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Jan 2016 #7 - headaches and exhaustion but 1/3 through

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brickiemum2 · 03/08/2015 14:11

As far as I'm aware though the test the midwife can offer you is unreliable and may give you a false negative result. Info here. gbss.org.uk/who-we-are/testing-for-gbs/ecm-test-where-how/

MiniTickle · 03/08/2015 14:22

Mothercare have a good deal on maxi cosi pebble car seat till the 5th if anyone is interested. They sold out over the weekend but got some more back in this morning! X

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mrsfazruns · 03/08/2015 14:47

My sister has strep b and needed antibiotics but can't remember why she was tested ... Must ask her.

We had private scan today at baby bond!! I am no doubtedly in TEAM BLUE!!!

Jan 2016 #7 - headaches and exhaustion but 1/3 through
impatientlywaiting · 03/08/2015 14:56

Yay congrats MrsFaz

MissSMartin · 03/08/2015 15:01

aww cutee congrats on the little man mrsfaz Grin x

I'm so excited to find out i have my scan next tuesday..8days abs counting Smile eeek!

MissSMartin · 03/08/2015 15:04

peneloepe Congratulations and Welcome Smile so very sorry to hear of your lossThanks x

I most definitely will just do the test myself towards the end of my pregnancy

kep1979 · 03/08/2015 15:06

Congratulations mrsfaz - I feel like we are evening up on pink v blue now Smile

sleepy I am not worried about them actually doing anything as they are massively useless but they have a habit of just making things difficult. For example five years ago I was very ill with anorexia and waiting for a hospital bed and even though I had Dr's notes and agreement with my line managers to work whenever I felt able (as I was a key person) they still issued me with a "letter of concern" about my absences! My boss isn't the greatest when it comes to hr matters anyway and has a tendency to say the completely wrong thing. So that is more my concern, that I'll have to deal with the crap. I am planning on going consulting after maternity leave anyway, so just got the get through the next 20 weeks until Christmas Grin

I am a GBS carrier too but they are less concerned as I'll have section again.

I did forget to say to midwife about the treatment I'd had on my cervix to remove pre-cancerous cells. I will try to remember to say something at the next appointment as I am a little worried about it being incompetent.

SleepyDragon · 03/08/2015 15:26

Congrats MrsFaz lovely Blue news!!

i have to confess i got a bit scared earlier when someone pointed out that by this time next year it'll all be 'over' and i'll have a 6 month old... then i got scared again when someone said i'm nearly halfway there LOL

Kep fair enough i see what you mean, they basically just follow the guidlines of 'this letter goes out at this stage' without looking into the reason why you're off it the fact it shouldn't be sent?!

Nightfall1983 · 03/08/2015 16:03

I have my anomaly scan on Wednesday. I'm only 16 weeks but they brought the scan forwards due to the baby having Down's Syndrome and wanting to check the heart etc. as soon as possible. I am very nervous about what they might find - it's been a very rough pregnancy so far and I have no positivity left in me :(

A consultant is doing the scan so hopefully will be able to answer any questions - just need to think of questions...

EdgarAllenPoe · 03/08/2015 16:19

fx everything goes well for you Nightfall.

kep1979 · 03/08/2015 16:37

I hope it all goes well for you nightfall. Have you had a look/ been in contact with one of the ds charities? They may have info about the kind of questions you may have?

MaybeMrsMum2016 · 03/08/2015 17:20

Hope all goes well at your scan nightfall.

Yay team blue has another member. Congrats mrsfaz! I'm still wavering on the finding out issue. I thought I was firmly team yellow but not so sure now, help!

It's so simple mrschatty although I had arm ache mixing it all together. Next week I might make chocolate chip cookies! I know I've used a recipe before that doesn't use eggs and they turned out really well Smile

MissSMartin · 03/08/2015 17:28

hope everything goes well Nightfall x

SleepyDragon · 03/08/2015 17:43

FX Nightfall!

Btw.... Does anyone else keep feeling just fat, not pregnant?

melonface · 03/08/2015 18:00

congrats on your boy Mrsfaz! I can't wait to find out what we're having on Saturday Smile

had some great news from work today, they're making me permanent (have been on secondment for a year) which means I don't have to worry about someone pinching my job when I'm on maternity leave!

Welcome Penelope Smile

MaybeMrsMum2016 · 03/08/2015 18:02

Sleepy I definitely feel fat and flabby, not pregnant. I don't want to become the size of a house by the end, but I do want to 'pop' soon so that people don't just think I'm a greedy cow!

Lookingforadvice123 · 03/08/2015 18:04

Fingers crossed for your scan nightfall. Hope all goes ok.

mrsfaz another team blue member woohoo! Your scan pic is fab I love how clear his bits are Grin how many weeks are you?

I'm 18+2 and haven't felt as much movement the last couple of days as I did on thurs-fri, it's too early for there to be a proper pattern though isn't it? Trying not to worry!

On a positive note ordered our travel system today Smile if anyone was looking at the Sola2 MTX they are discontinuing the lime green (which we actually prefer to the red) so it's on sale! Got the whole lot, pushchair, carry cot, adapters, car seat, isofix base, for £520 instead of £802! Really pleased, especially as we were looking at the more expensive Quinny Moodd before and the sales lady (and online reviews) actually say the Sola is better. Can't wait to push the little fella around in it!

TeenieDeenie · 03/08/2015 18:08

Congrats on Team Blue MrsFaz Lovely news!

Our private gender scan is on Sunday 16th... I have a really weird feeling I'm team pink. No reason or rhyme for me to believe this, just in my gut... To the ladies that know what they're having, did you have any incline as to what you were having and if so, was your 'instinct' correct?

Melon great news about the job, a weight off your mind I'm sure! Well done! Smile

Nightfall I'll keep my fingers and toes crossed for you on Wednesday. Really hope it goes as well. X

MissSMartin · 03/08/2015 18:31

Congratulations on the job melon bet you're very happy Grin x

Romeolovesjuliet · 03/08/2015 18:37

Hope all goes well nightfall.
Congrats on the boy mrsfaz.
We told DD (3.5) about the baby over the weekend and she is insisting it is a girl...we could have a problem!

melonface · 03/08/2015 18:43

Thank youGrin
I'm convinced baby is a boy, it'll be a real shock if they say girl on Saturday! interested to hear what other people's instincts were!

SleepyDragon · 03/08/2015 18:48

Glad it's not just me MaybeMrs I feel such a fraud! Lol!

Instincts wise I think I'm having a boy.... Which means it will probably be a girl lol!

Although I don't know if it's instincts as such or just the fact that if I have a boy I can use my late dads name as a middle name and I really want that so I am 'willing' it to be a boy ether than feeling as though it is.....

Pugmumlondon · 03/08/2015 19:01

Hi guys. Had a crap day. I won't go into the details but I'm on a FTC with an NHS organisation, who previously hosted my previous employer (arrangements like this are common where one organisation isn't a legal entity). The ftc is for a year as I am covering a secondment - person has resigned now. Originally the discussions were they would extend my contract to the end of my Mat leave and get cover. Today this changed to 'we need to consider our options - and they may not be favourable to you'.

Can someone please check my maths to see what I'm entitled to?

Policy says:

2.3 Occupational Maternity Pay (OMP)
2.3.1 If you have at least 1 year’s continuous service with the NHS by the 11th week before your Expected Week of Childbirth (EWC) and you intend to return to work at the Xx or the NHS for a minimum of 3 months, you will receive:
? 8 weeks on full pay less SMP or Maternity Allowance receivable
? 18 weeks on half pay
? 26 weeks unpaid leave
Continuous NHS service is working in the NHS with a break of less then 3 months between appointments. Breaks of less then 3 months will be disregarded though not count as service. See section 2.7 below for further information.
2.4 OMP plus SMP
2.4.1 If you have at least 26 weeks continuous service with the Trust by the beginning of the 15th week before your Expected Week of Childbirth (EWC), at least 1 years continuous service with the NHS by the 11th week before your EWC and you intend to return to work at the xx or the NHS for a minimum of 3 months, you will receive:
? 8 weeks on full pay
? 18 weeks on half pay plus the flat rate Statutory Maternity Pay (or average
weekly earnings, whichever is lower)
? 13 weeks on SMP flat rate
? 13 weeks unpaid leave

My contract started on the 12th April. My due date is 25th jan. I've worked out I just meet the requirements but can someone else count for me?

I'm so stressed and upset now. They're basically saying they think it will be too expensive to cover and that they will need to advertise externally anyway. I'd then need to prove discrimination if they didn't appoint me.

At the present time though, I just want to check I am right in my interpretation of dates. They're now also saying that my contract has to end more than 11 weeks after my edd to qualify for omp. But that's not in the policy?

I wouldn't mind but I work bloody hard, I know it's crap that I'm pregnant so soon after starting but I can't help it. And what's the point of a contract if it means nothing?!?

My mum works in employment law and is reviewing everything but any further advice would be great.

Not what I needed today Sad

Pugmumlondon · 03/08/2015 19:03

Ps. I have >5 years service so that's a given. It's the weeks I need to count.

MissSMartin · 03/08/2015 19:12

pug did your contact start 2014 or 2015...I'm being silly .. trying to do the math hehe Grin