is that I should do whatever I want and he will be happy if I am happy. I do not believe this. I believe that no matter what I choose he will be secretly miserable and so will I.

DC just broke my music box! :(
Yes molly it was. At the time I laughed it off but was quite hurt.
oucntey no! Not the same thing! Massively not! They really really should test you!